Traveling 9 hours to take a girl out to dinner/ weekend adventure. How to navigate our second outing?

[Crimson13]

Me (32m) took out L (28F) back in May. We had a nice dinner and played some mini golf. I though it went well asked her out again and she agreed. Something came up and she had to reschedule due to an unexpected trip to visit family and she got really busy so we stopped talking.

This week, 2 months later. I asked her if she moved back to her home town and she did! She lives Bout 9 hours away now by the coast. We briefly caught up, and I asked her if I could take her to dinner as I plan to tKe a few short vacations and I've never been to that area.

She said: *yes that sounds great! But maybe as friends because I'm not looking for a long distance relationship. So I understand if you don't want to"

I said I'm cool with it (and I am) and we are actively planning the trip for me to come down and visit her. Going to take her to dinner and then play tourist for a day!

And I am open to the idea of L is interested in me, and if long distance is the issue, it might not have to me. Coincidentally I am actively selling my house and am planning on moving to a new area (been in hometown forever) so I'm not opposed to the idea of moving closer to her to get a fresh start and see if there's something there.

IF she seems interested in me during this trip. How do I approach the subject of sewing where things can go? I. Genuinely ok with moving anywhere for a new experience and if she interested then why not near her right?

[CuriousHubby]

Very tough cause it's a lot to move and life is the opposite of movies! Usually girls don't like you moving unless it was Thier idea!

Also sounds like she has someone already or at least went on a date. a lot of girls have several guys in different towns.

This is one you just bite the bullet ready for rejection and you don't start moving till she says she wants you moving!

Either send her a sweet romantic real letter or just tell her on the phone or wait a few weeks to tell her as a friend you want out of the friend zone by moving for her!

Probably won't go badly! Good luck