- We have far more options when it comes to clothing, and styles. - We can be both tomboyish, and girly. - It'a far more acceptable for us to cry sometime. - We don't have to be strong, but we can if we want to (sport, gym). - We don't have to approach man, and pay for dates (But we can if we want to). - We can get free drinks and meals much easier and more often than man. - Female curves are sexier, and more appealing to the eye. - We are more pretty usually. - We don't have to worry about our penis size, cause we don't have one. - We last longer in sex. - Hair loss is much less of an issue. - Womans day!
Yes, being a woman is overall better.
No, being a man is overall better.
None of them have it better or worse.
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- We have far more options when it comes to clothing, and styles. - but men aren't concerned about this, so it really doesn't matter. - We can be both tomboyish, and girly. - Real men have no desire to be girly, so this isn't an issue for us. - It'a far more acceptable for us to cry sometime. - Real men cry but they usually do so in private and that's just okay with us. - We don't have to be strong, but we can if we want to (sport, gym). - We are strong and glad for our strength.- We don't have to approach man, and pay for dates (But we can if we want to). - A real man feels good approaching women and I don't know about other guys, but I am never concerned about paying for dates, even if the date is $150+. - We can get free drinks and meals much easier and more often than man. - We can pay for or own drinks and have no need to feel that we are using someone else for free food or drinks. - Female curves are sexier, and more appealing to the eye. - Most women are attracted to men, not other women, and that works out well for us! - We are more pretty usually. - I've never had a problem attracting women for dating. - We don't have to worry about our penis size, cause we don't have one. And I don't need to worry about whether I have a thigh gap or hip dips, or any of that other silly stuff. And I don't get self-conscious if someone starts talking about the itty bitty titty committee. - We last longer in sex. - Advantage to men, there. We get satisfied more often than women. - Hair loss is much less of an issue. - What? Do bald women REALLY have an easier time dating than bald men? Hahaha, hell no! But not an issue for me because I have a full head of hair.
Aside from this rebuttal, the most important question is: What advantage is there in comparing which gender has a better life? If you are a man, you accept a man's life and you deal with it. If you are a woman, you accept a woman's life and you deal with it. It's not as if you can REALLY change your gender, so just deal with it!
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So you are coming with the "real man" stuff. Being a real woman is easier than being a real man. One more benefit.
I am talking about real men because that is what most men want to be and that is what most women want in a relationship with a man.
"Being a real woman is easier than being a real man." It is easier for you because you have decades of doing girl things and of course it is easier. . . for you. That doesn't mean it would be easier for a guy! We have decades of acting like men and that is what is easier for us.
Again, what is the point of the comparison? The question is overwhelmingly subjective and any answer depends on the bias of the person answering the question, and. . . suppose I agree that being a girl might be easier; is there something I'm supposed to do with that information, like go apply for disability benefits?
Ha Well then you would experience pain and bleeding 🩸 all the damn time. You wouldn’t be able to walk around outside or inside without a shirt on. You’d go to Jail and put on the sex offenders list for indecent exposure.
Yes I would love to be a woman in a Western country. In the rest of the world, women have to deal with a lot of things like having acid thrown on your face, getting raped brutally (things like iron rods being inserted) etc. I can't even imagine the plight of the women and girls who live on the streets in countries like India. They are at the risk of all sorts of crimes including their body organs being taken out and sold. Female foeticide, infanticide, dowry deaths etc. still take place. Needless to mention the misogyny we have to face. Men who are not virgins demand virgin wives here. It is dangerous to venture out at night without a trustworthy man accompanying you. I can't even dream of travelling alone in a bus or train due to the fear of being molested. I love being a woman but it comes with its downsides in certain countries. I don't exactly know what it's like to be a woman in any Western country because I have never lived there but the crime rates are lower. The conviction rate is also higher which acts as a deterrent to crime.
That depends on the era (s) & jurisdiction (s) of residence, as well as how the specific person maximizes the advantages of women.
As to your points: 「- We have far more options when it comes to clothing, and styles.」 True.
