3 moThis is going to be difficult to write. Because I am not trying to be a judgmental of a religious group or nationality. I can only tell about what I experienced. I can only speak about the ones that I had to deal with and the ones that I considered growing rich from servicing. So , I will try to make this as broad as possible. Many groups still think that a woman's place is secondary to a man's. If she is able to support herself or succeed in business she is accused of moral misconduct. Even worse if she is a success in business, her husband, if she is married, will cut her off. In fewer word her husband reverts to a three year old. Instead of realizing what a treasure he is blessed with, he embarrasses both himself and his wife and his family. It sends many executive class women to the psychiatrist for therapy.
In some states of the union, the laws regarding prostitution are more lax than others. So much so that if a Psychiatrist writes a prescription for Sexual Therapy to supply what is missing from a woman's relationship with her husband, due to him withholding sex from her as a form of punishment because of her success in business. All she has to do is visit a Sexual Surrogate with the prescription. He provides the needed therapy and her husband's attempt at regaining control fails. So, to answer your question, it appears that men do care if their women have a better paying job than they do..
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Leave it to degenerate weirdos like you to bring their cuck fetish into a conversation about women's income.
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Anonymous(30-35)3 moI think most men would prefer to make all the money and for women to stay home with children. It bares the most potential for a committed relationship, and for the best turnout for the kids. And it’s that man’s ideal place for her to be protected from any outside influences or pressures.
So long as women are going to work and put themselves at the exposure of countless men that would do anything for a piece of ass, it’s not ideal for the guys trying to hold down a relationship. It’s almost like her want to go clubbing but the “lite” version.
I get that people need to make money, but that’s why I said men make it all, and then women partner up with a suitable man and she focuses on her womanly duties.
Thats one thing I never understood… the women all want to get educated and work, until they’re 35, realize they never had kids and their window is rapidly closing, and then they want to not work at all, be provided for, and the world is not set up for that anymore.
It’s one or the other… I don't know why you guys put yourselves through the stress. Take some political action and make the world better for all of us. Because we men, need to work. We want to work. And we want to work to support a woman and children, but the way things are today, we are not getting any of that. We make half of what we should, and it’s getting worse not better.
Clearly we can’t have it both ways. Unless we suck the establishment c*ck and go to school so we CAN make more money, just to find out we lose our jobs to AI in 5 years and have insurmountable debt we can’t pay off. No thanks.
We have the fight of our lives knocking on our doorstep, and both men and women need to be ready to stand for what we truly believe in.
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3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'll say it depends on the couple. Personally, if you're with a partner for life, you'r pulling the proverbial cart together, no matter who makes what. Having said that, guys tend to have much more fragile egos than they like to admit, so yes, the "best breadwinner" title is something the guy will naturally go for bc he's looking for a gal that has the better skill set -- nourishing his heart and soul. It's not just a money thing, it's a skill thing. Primal "protector" mode only goes so far do them... and they often need protecting too. The gals need to stop being idiots and know that.
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3 moI could make big money as a matchmaker, a musician, a personality profiler, a fortune teller, or a copycat media plagiarizer. I do not make big money because I refuse to lie or cheat my way to riches.
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I can speak for any other man
But for me know you meet somebody that you like. She has a job if she's happy and content. That's what it's all about. She is who she is, and that's the reason why you like her and her job is her job and for me, I don't even think about that. I'm more interested in who she is. What kind of heart does she have? Is she beautiful person on the inside? Is she happy I don't care how much money she makes. I don't care what she does as long as she's happy. That's how it counts10 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. The vast majority of men do not care about that unless she's still not doing her part in the relationship i. e. helping to pay bills, buy food, etc. Those are things your classic textbook case high-maintenance American women are concerned about vice versa. Most men want a partner who is happy with them regardless of how much she makes, and they don't care if a woman has a college degree or ph. d either.
I know guys who have girlfriends that make way more than them and yet they still expect to be treated like princesses, having their guys buy them stuff, and will just leave him to pay for rent and everything. So I'll stick with the admin assistant making minimum wage.
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3 moIt's never mattered what job a woman has for me, and I'd say most men share those thoughts.
Women are generally the ones who care whether a man has a low paying job.
Although he was a little crude with his words, he's somewhat accurate. Obviously, not all women are like this, but a good many are.
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u 3 moMy wife works in a grocery store. She likes her job and she is happy. That is all that is important.
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Asker3 moMaybe she is manager there
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She works in the deli. Most days, she works 6 am - 3 pm.
Asker3 moAs a retail?
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She slices meats and cheeses, makes sandwiches, serves hot foods, and sometimes works in food production.
