Is it normal for a guy to get mad at a girl he rejected for telling her friends that she got rejected by him?

[Youngbrain]

A guy got mad at me for telling my friend that I got rejected by him. To be clear, I have only 4 friend who I have full confidence in and I know they didn't say anything.
The guy I "declared my feeling" ( I just ask him if he wanted to go out with me) rejected me, and now he is "mad" at me and at that time I didn't knew the reason
So I ask him and he said that he was not mad (he was clearly mad) and said that he is just scared I told everyone about it which I didn't I still have pride 🙄
In another word, he want me to be sad about his rejection, alone, instead of seeking small support and I don't understand why he is mad, I tried to make thing cool between us but he is clearly becoming an ass 🙄
What's your opinion does he have the rigth to be mad or Am I exaggerating?

[BarryLiverstone]

No, he has no right to be mad because at worse all you did was share what he said with your friends. Obv you have friends to support you and run things by so he should have anticipated they will find out by you.


As a guy we are sometimes concerned about our reputation and don’t wanna come off as a jerk to other people before they have been able to interact with us directly. Think in this case it’s why he feels “mad” because he knows that by rejecting you it makes him look bad and is worried that will hurt his reputation should he want date someone else in the future. At the time he turned you down he must have assumed you wouldn’t tell anyone else.



Sorry this happened. In the end he’s being selfish and not considering your feelings. He may also be acting like a jerk on purpose in case he thinks you may still like him, who knows? Glad you have friends to support you and help you feel better so you can find a better guy.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you for MHO

[Theworldislost]

Did you ask your friend what she said to or about him?

[Youngbrain]

They don't talk to him about that for sure nor they tease him, they are just teasing me because I said nothing about the fact that I liked him until I ask him out

[Theworldislost]

It sounds like the people you told said something he didn't like, and may have spread rumors about him.

[12karen]

To cap it all, he's a jerk lol

[Youngbrain]

I think so too🤣

[12karen]

And when I say jerk, I really mean the worst kind of, how he treats you, how he treats your friend in front of you,
Orrrrr plan B, he has a plan B like us , well like you 🤔

[Youngbrain]

Girl stop 😂the more you talk the more I feel like I'm playing with his feeling 😂

[12karen]

Ask yourself, who's playing with feeling, you or him, who is mad, what's he's doing,

[Youngbrain]

But who has a plan B and it's not just an assumption?

[12karen]

Don't you have a plan B?

[Youngbrain]

I do but it's hum a bit bitchy don't you think

[12karen]

Yeah, a bit bitchy but you're dealing with a jerk so

[Youngbrain]

Let's stop this hopeless conversation🤧

[moneymagnet24]

He with your friend 🙃

[Youngbrain]

No he is not with one of them but he was with one girl in our class that I'm not close with and their relationship ended a year ago🤷

[moneymagnet24]

You don't know but your friend having something secret with him I bet 🙃

[Youngbrain]

Mmmh🤔 it's good to know thanks🤗

[slatyb]

That's weird.

[eagle1951]

not sure about normal