I think if you want a guy to take you seriously as a potential partner then you shouldn’t lead with sex. He’ll respect you more if you wait and lead with your personality.
I think it depends. For me and my girlfriend, we were happy to have sex right away because we've already known each other for so long and waited to date until the time was right 🤷♂️
I’d say no…because if you think about it, nobody is good at sex in their 70s & 80s, so if you want a decades spanning relationship, you gotta be willing to live with bad or infrequent sex.
@beebella I'd just rather not play catch up with my 20s now that I'm officially 30s lol. I'd feel like I'd be getting a cheaper quality of what I could've had, had I been luckier so to speak in my 20s dating scene hahaha 😂🤣
If you're both sexual people, are dating one another and led with sex, it isn't a problem at all because at some stage if the chemistry ⚗️ is there you'll end up naked and road testing each other during the horizontal mambo 🤣😉😋
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Never a good idea. You gotta make him work for it
I think if you want a guy to take you seriously as a potential partner then you shouldn’t lead with sex. He’ll respect you more if you wait and lead with your personality.
Not a good idea to pursue sex so soon after meeting someone.
For the hundredth time - if we like a girl we like her, when she puts out has little to no impact on that
I think it depends. For me and my girlfriend, we were happy to have sex right away because we've already known each other for so long and waited to date until the time was right 🤷♂️
Also we'd talked about having sex before just to experience it
I’d say no…because if you think about it, nobody is good at sex in their 70s & 80s, so if you want a decades spanning relationship, you gotta be willing to live with bad or infrequent sex.
Guys won’t take you seriously if you do that. Neither will girls.
Some won't agree but sum including me would say it's not a bad idea
I don't date lol. That train left lol 🚆🚂 yet I don't mind. I figure that at 30 I'd rather not still pretend I'm as prime as 20. Lol 😂😆
@beebella I voted A 😋😁
@beebella I'd just rather not play catch up with my 20s now that I'm officially 30s lol. I'd feel like I'd be getting a cheaper quality of what I could've had, had I been luckier so to speak in my 20s dating scene hahaha 😂🤣
If you're both sexual people, are dating one another and led with sex, it isn't a problem at all because at some stage if the chemistry ⚗️ is there you'll end up naked and road testing each other during the horizontal mambo 🤣😉😋
I’m a dancer 💃
If you and the guy are into. each other, go for sex.
No, not at all
Sometimes sex can lead to dating
I've never dated for sex
nope
No I don't think so