Am I unusual for having this value in a guy I date?

[jennifer_bloom]

For me the most important trait in a guy I'm dating is that there is no bickering or fighting in our relationship. I will choose a 500 pound blind guy who does not fight or bicker over a 6"6 surgeon who models clothes if the guy has anger management problems. I don't mean only abuse but even trivial fighting is something I will instantly dump a guy over.

[sawno]

No not at all, I had a relationship with no fighting and its a must for me. Issues are to be talked out and solved, not fought. My intention is always to seek a way forward, I want that to be her intention to. If she can assume the best and is open to finding a way to make a difficult situation or argument work together then we can survive anything in the relationship. If she were to assume I am malicious and begins fighting then that to me is a sign of a bad relationship and i'd second guess if thats the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Of course there are always difficult moments, of course there have been moments of mutual hurt. But to me fighting is when your actually attacking each other verbally or assuming malice or purposefully getting things further heated.