Why do women get mad when they offer to split the check and the man says okay?

[coachTanthony]

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Vmbsp9Fp9g

Stop testing men lol

[Apple1996]

Because a real alpha male would step up in that moment and pay instead of letting her pay. It's his chance to show his masculinity and how much of a gentleman he really is

[msc545]

It is also your chance to demonstrate that you believe in equity and are not a greedy bitch.

[Apple1996]

@msc545 some of us women do no believe in that. A man not paying shows that he's a beta bitch. It's not even a date at that point anymore. Just a awkward outing between two people

[msc545]

Luckily, nobody here wants to date you or anyone like you.

[Apple1996]

@msc545 I don't think my husband would allow anyone here to date me 😂

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣

[Apple1996]

@coachTanthony I would never settle for a beta 🤢

[coachTanthony]

I know 😉

[_piotr]

How sexist and greedy.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr it's acutally greedy on the man's part not to pay because he thinks his money is more valuable then our time together

[_piotr]

It is actually greedy on the women's part not to pay because she thinks her money is more valuable then our time together.

[_piotr]

Face it! It is inherently sexist to think that one person should be in worse position and pay, just because they were born male.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr that's just the way our world works. Men are natural providers. Women have other duties in life like having childern

[_piotr]

Smart answer to remain insensitive to men's plight and be greedy. You would probably try to convince slaves to remain slaves had you lived in the past. Sorry. People are just not this stupid.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr sorry I just wouldn't risk my life birthing babies for a man that couldn't even pay a bit on a first date. It has nothing to do with greed. The money isn't a factor it's more about him showing that he's a gentleman

[_piotr]

Sorry, but I would not risk my life being with women who is sexist, egoist and feels entitled to men's money.
The money isn't a factor it's more about her showing that she is a good person.

Double sorry, but your attitude torwards men is just plain evil.
Women are not queens or gods. You are same human being as a man.
So stop exalting yourself above men. You are not a superior being.

(Matthew 23:12)-->
For those who exalt themselves will be humbled...

[Apple1996]

@_piotr you don't risk your life to have a wife or childern...

[_piotr]

I risk. I do not belive in divorce, so If I marry an egoistical, sexist women the rest of my life would be pitifull, miserable and worthless. It would be better to not exist. I do not want to be treated like slave.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr being a man and financially providing is not slaving

[_piotr]

It is.

[_piotr]

I wonder how you would view that if you were born male and were mistreated by women.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr if I was a man I'd still be a provider for my woman regardless of how other women act because I don't put all women in the same category

[_piotr]

Of course for you it is ok, because you are a profiteer who exploits men.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr nope I just love my husband because he's a good man. He's not rich so not much of a way to use him for money

[_piotr]

"If was a man..." Why "if"? What will change? Nothing! Why do you not want to provide for men or for other people NOW? Hmm? You just do not want to "degrade" yourself to a level of a man, whom you subconsciously (or maybe consciously) despise, isn't it?

Once again -> you are not a diety! Get over your self importance!

This discussion is mute. For me it is obvious -> you promote immoral, spoilt and entitled behavior. It is like discussing wheather Hitler was bad or not. It is obvious he was evil. There is no doubt here. Nothing to discuss here.

You won, of course, by being born women. You are showered with priviledges and elevated above men. Not everybody had such luck however. But you even do not feel bad for people beneath you. You want to squeeze money out of them so much! It is appalling! Shame!

I wish you could be turned into men for a decade or more. How would you feel to be exploited and treated as a sceond class human then? Do not respond, ponder. It is a rhetorical question...

[Apple1996]

@_piotr men are not treated badly. They just have different roles in life

[_piotr]

Yes. Like Hitler believed that other races have different role than Germans - to die in concentration camps or serve their "Aryan" masters. What you represent is just like slavery or fascism, only gender based. Please save your propaganda for someone who is gullible enough to swallow these lies.
I am out. Have a nice day.

