In reality, neither side has it easier. Rejection really isn't any fun for either side unless you're just toying around with someone's feelings just for 'kicks' like some people, male and female like to do. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy.
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Below average looking/social skilled guys look at above average looking/socially skilled chicks and think "women have it easier." Guess what ... you won't find hot guys complaining about their prospects, either.
The guys on GAG crying that "Girls have it sooooooo easy" are only looking at the hot girls, when, in fact, if they were hot guys ... they would have it easy too.
i'd say good-looking women have it easier than good-looking men do since the good-looking man still needs to have confidence, social-skills, conversation-skills, the right attitude, mindset, has to be comfortable and content with himself, has to life or have a happy life without a girlfriend, being single
Do you know any good looking men? They are doing fine, unless they have mega damage from the past (which also beats the hell outta good looking women).
well, it does makes sense. due to work and such, women have a smaller social circle then so they are not pursued by the dozens of charming confident guys who pursued them before (against whom the likes of me don't stand a chance), also quite a lot of these guys at that age are in serious relationships.
which means they must either lower their standards significatively and date guys who in their 20's they would at best have felt pity for, or prefer to be single.
Most girls will say no as the poll indicated but I vote guys because we have to do the approaching but its about even because the girl has to send signals that she is interested too on top of looking good.
Every time a girl goes on a date, a guy is also on a date. Every time a girl has sex (hetero) there's a guy who's having sex too. So how could it be any harder for girls as a group OR for guys as a group?
i'm sick and tired of that stupid argument "I mean honestly, if a Girl has a boyfriend, doesn't THAT then imply that a guy had a girlfriend?", BECAUSE THE GUY HAD TO DO ALL OF THE WORK IN ORDER TO GET IT STARTED!
I can see why you'd be sick of that arguement--it pretty much kills the notion that girls somehow have sex easier than guys do. Seeing as how they have EXACTLY the same amount of hetero sex. . .
well guys have to initiate everything, do the chore, work of making it happen, the girl decides whether sex is gonna happen or not since she just has to welcome the advances or deny them
Actually, most do. You're just focusing on HOT girls. You can't do that as a fair comparison. The average girl gets a MUCH better caliber of guy if she has social skills.
true but an average girl without social-skills, she can at least a get a guy period, as in a guy she is physically attracted to, he may not be her type attitude/personality-wise, character, status-wise, and since guys have to start all of the conversations and keep them alive, prevent any pauses, awkward silences, etc. that goes to show you that social-skills are far more important to men than to women
Sure. But looks are far more import for a woman to be successful than for a guy. And at least you can develop a personality. There's only so much a girl can do to be hotter. Many will never get there.
Yes. Absolutely. This very question basically assumes that. If the guy's being honest he isn't really asking if "women" have it easier than men when it comes to dating. He's asking if "women I'd like to date (because they are attractive)" have it easier than men when it comes to dating. Because honestly, no one cares what unattractive women think or do. That's also why there's a perception that there are more guys than girls. Because we don't even SEE the ugly ones.
I don't answer all of them, and I don't have a "hate" for them.. however, there is a search bar for a reason. If the question is already there multiple times, don't ask it again.
So what if he was a player? At least you probably got a good time, boose and other stuff as well. We men rarely get anything at all. Plus sorting out peop;e is so much easier than trying to impress somebody.
"You girls don't need social skills or conversation skills." You're pretty delusional there. If I had no conversation skills or social skills, I'm pretty sure no decent guy would want to make me his girlfriend. Likeim pretty sure that would be a major turnoff
Please explain what I said was rude? I'm not the one who's telling these ''So called Players'' to approach you. Also I'm not the one putting a gun to your head telling you, you need to talk to them.
Telling them to approach me Hahahahahahahahahahahaha that's funny why woul I tell them to approach me and everything you are saying is rude passing judgement on girls thinking we have it so easy in life my his maybe if you where nicer to people maybe you would get a date but since you have the mantality of a child maybe you should grow outta your pampers first and then learn how to talk to women with respect then maybe just Maybe you would be able to get a date or whatever your looking 4
You don't even know me, so you're ranting makes no sense. FYI I'm actually really shy around people especially women. Its not my fault I was born male and its also not my fault you dress like a cheap $2.00 dollar slut. And lastly who are you too talk all you have to do is say next to someone you don't like and move on. Like some here said girls don't need confidence as much as guys do.
