I just turned 19 and im a virgin. I had a prom date last year and it almost happened but she decided she didn't want to. I really don't care other than people tease me. I am not really that interested in sex or dating. I work full time at a stock brokage firm I work 10 yours a day mon-thursday. Friday i get to stay at home to study for my test. I study all day Friday and half day saturdays then i have soccer games too. Sunday is my day off. I really have no interest in dating. No im not gay, i find chicks hot I just have not interst in dating or anything? I haven't been on a date or even really talked to a girl since prom last year.. Whats wrong with me?
Dude don't stress too much about it. Some guys just aren't into the dating/hookup scene as much when they're younger. Nothing wrong with that. With your busy schedule between work and studying, it makes sense you don't have tons of free time or energy for relationships. Focusing on your career and future is smart at your age.
A few things that may be going on - one, you sound like a loyal, focused guy. Once you commit to something, you really commit. Maybe girls seem like a distraction. Two, you're still young - your priorities will likely shift as you get older and more comfortable in your own skin. Three, you could just be slow to warm up to romance and that's fine.
Instead of labeling yourself or worrying what people think, I'd say keep an open mind but don't force it. Work on being a good friend to girls, get comfortable talking to them without expectations. The right person will come along when you're really ready. In the meantime, own who you are - not being into hookup culture doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, bro!
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You could be Asexual. In any case my advice to you is to completely ignore what others think, say or do. Only focus on what you want to do and your life purpose and your eternal purpose. When you live truthfully, life is peaceful.
It’s not your time yet, bud. You’re only 19. Be patient with yourself.
Dude someone will come your way
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You are overthinking this far too much. If things are going to happen, they will.
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