[Apple1996]

@_piotr well when men start popping out babies and breastfeeding I will then believe in equality and pay my half 😂

[Matas_56]

I do not let girls pay neither I split. So I'm not beta bitch.

[blueonblack22]

@Apple1996 there times you can argue what is and what is not “alpha” male behavior.

Shit testing a man by offering to split the bill and then penalizing him when he accepts doesn’t make him a “beta” male. The expectation just makes you an entitled freeloader. This isn’t 1955.

But what you said is what I always suspected how many women think.

[Apple1996]

@blueonblack22 you have to understand some women are traditional so yes to us it's still like 1955

[Apple1996]

@blueonblack22 I'll be honest tho I would never get mad like this or try to test a man. I'd make it known up front that I want a traditional man

[blueonblack22]

Well many women “test” men here regardless if the man knows it or not.

Personally it’s not a money issue but a respect issue. I don’t mind treated women out when I know the truly appreciate and are interested in me.

But there are women out there who will seriously go on first dates with men they have little or no interest just to get a free meal. It’s happened to me twice.

It’s not the waste of money that burns as much as feeling disrespected like that. That’s why I always keep first dates cheap (I pay for everything). Helps me see what she is all about.

Truth be told I think 90%+ of women deep down want a man to provide for them. But ever since more women have entered the workforce, demand more money and make more money then it’s a giant hypocrisy they set themselves up for.

[electromagnetic]

Because we cannot make up our minds to what we want and we hope that men can ready our minds and just pick up the whole tab.

[AviatorTom]

The women that get mad are the insincere ones. They just want to emphasize their independence and feminism by offering, expecting the guy to politely decline. And when he doesn't. they get upset... because they had no intention of paying all along.

It's the age-old double standard. Women want to be independent... except when it benefits them to be dependent.

[Account]

I have actually paid for everything on a first date with no issue at all.
My issue is when the other person appears to be stingy.
I am not stingy at all and I don't think twice about paying, therefore I am not able to like stingy people.

[Account]

I mean I have paid for both of us. I do the same with friends we take turns paying for each other, it is just nicer that way.

[blueonblack22]

Yep it’s a shit test.

This is why I always pay for everything on first dates BUT I keep it cheap. It might be coffee, a drink or a recreational activity. That way I can know what she’s all about because there still are pos “meal ticket” women out there. It’s completely inexcusable in the modern western world but many women still expect this. Some of them are so disgustedly entitled that they will go on dates with men they have little or no interest in for a free meal. It’s happened to me twice.

There was a time decades ago where a man was expected to pay because it was a sign he could provide for the woman. Sure men made more compared to women back then. However they are were also expected to f*cking pay for everything.

But this is also evolutionary. At a DNA level 95%+ women subconsciously want a man to protect and provide for them. A minority of them do have the common sense to realize that’s unfair in the modern era and will split bills because that’s the right thing to do.

But that takes mental effort for the woman. That’s not how women naturally react around men on first dates. Also they will only tolerate this if they already really like the guy. If they are on the fence with him there chances are there won’t be a second date. It’s a “penalty point” for him.

[4ngelic]

that's only the material girl 'princesses' or girls from super conservative backgrounds. they get mad because them offering to pay for themselves is a test to see if the guy a 'high value' man who pays for women or a cheap loser (in their eyes) who wants 50/50.

personally i always go in to pay for myself though often the dude stops me and wants to pay. when the dudes dont object to splitting the check or want to just pay for themselves, it's all good obv

[jshm2]

Because it hurts their ego that you're not willing to spend for their company or time.

Hence you've "cheapened" them in their eyes.

Obviously, a mature woman will view it differently as there are hundreds of reasons to split a check. From not having the cash, to not wanting you to get the wrong ideas.

Main thing is that if both agree then it should be all go. If not then at least ensure understanding of why not.

[Simslover92]

Me and my boyfriend always take turns paying the bill. I don't see whats so wrong with women paying the bill sometimes. Its ridiculous when they constantly scream for equality.

