It does sound odd a little but me and my brother are really close because of our childhood, and he always seeks advise of me and sometimes we just lay on the bed and chat, not spooning that's a bit odd but just flapping about on the bed
Yeah like just laying about, ahhhhh what I meant by flapping about is normally he just dives onto my bed and lays there like a log while I'm working or doing something while he's telling me his life story or about his new squeeze ( girl )
Spoon is definitely weird! Alright is still young (a child some would say) but everyone gets older. I think you should stop. You will end up fall in love with each other.
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Uh there's no way I can fall in love with her. We just cuddle and that it, leave it at that.
I don't think it's weird. I wrestle with my sister all the time. She's 18 and I'm 16.
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I am 17 and my Brother is 23 and when I was growing up, our dad let me forget he exsisted. And we started reconnecting after he past away say... mh possibly 8 or 9 years ago? And we cuddle. He usually holds me and hugs me from behind, especially when something is wrong. In my opinion, I feel as though we're making up for the time we didn't have when we were kids. And he's married. And as a younger sister, I actually enjoy it. It makes me realize as a female, how I should be treated.
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"if anyone knew we did this they'd get the wrong idea" Wrong. The idea they would get would be the right one. You need to see that.
It's ok as long as you don't get a boner i guess. Still unusual for sure.
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Do you have any brothers? Would you do those things with them? (Or your father?) If yes then I think it's fine.
I guess it's a bit weird, but what's wrong with weird?
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Maybe not with my older brother since I have a different perspective of him. I treat my sister like a baby sister which to me she is. I'm very gentle with her.
plot twist: That was really me you were cuddling and spooning
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Honestly I don't think it's weird. It shows you love her if like you did more it'll be really weird but me growing up in a close family I don't think it's weird because i'm 18 and still when i am sad I go in bed and cuddle with my mom.
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Thank you, but I still need to understand now that this is a no. As much as I like holding my sister, I must let her have her space.
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It does sound odd a little but me and my brother are really close because of our childhood, and he always seeks advise of me and sometimes we just lay on the bed and chat, not spooning that's a bit odd but just flapping about on the bed
Flapping around?
Yeah like just laying about, ahhhhh what I meant by flapping about is normally he just dives onto my bed and lays there like a log while I'm working or doing something while he's telling me his life story or about his new squeeze ( girl )
Yes, that's weird. My brothers and I are very close and we don't cuddle and spoon.
It's pretty frickin' weird haha. But hey, if you both enjoy it and it doesn't hurt anyone else, go for it!
errr.. yes. The spooning and caressing is weird. I would only share a blanket with my sis on the couch at the most.
I rub my brother's back, but he'd punch me if I ever tried cuddlling with him!
Would you ever want to cuddle with him if he'd let you?
Idk.
I'm not gonna lie I was abit freaked out when I read this...
Lol that's just priceless
Freaked out? Cmon its not as bad as one would think. It's innocnet
I think it's ok but I think the whole caressing thing is a little odd
I wish I could cuddle my 17 yo sis too,
but too bad, she isn't that 'hot' and i have no feelings for her ;P
ummmmm i gues you're attracted to her yet you don't admit it?
Attracted? She's my sister
It's weird dude. I mean I wrestle with my little brother sometimes but that's not the same as what you're saying LMAO.
Spoon is definitely weird! Alright is still young (a child some would say) but everyone gets older. I think you should stop. You will end up fall in love with each other.
Uh there's no way I can fall in love with her. We just cuddle and that it, leave it at that.
I don't think it's weird. I wrestle with my sister all the time. She's 18 and I'm 16.
I am 17 and my Brother is 23 and when I was growing up, our dad let me forget he exsisted.
And we started reconnecting after he past away say... mh possibly 8 or 9 years ago? And we cuddle. He usually holds me and hugs me from behind, especially when something is wrong.
In my opinion, I feel as though we're making up for the time we didn't have when we were kids. And he's married. And as a younger sister, I actually enjoy it. It makes me realize as a female, how I should be treated.
"if anyone knew we did this they'd get the wrong idea" Wrong. The idea they would get would be the right one. You need to see that.
I appreciate your comment
Yes, but that's just me. I don't cuddle with any of my siblings. I have no feelings lol jk
It's ok as long as you don't get a boner i guess. Still unusual for sure.
Do you have any brothers? Would you do those things with them? (Or your father?) If yes then I think it's fine.
I guess it's a bit weird, but what's wrong with weird?
Maybe not with my older brother since I have a different perspective of him. I treat my sister like a baby sister which to me she is. I'm very gentle with her.
plot twist: That was really me you were cuddling and spooning
Honestly I don't think it's weird. It shows you love her if like you did more it'll be really weird but me growing up in a close family I don't think it's weird because i'm 18 and still when i am sad I go in bed and cuddle with my mom.
Thank you, but I still need to understand now that this is a no. As much as I like holding my sister, I must let her have her space.
I used to do this and now I am feeling a bit guilty. lol
with my little sister
Yea its weird to spoon your 15 year old sister but hey it's only weird if you mKe it weird