Asker3 moAt least she helps you earn money.
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I am very happy to have her in my life.
Asker3 moAww wish I could find a nice guy too :')
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Most women are looking for flashy, charismatic guys instead of solid, dependable and faithful men. Look and you’ll find what you want, but know what you are looking for.
Asker3 moWell most women would wanna date a hot man over a nice man.
I actually am still thinking of my old friend has athletic body smart, witty, nice everyquality he has is what Im looking for sadly he ghosted me.- 3 mo
Do you know why?
Asker3 moI don't know he just left. Maybe he found someone else. Or married by now. I should be moving on but I can't move on like I always think about him.
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How long has it been? This sounds like a major impediment in your life.
Asker3 moIts been 3 years since he left and I think about him everyday.
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You need a mental health counsellor or therapist.
3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, just as long as she is a worker and can financially support herself , is all that matters to me , because I want a partner, not a user
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+1, this.
16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Admin assistant is perfectly honest work. Unless you think AI will eliminate all such positions, I can't imagine a guy would have a problem with dating a woman who was an admin assistant.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. No. Just as I didn't care if she was richer. (dated both).
Not saying poor girls are better or worse, but they will not have the experience or etiquette of running in high class company. They tend to get insecure, if not out of their depth, pretty quickly.
I remember dating a middle class chick in uni back in the day. She was all starry eyed about a designer purse my sister had on the night out. Apparently it cost more than she made in a month... but her soul left her eyes when she was told it was among the cheaper purses in her cupboard full of purses.
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Asker3 moDesigner purse?
2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I'd hope to have stability and her have proper job benefits, yes, but the real world isn't like dating apps.
Nobody will be an ideal partner for as long as we fail to understand what we really need by getting hung up on checkboxes.
If she's poor but I love her, the second part matters and the first, considerably less. I want her to succeed more and for us to both push eachother higher, yes.
I'd only walk out based on occupation if it involves sexual acts with other people and/or nudity intended for others to see00 Reply- 530 opinions shared on Dating topic.
3 moIt doesn’t matter as much to men as it matters vice versa.
But what really matters if whether or not a woman is looking to be financially dependent on a man. Especially if she has nothing to offer in return (besides sex).
Now if they get married and she has his kids that’s a different story. But there are still a lot of free loading women out there. It’s biological impulse women have that while natural can also be unacceptable if it’s about entitlement.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)3 moNot if she's a good person and we see eye to eye on money matters. I saved and invested my entire life so I would have passive income. As it stands right now 2/3 of my passive income pays for my living expenses. I figure in about 7 or 8 more years. It'll fund my living expenses entirely (of course that's dependant on the next 7 or 8 years. maintaining the avg. of the last 25 (which is NEVER guaranteed). But the point is as long as we are similar regarding money matters how much she makes isn't highly relevant.
by the way. Where I live the avg. Admin. Assistant make slightly above a livable wage here. I understand wanting to get ahead and all. But you're doing better now than I was doing at your age. Keep your head up!! You're not doing bad.👍💯
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Asker3 moWhere do you live?
Opinion Owner3 moThe midwest. The state i live in is one of the more affordable states to live in. The drawback? The winters can sometimes be harsh. But it's definitely a trade I would make any day.
Asker3 moWhere exactly? by the way Im not American
Opinion Owner3 moYou don't need to know exactly. I'll tell you it's one of the top 10
The top 10
1. Mississippi
2. Arkansas
3. Oklahoma
4. West Virginia
5. Kansas
6. Alabama
7. Missouri
8. Iowa
9. Tennessee
10. Indiana
Now only 4 of those are midwest states.
Asker3 moWtf why so secretive? LOL
Opinion Owner3 moThis site has a lot of crazies. I've been stalked before.👍
Asker3 moOh you must be attractive.
Opinion Owner3 moNope. Not in the least. Lol
Asker3 moOh so why is that?
Opinion Owner3 moWhat do you mean why is that? I was just giving you an perceived assessment. People stalk people for all sorts of reasons here. And it was probably more her and less me. Not anything to do with my attractiveness. I don't even think I had a profile pic back then.
Asker3 moI have never been stalked by someone. Thank God for that also I live in Asia its not like someone can still stalk me where I live from this site.
Asker3 moSome people are crazy yeah also thats creepy to stalk someone. Do you have any idea why she stalked you?
Opinion Owner3 moWell I told her that pets do not have souls. Because they don't. She was an animal lover and took deep offense to it. And followed me from question to question for two weeks after that trying to pick a fight with me. After that I decided if I shared an opinion that might ruffle some feathers it would be best to do it anonymously.
