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Attractiveness is relative but obesity is certainly unhealthy there's no question about it. Although majority of people think obese people look extremely unattractive and so do I.
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God, I don't know her but it looks gross.
Like women don't want to see short or "nice guys" i don't want to see this.
She is so fucking gross
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For what it's worth then, everyone is perfectly entitled to live as they want, they can do as they please as far as I'm concerned with this codicil, do no harm to others either by your actions nor by your words.
I think then this is something that most people can get behind, however where this gets murky then is when a celebrity like her makes overt statements about her body, which to be fair is on any scale grossly obese if not hedging towards morbidly obese which any doctor will say is very dangerous. Now here's a question I want everyone to think of, if you trust a doctor when you aren't well and ask them to make you well again why is it they are wrong when it comes to body weight.
Now I understand that she is breaking a mould but ask yourself this would you want to be her weight if not but your saying how beautiful she is then you are the problem because your pandering to a progressive narrative that states at any size when your heart is working three times as hard as it should and your body is wearing down faster than it should be for your age you are encouraging dangerous attitudes and behaviours.
I don't find her attractive not because if her weight but because of her attitude and behaviour, I find her dangerous and frankly an idiotic puppet used to push a narrative of people who will drop her the moment fat isn't fashionable.
Yes she and others of her weight can be accepted but it's dangerous and disengenuos to say that she is healthy or you can be healthy at any size, yes there are people within the correct weight for their height who are very unhealthy, cholesterol count as an example, but for those a minor change to diet and some exercise is all that's needed for others then a major shift in their relationship with food and exercise is needed.
I know she does a show for 2 hours of singing and dancing ok great but then vacuuming down 30 big Mac's afterwards is the issue not the exercise all that's doing is placing undue strain on her heart and I wonder how many people will when she collapses on stage, blame themselves or point to processed foods.
What's worse is that now she has the wealth to eat a healthy balanced diet but refuses for a dangerous ideologyI don't know what you're on about. I'm a bisexual woman and all I can say is that I find Lizzo very sexy and curvy. She brings out that sex appeal more than the skinny models that you apparently like. She's not promoting obesity, she's just out there saying that if you have a curvy body, you have to love and be yourself at all times, and loving yourself means also being healthy (many girls aren't but that's another story) I know lots of girls that just have the big body type ( big rip cage, big shoulders etc. ) And maybe their body fat is avarage, but because they have big bones it's gonna stick out as "oh she's big/ fat"
I admire Lizzo cause even tho she's curvy, she's out there saying to the world "yeah ok, I'm not a model and I've got fat , but I can be as beautiful as all the other girls out there" I like her self confidence. It's sexy and most guys like that body confidence that she has. At the end of the day attractiveness is subjective and if you don't like her or her body type that's fine, but just don't judge her or her choices. In this society there are so many skinny modeling girls on instagram who are almost promoting anorexia with all the bikini pictures that they post, that may and can affect young girls dealing with their body weight and obsessing over the perfect model image that this society has built over the last years.
You may not know this but in the past bigger women were preferred much more than skinny ones.
This is just my honest opinion :)What's she suppose to do? Go live in a hole and wear ugly clothes because she's fat?
I admire her confidence. For all you know she could be working on losing weight but not gonna quit life.
She can still love herself in the mean time. Get over itKind of. The thing is people like her, as well as the fat girls who probably think that this is great, are deluded, dumb, weak-minded. Because they're too lazy to do anything to lose weight, instead they decide to convince themselves that they can still be attractive despite being obese. There's no helping those people. The only reason this woman gets support is because there are so many women just like her. Especially in America, where 71% of people are over-weight.
I think the only one Lizzo is promoting is herself. I've not heard her championing obesity as something to do and she is VERY young. You can be obese as a young person. She will most likely become tired of her aching knees, feet and back after she passes 30. It's too bad she's stretching out her skin so much it'll never snap back. She's a good looking woman. When diabetes and all the rest of those health risks start crowding her... she might start living differently.
That's a stretch.
I think fat celebrities are promoting their songs. That's it. I don't get the impression they're promoting their body type.
