Because a real alpha male would step up in that moment and pay instead of letting her pay. It's his chance to show his masculinity and how much of a gentleman he really is
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Because we cannot make up our minds to what we want and we hope that men can ready our minds and just pick up the whole tab.
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The women that get mad are the insincere ones. They just want to emphasize their independence and feminism by offering, expecting the guy to politely decline. And when he doesn't. they get upset... because they had no intention of paying all along.
It's the age-old double standard. Women want to be independent... except when it benefits them to be dependent.
I have actually paid for everything on a first date with no issue at all.
My issue is when the other person appears to be stingy.
I am not stingy at all and I don't think twice about paying, therefore I am not able to like stingy people.Yep itâs a shit test.
This is why I always pay for everything on first dates BUT I keep it cheap. It might be coffee, a drink or a recreational activity. That way I can know what sheâs all about because there still are pos âmeal ticketâ women out there. Itâs completely inexcusable in the modern western world but many women still expect this. Some of them are so disgustedly entitled that they will go on dates with men they have little or no interest in for a free meal. Itâs happened to me twice.
There was a time decades ago where a man was expected to pay because it was a sign he could provide for the woman. Sure men made more compared to women back then. However they are were also expected to f*cking pay for everything.
But this is also evolutionary. At a DNA level 95%+ women subconsciously want a man to protect and provide for them. A minority of them do have the common sense to realize thatâs unfair in the modern era and will split bills because thatâs the right thing to do.
But that takes mental effort for the woman. Thatâs not how women naturally react around men on first dates. Also they will only tolerate this if they already really like the guy. If they are on the fence with him there chances are there wonât be a second date. Itâs a âpenalty pointâ for him.
that's only the material girl 'princesses' or girls from super conservative backgrounds. they get mad because them offering to pay for themselves is a test to see if the guy a 'high value' man who pays for women or a cheap loser (in their eyes) who wants 50/50.
personally i always go in to pay for myself though often the dude stops me and wants to pay. when the dudes dont object to splitting the check or want to just pay for themselves, it's all good obv
Because it hurts their ego that you're not willing to spend for their company or time.
Hence you've "cheapened" them in their eyes.
Obviously, a mature woman will view it differently as there are hundreds of reasons to split a check. From not having the cash, to not wanting you to get the wrong ideas.
Main thing is that if both agree then it should be all go. If not then at least ensure understanding of why not.
Me and my boyfriend always take turns paying the bill. I don't see whats so wrong with women paying the bill sometimes. Its ridiculous when they constantly scream for equality.
It is a fake offer they don't actually want you to accept but fuck around and find out. My wife has paid I have paid during dating we went with whoever asked ended up being me most of the time
They play mine games because they want you to take initiative as a man to take care of ll that. That definitely gives you an extra point in her book. But fucked that she asked so you agree that's how it should be bro
I don't understand why men complain so much these days about paying for dates. I mean what are you good for if not that? Why not take the opportunity to show you have some value?
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because that's how the video is scripted, to be acted
They don't but go ahead, keep believing garbage you find on YouTube.
Because no matter how much feminists cry for âequalityâ they still have an innate desire for those traditional gender roles. A man who pays is a man who provides, and women want to be provided for.
Don't think of it as mad. It's a clear signal telling men what type of woman she is.
I've never ran into that problem. I never let the woman I'm with pay for anything when we're together.
They still expect the man to pay. They're just telling on themselves and won't get spoiled by him in the future
Never had that happen. But then I didn't say OK.
I did have a girl cover the whole check and leave, probably because I was in the bathroom so long she thought I ghosted her mid-date.
Do we? I wouldnât. On the other hand, I do love romantic gestures like the guy insisting on paying it himself. But I defo wouldnât get mad if I offered to split the check and he accepted.
Cuz they silly. Some people are silly like that.
Women are making their own dating lives shitty. Not men.
Because modern women are the biggest hypocrites in the history of humanity.
I guarantee most or all of the women in that video were feminists.
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