Obviously you agree on some level. You're anonymous here.
Opinion Owner3 moBy the way I just said they didn't have souls. I still think animals deserve humane treatment. This is why I say she was irrational. I wasn't suggesting anything like animals didn't feel.
Asker3 moBut if she's hot would you date her? I bet she's ugly af LOL
Opinion Owner3 moI wouldn't date her under any conditions. I like animals. But I couldn't date someone who tries to humanize an animal. And the fact that she reacted the way she did shows how unhinged she is.
No. But what i have seen is that a woman who marries and still has to work a low paid job resents her husband. Thats why id never get serious with a waitress, barmaid, barista, checkout girl, fast food employee because I worked with those women in my youth and have seen them cheat.
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3 moThe question for me is what are you pushing yourself towards? What are you achieving in life? What are you growing towards? What steps are you taking to achieve those goals?
Goals don't need to be career-related.
Regarding work, everything you do in life you should strive to do well. I expect a woman with that attitude and a good work ethic... her wage rate does not concern me.
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To be completely brutal, most of the great admin assistants I have worked with are materially younger than 30 years old. I have had a couple of great assistants over that age. My impression is that the limited scope of work eventually makes it dull for most, but not all, people.
Asker3 moYeah I was 27 when I started working as admin assistant. Its boring job but its okay.
3 moFor the most part I've never met a guy who cares what I do. They don't even ask. I was dating the same guy when I switched from working as a waitress at the Olive Garden to working as an art director. boyfriend couldn't care less lol. I mean, he was happy for me because I hated the server job, but it didn't change anything.
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all though I'd prefer a broke waitress as it is more a caring profession than admin.
Her qualities are of far greater importance than her $'s per hour rate. Men's mate selection criteria are different to women's selection criteria.
Calm, nice, caring is good to go.
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3 moNot really. The amount of money a woman makes is completely irrelevant to the vast majority of men because most men aren’t looking to women for any kind of resource provision. 0% of that money is gonna be spent on me so I it’s pointless to even think about.
Low Erner is fine as long as she’s not in a bunch of debt and perpetually broke.
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Anonymous(25-29)3 moDepends on who he is...
If he is an ivy league educated man or a professional such as a doctor or lawyer, it is highly unlikely he would go for an admin assistant
If he is a garbage worker or construction worker or someone less educated, he would be more likely to accept an administrative assistant
People tend to date those of their own kind
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Asker3 moFunny because I have a degree and you can't get an admin assistant without a degree.
Opinion Owner3 mo@Asker
You can definitely become an admin assistant without a degree. Admin assistant job isn't skilled work.
Asker3 moOh how about manager? Because my friend who works in USA doesn't have a degree and he became a manager.
I know maybe my country's standard is just high for a low skilled job.
Opinion Owner3 mo@Asker
Skilled work requires specializes training that non trained people would have no knowledge of. For example, fixing electric circuits when lights stop working. Investing managers who know how to generate millions per year. Nurses who know how to monitor patients for signs and symptoms before bad things happen.
If anyone on the street can do it, it's not skilled work
Opinion Owner3 moBy the way, if you have a college degree, you can do way better than admin assistant. But it also depends on what you studied. If you studied useless stuff in college like sociology or feminism then you will only get a shit job like receptionist work
Asker3 moLol I have a degree in Business Administration.
Opinion Owner3 mo@Asker
It's very hard to get a good job with that. But the long route can be that you can slowly work your way up to office manager or something.
Opinion Owner3 moConnections are key to finding jobs in every field. But it's even more important for people with a BBA like you.
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3 moAn Administrative Assistant can be a decent paying job TBH.. That's definitely not "low paying".. I guess like anything depending on the experience.. But, most guys don't care.. We don't look at what type of job the woman works to see if we wanna date her..
00 Reply 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes, I care because that means that she's been depending on the money earned by others and has no respect for herself. She is likely to be someone who is not only dependent on me but tries to take advantage of me in order to get money from me. I'm not going to do this.
00 ReplyIt depends on the person.
Some men might care because of societal expectations or personal preferences, but many value **character, ambition, and compatibility** far more than a salary. A person’s worth isn’t defined by their paycheck.00 ReplyThey usually do not really care since they want to be providing for you to some extent or at least make more money than you. Some prestigious men will only date prestigious women but there's plenty that wouldn't mind your job
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3 moI care less about the money she earns and more about her initiative and ambition. Just show me you have some drive and a work ethic. Some curiosity about life. Show me there's somebody alive in there. Show me you're not some couch potato.