They just chose to work with what they got now and be confident which isn't necessarily a bad thing, coming from someone who has been suffering with eating disorders since the age of 15 and could use self confidence.
I wouldn't go my own way to obsess over the bodies of celebrities.most fat women don't promote for this they actually want to be average sized , no one wants to be fat , even if celebrities promote this , fat people actually experience what's like to be fat and they don't like that experience so they would never promote such a thing BUT if ur a fat person who has a lot of talent then why should your state of your body at the moment be a limit to show the world your talent? if u have a great voice but you're fat doesn't mean that u shouldn't be able to sing
and this thing about promoting fat is not working in real life bc what I've seen and read people don't like fat people , so why are u talking about this if it doesn't really work?
If the only reason they like her (I'm not familiar with her) is her body and weight, then yeah.
It's possible to like someone's music and not like the person or agree with what they stand for.
Music is still a craft. A fantastic craftsman can be a right douche but still make good shit.She isn’t promoting obesity, she is promoting self loving. Showing people that you should love your own body no matter what size you are. You think she doesn’t know that she is overweight? We can’t assume that just because she is big that means she lives an unhealthy life. She actually performs 1.5-2 hour shows dancing, in heels by the way, playing flute etc. This all requires a lot of endurance on her part.
On the opposite spectrum, just because someone is skinny doesn’t mean they are healthy.
Young women should all be proud of their bodies. Shaming only leads to eating disorders. Which leads to losing weight in an unhealthy way.They set a poor example and they know it. Especially when they could look like this:
Personaly, I don't think they are. If she is fat, but is a good singer, why she shouldn't sing? And you don't know whether she wants to or doesn't want to lose weight. While there certanly are some fat celebrities who try to push obesity as attractive or acceptable, I think most of them don't, and are just trying to lose weight themselves.
Honestly I'm okay with a girl being on the bigger side as long as she isn't taller than me as well. I'm 6ft and thin. Why do people feel the need to comment on someone's looks/health if they don't the person and isn't in the medical field giving advice to a patient?
I used to be 300+ lbs, i worked hard and lost over 70 lbs so far. And personally i don't think fat shaming is a bad thing. You don't like being fat, eat less, eat better, and exercise a little. It's stupid simple, just don't be so lazy.
She’s feminist, supports body positivity, and promotes bodily autonomy to some degree, but not in the healthy way. It’s more like a “be proud of who you are” and “don’t change yourself for others” agenda. Obesity isn’t something that you should take pride in or feel is natural though.. because it’s not. It’s good to be confident, not stupid. But, It’s always acceptable for a fat man to milk his way into media exposure but never a fat woman, and that’s where the double standard needs to end.
You obviously have a thing for overweight people as you spam this site each and every week with this bullshit. Why not admit it, you adore plus-size women.
We shouldn’t be telling people it’s okay to be obese because it isn’t. It’s important that everyone knows all these thin models are not the norm and should be body confident (within reason) but this is extreme. She should lose weight not for other people but for her own health.
She's not, but writers will latch onto anything if it makes you click. Marketers will use that deviation from the norm as her selling point. And individuals will defend it to the hilt because their own ego/identity/sense of self is on the line. You're focusing on her, but she's just riding a larger wave.
Also, y'all are focusing on fat dudes for comparison, but dudes have value in being a provider over fitness. Dudes are expected to provide for themselves, so they don't look to women for that primarily. This should be obvious with a step back. It's a double standard, but there's an opposite sex equivalent. Remember "thrift shop"? Same thing but for dudes: broke acceptance. Remember "No scrubs"? Broke shaming. No wonder you're confused, you're approaching the conundrum from a sex-neutral perspective.
whats wrong with idolizing someone who's fat? should only non fat people be seen as inspirations lol i'm so confused at that statement
sounds like you're just mad not everyone in the spotlight is wank worthy to you anymoreme being a fat cheap bastard i agree she is grossly over weight, i mean i hide my chipmunk fluff so i dont make others cringe but she is just embarrassing the fat people with her actions.
I actually agree with you with this.
If anything these people have a responsibility to be healthy so that their fans will follow in suite and do the same. And since they have usually massive platforms can more easily promote being healthy.
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