This is kind of a test to see how money grubbing some women are.
Once during the pandemic, my ex lost a job and It was our anniversary getting closer.
He was feeling worried about not knowing what to do for me as a present for our anniversary.
He asked me what I would like to receive as a present, and he’d try his best to get it for me. But I knew it would be a lot of trouble for him.
He was an amazing painter, it was his hobby.
I told him to paint me as our anniversary present.
I was his nature and he created a very beautiful painting. I cannot imagine getting a more wholesome present for our anniversary.
So, sometimes money is not needed to give the best memories…
That painting is one of the best things I’ve received as a present.
Bruh, that looks nicer than most of the dates I've been on lol plus he food looks great and I love eating outside
Wife response: my husband (account creator) set up a date quite similar to this early in our relationship. He could afford any date and we have had some very expensive dates but the romantic ones like that are my favorites we don't really do restaurants anymore
u What do you do about the flies and the birds flying over pooping on your food?
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I don’t see an issue with that image, it looks like a lot of effort was put into it. I don’t know about it being in his backyard tho. A park would be nice to do the same thing at for example. Just don’t know about going to someone’s house unless I know them pretty well beforehand.
Nah man. Idc where we go as long as we both enjoy each others company where we can be ourselves.
i wouldn’t date someone who couldn’t afford to go out to eat. I don’t date just for fun, I date to find a man to marry and be with for the rest of my life. What kind of life would I have with a broke man vs a well off man? What kind of life would my children have with a broke dad vs a well off dad? Or at list mid income man woth his finances in order? Ok if you just happen to meet someone that’s your soulmate and you fall madly in love and can’t imagine being without him. Or the man you’re with loses his money somehow. Those are different scenarios, but to actually go out and start daying someone you know is broke and you don’t have feelings for or feel strongly is the one, why would you do that? Why wouldn’t you just go on dates with men who has more money instead? You gotta either want to be poor (and for uour kids to be poor) or be dumb to do that.
With that said, I would have no problem with a date like that. As long as the man could afford to go out but ch ose this instead for this date because he thought it would be romantic or something (not because being cheap). I think a date like this shows more effort actually than going out for dinner.
I always wanted to do a outside dinner date like in the picture. Feels more romantic, just the 2 of us, nice music that we both like playing in the background. Would be even better if we cooked the meal together and if the weather is perfect. I would say that would be 100 times more better than a fancy restaurant that is extremely expensive, to the point I would feel guilty and sad because he paid so much.
Plus on our 2nd date we went to Olive Garden and even though it's not considered as a expensive restaurant I still felt guilty when I saw the bill. I even tried giving him gas money and wanting to pay for the movie tickets and popcorn but he kept saying no. I was faking my happiness during the movie but deep down I was actually still depressed I just don't feel comfortable when he spends so much money at a restaurant.
it would behoove you to not be an ass. The best day in my life was taking my puppy sailing. She died the next day. I was so happy that her last day was sailing with me and eating fried chicken. Stop with the hate. It's poison to your soul. You're better than this. I like your posts, but not this one. Go back to being a good guy.
I like real life moments. Those rarely happen in fancy restaurants. They happen randomly grabbing two large fries, driving up to the top of a hill, pull down the flatbed door as a seat and enjoy the sunset munching cooling fried potato.
Yes and yes and he’ll get some in the back of that F150 before the night is over.
The picture or a fancy restaurant?
Fancy restaurant for sure!.
The dinner/set up in the picture doesn’t look nice & he knows I hate sitting in one place to eat outside since I hate bugs.
How is choosing a nice restaurant over the pic shown being money grubbing?
i mean, its nice but we could just do this inside so the British weather doesn't screw us over XD
The bed in the back of the pickup is a pretty subtle hint of what he's expecting.
Still, as for the question, I appreciate his honesty and effort.
This pic I would rather I don’t need to go to any fancy expensive restaurant to go on a date when there’s that ☺️
Aww. A little summer picnic is always a charming and more romantic change from the bustling week.
I'd enjoy every bit of it... it shows some imagination and creativity !!!
I prefer the outside.
I'm not used to going to uppity restaurants so I would be uncomfortable
I would prefer the effort he put in, and the intimate evening.
This date would be better than going out to a restaurant
Aww, if my man set this up for me, O think it'll be the sweetest thing he'll never done for me, that's cute,
I'm happy with either as long as the food is good and there are no insects around.
I like this idea because I get nervous in a restaurant.
I like both. 😝
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