「- We can be both tomboyish, and girly.」 Yes, and I'd say this is a subset-truth of the previous truth.
「- It'a far more acceptable for us to cry sometime.」 Yes.
「- We don't have to be strong, but we can if we want to (sport, gym).」 Yes, it's an option, and not a mandatory requirement, though I'd still recommend some training in self-defense, since evil still does exist in this world.
「- We don't have to approach man, and pay for dates (But we can if we want to).」 True.
「- We can get free drinks and meals much easier and more often than man.」 Hell, yes.
I saw in Moscow state-media R. T. Documentary (for whatever it's worth) on the Russian sex-industry about a woman who essentially makes a living dressing-up, waiting in a gas-station, and requesting random men for gas-money ($10-$30 per request)… which "easily" gets her $150 per $1.5hr-"shift" (max. $450 in 3hr.'s), with her generally doing 2 shifts, in different gas-stations. (Note: The 2020 median wage in Russia is $450 per month.) https://tass.com/economy/1301957 (also Moscow state-media T. A. S. S.) https://www.rbth.com/business/330451-average-salary (also Moscow state-media Russia Beyond the Headlines)
So if this is to be believed, a woman can spend hours for 1 mere week dolling-up, and use her feminine-charm on guys to out-earn them who labor for a month, and relax for the rest of the 3weeks. And sex wasn't even used (unless the documentary-makers omitted it). If that's not power, W. T. F. was that‽
「- Female curves are sexier, and more appealing to the eye.」 That's undeniable truth.
「- We are more pretty usually.」 Another subset-truth of the previous truth.
「- We don't have to worry about our penis size, cause we don't have one.」 lol True. But aren't there counterpart-insecurities about bust-size?
I think you´re list of arguments is too one sided. Yes you don´t have to worry about penis size but you worry about bra sizes or the way your vulva looks plus as a guy there way less hygiene products I have to pay for hence I don´t have a period. Plus our hygiene products are often cheaper but still have the same or even quality. Yes you can cry more openly in public but that´s a stereotype and not a benefit of being a woman because the necessity for me to cry isn´t that high. Women not needing to pay for dates will vanish in the future hence more women have academical degrees and therefore will make more than guys. So the chance will take a woman on a date in an expensive restaurants will go down. You might have more options of dressing but I don´t want many options like I´m over all comfortable in not having so many options. by the way women´s clothes are often not practical our trousers pockets are often bigger and deeper so that there is no necessity for us to wear a handbag. Women being more beautiful is true but they gain from that because it has been more important to guys in a partner than it was to women in the past. Guys naturally have the possibility to be more stronger and be able work under stress. All in all both have different struggles that are not necessarily comparable the biggest issue guys face at the moment is that society is turning against us in a way that society is structered in favor of women.
I'm glad to be a man and accept thr responsibilities that come with my role.
I think in our current times women have a lot or privilege in the sexual and dating scene, I think they're privileged and catered to by the law especially family court.
I think feminism did exactly what it set out to do set women free from their traditional roles.
The opposite is true of men, we are very much not privileged in the sexual and dating scene, I think namely woman have been overpriced in a saturated market, and with apps given an infinite number of options. The burden of performance and approach is namely on men most of whom must meet certain criteria.
Meb are not privileged in the law when some women get halved sentences and family court is so biased.
And men are not free from they're traditional roles as protectors and providers which begs the question if we're equal or not. When 1 side is asked to perform and get nothing for it, no investment from the other party.
Understand most of that is societal and people have always been people. Someone decided to change up the game and it's made it harder for men and women than any other time in our history this is why women seem this way now. in my opinion it's very much a social change.