[Nikki1989]

They don't but go ahead, keep believing garbage you find on YouTube.

[coachTanthony]

LOL.

[Hellur991]

They play mine games because they want you to take initiative as a man to take care of ll that. That definitely gives you an extra point in her book. But fucked that she asked so you agree that's how it should be bro

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why men complain so much these days about paying for dates. I mean what are you good for if not that? Why not take the opportunity to show you have some value?

[_piotr]

Because that is sexist. It shows that women do not value us, but our money. It shows how lazy and entitled women are.

[moneymagnet24]

@anonymous

I agree with you 😂😂😂

[handsomelad70]

@_piotr Hasn't it always been that way for many women, but now some are becoming overt gold diggers?

[moneymagnet24]

What gold digger?
You want her pussy. You want to fuck her. You want to suck her boobs. "AT FREE" in return you can't even buy a fucking lunch for her on date?

[JacobJordan]

It is a fake offer they don't actually want you to accept but fuck around and find out. My wife has paid I have paid during dating we went with whoever asked ended up being me most of the time

[NathanDavis]

because that's how the video is scripted, to be acted

[Anonymous]

Because no matter how much feminists cry for “equality” they still have an innate desire for those traditional gender roles. A man who pays is a man who provides, and women want to be provided for.

[_piotr]

Why are women so greedy, lazy and use man for money? It is immoral.

[Opinion Owner]

Men need to be more cautious about the kind of women they get involved with. Instead of greedy, seek a woman who is generous. Instead of lazy, seek out a woman with a good work ethic who manages her time wisely. Seek a woman who will be an asset, not a deficit.

[ChiTown33]

You're right pink anon except for one thing. Women have the luxury of being choosy. Men do not have that luxury. Then man who tries to be choosy simply doesn't date.

[dustybiker2]

Don't think of it as mad. It's a clear signal telling men what type of woman she is.

[Wiredone]

I've never ran into that problem. I never let the woman I'm with pay for anything when we're together.

[CheeseMonster]

Cuz they silly. Some people are silly like that.

[zagor]

Never had that happen. But then I didn't say OK.

I did have a girl cover the whole check and leave, probably because I was in the bathroom so long she thought I ghosted her mid-date.

[Anonymous]

Do we? I wouldn’t. On the other hand, I do love romantic gestures like the guy insisting on paying it himself. But I defo wouldn’t get mad if I offered to split the check and he accepted.

[sirderpsalot123]

They still expect the man to pay. They're just telling on themselves and won't get spoiled by him in the future

[CriticalCatDad123]

Women are making their own dating lives shitty. Not men.

[Plugs]

Because they didn’t wanna date a girl but a man

[Anonymous]

Because modern women are the biggest hypocrites in the history of humanity.

I guarantee most or all of the women in that video were feminists.

[dudeinohio]

I had that happen to me. Fortunately, that situation didn't develop into a relationship. Women are wired kind of ilogical.

[Peridot25]

I’m guessing it’s a test and they were expecting the man to say, “Nah, I got this.”

[Sirius1]

Expectations going unmet. And lack of DIRECT communication. Not all of the implied signs.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't get mad, I always pay for myself

[worldscolide]

Because they don't actually want to pay, they expect the man to pay regardless.

[SexyRedd1966]

My rule is, if I ask you out I'll pay, but if you ask me out... you pay 🤷🏾‍♀️

[coachTanthony]

How many men have you asked out?

[msc545]

Because they EXPECT men to say no and are unprepared for them to say yes.

[RingOfFire]

"Why do women get mad when they offer to split the check and the man says okay?"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You devil you. 😈

[Billlewis]

Because guys should always pay, period.

[_piotr]

Should not! Period.

[lmkimcurious]

I don't know but they shouldn’t offer it if they don’t mean it

[noohair]

It is a test. And if you flunk, they get mad.

[Anonymous]

Most don't get mad. We offer for a reason

[TommyMountainFigure]

That is what happens with hollow gestures!

[RedInnocent69]

Because it’s a trap.