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In reality, neither side has it easier. Rejection really isn't any fun for either side unless you're just toying around with someone's feelings just for 'kicks' like some people, male and female like to do. Nobody ever said it was going to be easy.
Below average looking/social skilled guys look at above average looking/socially skilled chicks and think "women have it easier." Guess what ... you won't find hot guys complaining about their prospects, either.
Why would the hot guy be complaining? What's he gonna complain about?
That's my point, dude. It always looks easy when you look at hot/charming people...
And my point was your point made no sense.
LOl this sh*t made no sense at all.
The guys on GAG crying that "Girls have it sooooooo easy" are only looking at the hot girls, when, in fact, if they were hot guys ... they would have it easy too.
i'd say good-looking women have it easier than good-looking men do since the good-looking man still needs to have confidence, social-skills, conversation-skills, the right attitude, mindset, has to be comfortable and content with himself, has to life or have a happy life without a girlfriend, being single
Do you know any good looking men? They are doing fine, unless they have mega damage from the past (which also beats the hell outta good looking women).
yes because they have confidence, are comfortable and content with themselves
Whoops, wrong copy cast :P this link
my sister broke up with a guy and then like a week later she found another guy, like wtf.
Anyone want to disagree with thatguyguyguy?
Not to mention girls can be chubby and any race and still get dates. Then girl wonder why guys are a**holes because everything is against us!
The tables turn dramatically when men hit their late 20s, and women hit their early 30s.
u sure about that?
Yep. Men have more resources at that age, women start to age. Men have their pick of the litter, women are in for a bumpy ride.
Unless, of course, men are ignorant to this fact.
how is it the accurate truth?
Only one way to find out.
But a word of warning, if you are determined to be miserable and fail with women, it is very, very easy to do.
and it's very very hard for women to be unsuccessful with men
Not sure why this raked in downvotes when its very, very true.
how can I find out if it gets harder for women as they age?
well, it does makes sense. due to work and such, women have a smaller social circle then so they are not pursued by the dozens of charming confident guys who pursued them before (against whom the likes of me don't stand a chance), also quite a lot of these guys at that age are in serious relationships.
which means they must either lower their standards significatively and date guys who in their 20's they would at best have felt pity for, or prefer to be single.
Most girls will say no as the poll indicated but I vote guys because we have to do the approaching but its about even because the girl has to send signals that she is interested too on top of looking good.
I would agree with you when it comes to the first date or two..but after that then no...just no...(:(:(:
yes, because they don't need to love themselves first before someone else can, it's okay for them to get validation from guys but not vice-versa
wtf are you guys talking about. where did you grow up- in a zoo?
in a home, I know I am right
Every time a girl goes on a date, a guy is also on a date. Every time a girl has sex (hetero) there's a guy who's having sex too. So how could it be any harder for girls as a group OR for guys as a group?
i'm sick and tired of that stupid argument "I mean honestly, if a Girl has a boyfriend, doesn't THAT then imply that a guy had a girlfriend?", BECAUSE THE GUY HAD TO DO ALL OF THE WORK IN ORDER TO GET IT STARTED!
I can see why you'd be sick of that arguement--it pretty much kills the notion that girls somehow have sex easier than guys do. Seeing as how they have EXACTLY the same amount of hetero sex. . .
well guys have to initiate everything, do the chore, work of making it happen, the girl decides whether sex is gonna happen or not since she just has to welcome the advances or deny them
girls don't need social-skills
Actually, most do. You're just focusing on HOT girls. You can't do that as a fair comparison. The average girl gets a MUCH better caliber of guy if she has social skills.
true but an average girl without social-skills, she can at least a get a guy period, as in a guy she is physically attracted to, he may not be her type attitude/personality-wise, character, status-wise, and since guys have to start all of the conversations and keep them alive, prevent any pauses, awkward silences, etc. that goes to show you that social-skills are far more important to men than to women
Sure. But looks are far more import for a woman to be successful than for a guy. And at least you can develop a personality. There's only so much a girl can do to be hotter. Many will never get there.
you really think they are more important for women?