- We have far more options when it comes to clothing, and styles. Well i dont want to wear a dress. Its also nice to be able to wear jeans a tshirt and sneakers basically everywhere with no expectations of being dress sexy or beautiful. - We can be both tomboyish, and girly. Why would i want to be girly aka a wimp dude? - It'a far more acceptable for us to cry sometime. Why would i want to cry? Makes no sense. - We don't have to be strong, but we can if we want to (sport, gym). Im automatically stronger than basically every woman and many men. Seems good to be in the top half. - We don't have to approach man, and pay for dates (But we can if we want to). doesn't matter because men make more money i can pay for dates i want or pay for an escort or pay for something nice for myself. My money my rules. - We can get free drinks and meals much easier and more often than man. Dont care. I have money and everything i get has no strings attached since i pay for it. - Female curves are sexier, and more appealing to the eye. This is good for men. Since i fuck women its nice they are so pretty. Id rather fuck a 10 then be a 10 and fuck people less than a 10. - We are more pretty usually. Same as above. - We don't have to worry about our penis size, cause we don't have one. Why would i worry about my dick? Im quite happy with my cock. - We last longer in sex. Irrelevant. As long as i nut what do i care? - Hair loss is much less of an issue. Dont have to play with my hair for an hour to leave the house. - Womans day! Never heard of this, so is it even a thing? What even happens on it? doesn't seem like a benefit.
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So people in America don't know what woman's day is? March 8th.
Yeah I don't know im in the US and i wouldn't be surprised if there's such a thing as womans day but never heard a person mention it or seen anything done for it ever.
Sure women can but men can get more women than a woman can... easily too. 😝
I don't think that woman can get less, but regardless, quality over quantity. At least our value doesn't come from how much woman we can get with. What a terrible mindset.
Thats what you think is mens value? Smh. Men change the world. Women just whine a lot. Thats why 99% of all the wealthy people are men or women who married those men. Lol. Since they can't do it themselves.
You forgot some things: Women don't usually have to worry about being hit. Most sex toys are made for you and cost WAY less than any made for guys! You get to make most of the final decisions. You can dance with each other and even hold hands and nobody thinks it's strange. You can even have sex with each other and most people will love it and applaud you for it! Guys will be called fags and made fun of!! You will get hired for a job faster than a guy will just BECAUSE you're a girl. You get your way more often. If a guy tries to make his dick look bigger, he's made fun of. If a girl tries to make her tits look bigger, everyone loves it! What's women's day? Are you referring to the magazine?
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Womans day! March 8th. I agree with the bisexual, and the penis part, but the rest is not true.
Woman find jobs harder a lot of times because man are stronger, more competent overall, and woman can get pregnant.
Sure, if you're with an abusive guy, you stand a chance of being hit but most guys refuse to hit a girl. However, they have NO qualms about hitting a guy for the same infraction thrust upon them by a girl! Have you ever priced sex toys? Dildos run maybe $10.00. A fake pussy costs at least $100.00! Mine did and that was on sale WITH a 10% off coupon!! I don't think I can even find a FleshLight for less than $20.00. Nearly every big decision a couple makes, she tends to get the final word. I've lost pout a number of jobs to women even though I was more qualified! My ex-sisters had daddy wrapped around their little finger and they got away with MURDER!! They could do NO wrong and, if they did, I'M the one that got blamed and punished for it!! This is the first I've ever heard of women''s day. When did they come up with that one and when is men's day?
Although I'm not 100% sure about what I'm about to say, but I would imagine that a woman would (generally) gain some benefits, but at the cost of some nuisances.
a lot of the pros/benefits would be related to conveniences. Things that could make their lives "easier". Such as not having to do as much work as men... Well, outside of their workplace. (which my mom seems to abuse though. -_-)
While said nuisances are usually 'cause of the kind of men that thinks that women are meant to "serve" them instead. (or) "use" them for their own benefits. Things like that.
Not all of those apply. For size, women worry about breast size. More pretty/attractive? Then why do women need make-up and men don't? For hair loss, men look decent bald, but a woman looks horrible bald.
Plus you know, the whole thing about a man being able to murder her with his bare hands if he wanted to is a pretty significant drawback of being a woman.
I agree that life is much easier for women in some countries (USA especially) but I wouldn't trade being me for it and being so helpless and being able to get killed so easily. That outweighs many of those other benefits combined in my opinion.