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Anonymous(30-35)3 moHell, there's even lower paying jobs touching garbage or trash with gloved hands - sometimes even jobs with touching excrement with gloved hands
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And they're low paying
Let alone meat factories and etc low paying jobs, more involving waste collection,01 Reply
Opinion Owner3 moThe smell , oh the smell ,👀
3 moWomen spend 80% of a household's disposable income, so they either need they need to earn four times what their man earns or they need to learn to be frugal and stop spending so much money. Your spending habits should reflect your income.
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Anonymous(36-45)3 moUnlike the vast majority of women.. Men simply do not care weather or not she works let alone what kind of job she has.. Why women cannot grasp this is baffling. Men are different than women, we value different things. So your achievements mean absolutely squat to us. Be proud, but don't expect us to care.
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Opinion Owner3 moThe only thing that does matter, is weather or not she's happy doing what she does.
Most men don't care, no.
Men will marry a waitress if she treats him well, and makes him happy. We care more about the quality of woman, and her personality, than her paycheck.
00 Reply13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Mostly we don't. There are plenty of attractive intelligent people who are not in white-collar jobs. In Seattle I've meet many servers in restaurants and bars that I would love to date.
00 Reply972 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think they do as long as she is a hot mamma. Imagination blends out their logical thinking
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3 moI wouldn’t care, because how would I feel if I was looked down by my partner for making a certain amount of money.
00 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well frankly with the requirements put on males , they certainly SHOULD , it's hardly a one way street..
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3 moI have never factored a woman’s job / career into consideration other than it being legal and not porn related or adjacent and never would.
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3 moNever say Just. She's an administrative assistant. I've never done the job but I've worked with many. It looks like a very important and difficult job. I couldn't do it but I'm just a financial analyst
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Asker3 mo"Just a financial analyst" but its better than admin assistant job.
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Is it? I just look at numbers all day and tell stupid bosses what they mean. It's just a stupid job
325 opinions shared on Dating topic. It is not a woman's money that a man is after.
10 ReplyMen don't care about how much money a woman have, most gold diggers are women.
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Anonymous(36-45)3 moSome care. Men are just as likely to be gold diggers as women are.
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Asker3 moLol..
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No not true at all
6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I can't speak for other guys but no I don't particularly care whether she has a high or low paying job.
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3 moNot really. I care more she's good at her job
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Anonymous(25-29)3 momen tend to care significantly less about a partner's income than women do. Many men still hold traditional views where they see themselves as the primary breadwinners.
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u 3 moProbably not. A lot of men would prefer to make more money than their wives anyway.
00 Reply Idc about it
As long as she is happy with the job she has I can make the money
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3 moI believe that the vast majority of men don't care about that. It's far more important for women regarding the prospective man as a potential provider.
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not at all. What matters most to me is personality.
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3 moI think most don't care.
More important things to a relationship at least a good one than a person's income unless that person is looking for a certain lifestyle.
00 Reply I would like to say it doesn't matter. However, If you can't take care of someone in sickness and health then you shouldn't make that promise at the alter.
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Anonymous(25-29)3 moNo. I don't want her to value me for my income, so how could I value hers? Overall compatibility is most important.
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3 moThe only men who care are losers and soyboys. The more masculine and successful a man is, the less he cares about a woman's income.
00 Reply 369 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think many men kind of prefer that to be honest.
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Asker3 moReally why?
Asker3 moYou think so? Because men are supposed to be breadwinners?
Anonymous(18-24)3 moMost guys my age don’t care. And rich guys really don’t care unless they suspect she’s a gold digger.
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3 moYes but the only difference is they dig it from caves 😂.
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3 moI don't love a woman based on her earnings. Wish they do the same 😔
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3 moI would only care if we were in real financial trouble. Admin Assistant sounds fine.
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3 moI would respect her work ethic, I would find it attractive,,,
00 ReplyI don’t. And an administrative assistant I think is a good job 🙂
00 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Of course! How else am I supposed to retire early if she's not a high-earner?
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3 moAs long as she has an income that meets base self-sufficiency as though she's living alone, thats all we want. Honestly it's base for all sexes.
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3 moUsually not, because most men still believe they should out-earn a woman.
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Asker3 moLol because men are supposed to be breadwinner you say?
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To most men, yes.
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3 moNo. Men are not like women. A millionaire would date a McDonalds worker if she's hot enough.
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3 moLargely no.
Personally I wouldn’t date someone that doesn’t have any work ethic00 Reply
3 moNot if she is hot and attractive!! If she is for a man its all that matters.
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3 moNo, we want a woman who will stay home and care for our children
00 ReplyMany men want high paying salary women. So, yes. Men care when women salary is high
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