Yes. Absolutely. This very question basically assumes that. If the guy's being honest he isn't really asking if "women" have it easier than men when it comes to dating. He's asking if "women I'd like to date (because they are attractive)" have it easier than men when it comes to dating. Because honestly, no one cares what unattractive women think or do. That's also why there's a perception that there are more guys than girls. Because we don't even SEE the ugly ones.
yup, they don't have to have confidence but we do
I hate that excuse I can have all the confidence in the world. but still get turned down all because I'm not good looking or rich or muscular enough.
Agreed. Not to say they have it easy, but they definitely have it easier than guys.
yeah they do and they get their dates paid for and if he doesn't pay he is cheap apparantly lol
Of course women have it easy in dating. All they gotta do is sit around & look pretty.
This is so useless and ridiculous. 6 girls and 49 guys voted YES and 31 girls and 7 guys voted NO. What does that tell us? Absolutely nothing.
My personal opinion is definitely NO though.
Okay, so I've personally seen this question on this site like five times.
you disagree?
So have I. The guys on this site are whiny cry babies
So why do you keep on answering them then? If you hate these question so much don't answer.
I don't answer all of them, and I don't have a "hate" for them.. however, there is a search bar for a reason. If the question is already there multiple times, don't ask it again.
women do not need social-skills or conversation-skills, THEY DON'T NEED CONFIDENCE!
So your telling me what to and not to ask lmfao.
Actually, I'm telling you my opinion on what you shouldn't ask.
Slight difference.
And I'm telling you my opinion what you shouldn't answer.
Oh, good come back!
Don't like what I said then don't answer dipsh*t.
women can be bratty, boring, have no life, and still attract men
LOL..weeeeeell..she's bratty, pretty, sexy and attracts men...but she has a life and she does not bore me...(:(:(:
Yes; I feel bad for boys sometimes
finally a girl agrees
as a girl I would agree
Of course not.
No gender haves it "easier"
Disagree all we tend to find is players well at least I do
Regardless of who you end up with, it was still easier to find a date initially if you're a girl.
Quality is more important than quantity, though. Just because you are a guy who can't find a date, doesn't mean the rest of us (especially me) can't.
^ That's your problem not mines.
That's kinda rude maybe you suck at attracting women due to your sh*tty additude ya think
you girls don't need social-skills or conversation-skills
So what if he was a player? At least you probably got a good time, boose and other stuff as well. We men rarely get anything at all. Plus sorting out peop;e is so much easier than trying to impress somebody.
Is all your going for is the buff hot guy that's popular?
"You girls don't need social skills or conversation skills." You're pretty delusional there. If I had no conversation skills or social skills, I'm pretty sure no decent guy would want to make me his girlfriend. Likeim pretty sure that would be a major turnoff
U men get nothing ha ha that's a joke you men get more then us girls
Please explain what I said was rude? I'm not the one who's telling these ''So called Players'' to approach you. Also I'm not the one putting a gun to your head telling you, you need to talk to them.
Telling them to approach me Hahahahahahahahahahahaha that's funny why woul I tell them to approach me and everything you are saying is rude passing judgement on girls thinking we have it so easy in life my his maybe if you where nicer to people maybe you would get a date but since you have the mantality of a child maybe you should grow outta your pampers first and then learn how to talk to women with respect then maybe just Maybe you would be able to get a date or whatever your looking 4
You don't even know me, so you're ranting makes no sense. FYI I'm actually really shy around people especially women. Its not my fault I was born male and its also not my fault you dress like a cheap $2.00 dollar slut. And lastly who are you too talk all you have to do is say next to someone you don't like and move on. Like some here said girls don't need confidence as much as guys do.
girls don't need social skills or conversation skills since they don't have to do the approaching
WTF. of course not.
well at least for ugly girls. they still have to work for it like men, sadly