Lasting longer in sex lol you cannot achieve orgasm in minutes which guys can actually it's a disadvantage to you girls and just blaming it on men but i see how that table is turned on guys showing that it's there problem that's funny.
Being a women is lot of responsibility If taken into good consideration.
You have more choices more headache that's why most women are undesicive have you seen the questions in gag itself what it means if a guy does this if a guy does that some are even funny.
No matter how well you choose you would still feel you would have got better deal with someone else.
You have to choose to have kids and that too with a right person or your whole life just turned upside down
don't forget to add that we need to give up our careers to raise our children. we have to spend enormous amounts of money buying bras and pads / tampons, makeup. we make less money and get less respect at work than men. we have limited childbearing years. we tend to end up being more as single parents we tend to be more frequently under poverty. we commit less crime, but we tend to be victims of crimes more often because we are weaker
You'll also get less time in jail for committing the same crimes as men, take everything from a man when it comes to divorce and have other women making excuses for your BS instead of holding you accountable, so yeah, I guess it is.
Despite all that, feminists will still cry 'oppression'.
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Not really. It could be the case that it's better to be the average woman than the average man. I think being male is a more high-risk/high-return endeavor.
There you go. It's part of the reason why it's incredibly unhelpful to try to draw ANY interesting conclusions about "men" or "women" in general. Those groups are WAY too big to be meaningful. You need to dig deeper and partition more finely to make any intelligent and/or useful statements.
Again--not true of "men" as a group. "Men" as a group have it JUST as easy or as hard as "women" as a group when it comes to dating. Because EVERY SINGLE TIME a woman is dating, so is a man (speaking only about hetero relationships here). So once again, you need to divide the groups up much more finely than "all men" and "all women." Nothing of any interest comes from that level of analysis.
Why do you have to complicate things more than needed? Man are expected to do the approach in general, they put more work into it. Woman want man who are very confident. How the hell that isn't harder? I wouldn't have the confidence to approach a guy, or even ask him out for a date. I also wouldn't have the flirting skills to keep the conversation in control. This isn't easy. All of my female friends agree on this. They are lots of man suffering from confidence issues, and it ruins their chance with woman.
I'm not complicating things--I'm making them very, VERY simple. Every time a girl gets laid by a dude, a dude is attached to the other end of the penis doing the laying. So pretty much by definition, it can't be any harder for men "as a group" than it is for women to get laid. If you want to find groups for which it is harder, you need to dig deeper.
There are slightly more women than men the last time I checked. If you're going with "on the planet" then I'm guessing the issue is China and India and sex selective abortion. Else, there are slightly more females than males that are born, and slightly a greater percentage that survive to reproductive years. So I disagree.
OH! You want to talk about PRETTY girls now, do you? GOOD!!! Because as it turns out, THAT is one of those finer gradations I was talking about that can lead to an ACTUALLY meaningful analysis! ;)
Somewhat yeah, although there are many benefits of being a woman there also many negatives. Although women can last longer at sex most of the time men don't keep up with them leaving many girls unsatisfied, girls also have periods and and there is a lot of sexism too. It's a complicated question.
No. Neither men nor women are better than the other. Each have their own unique gifts, abilities, and talents to offer each other and society. Each have their strengths and weaknesses, their struggles and their advantages.
easier in a lot of aspects sure but i think there’s something so rewarding about being a man in life or death/dangerous situations where i’m more likely to survive it 🤷♂️ There’s been times i’ve nearly died and thought to myself if i was a girl i would’ve never made it.
Yah Having a Period and bleeding 🩸 with Severe pain sounds like a lot of fun oh then there’s childbirth sounds fun Where exactly do I sign up for such funness?
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Always the same two excuses. You aren't even a woman. Not all woman feels pain during periods, and there are pills too.
Pills are fun too. Have you seen all of the things it can do to you. It might prevent pregnancy and might make my pain tolerable. But it wasn't worth gaining all that weight and the depression. If I knew that would happen I would have never taken it.
Some of those can be both positive and negative right? But there's one thing I do like about being a guy, I don't get pregnant or have to give birth! Or get a period every month lol.
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