"Fuck boys" have no good relationship with their parents?

[Anonymous]

I just came to a relaization and I've noticed fuck boys dont get along with their parents. They dont see them at all. Or have a regular relationship with them.. My dad told me last night to speak to guys who have a good relationship with their mother as they will show more respect for their girlfriends more. And I will listen to that. He says to ask a guy how is his relationships with his parents are. I no longer can be interested in a guy who doesn't speak to at least one of his parents on the regular. This excludes death in the family. But I just noticed most Fuck boys either don't get along with their dad. Or if they don't talk to their mom they are disrespectful towards women.

Has anyone noticed this or is there some truth to this? A couple of my friends notice too and also agree

[pharm]

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babe the guy who i was with who was a fuk boy
he liked me and admired me because ima single mom and his mom was a single mom. so after him knowin me for a year he brought me and my son a Christmas present last year. He hates his dad cus he was abusive to his mom and he grew up n watched tht, But i think he doesn't understand he was being emotionally abusive to me by saying he's going bk with his ex and when that doesn't wrk out he wants to holler me

[Asker]

Fuck boyyyyy! Hahaha they suck sorry that happened to you

[Anonymous]

Not all the time, but a few have had no positive relationships with their parents. One guy I knew was totally spoiled by his parents, since they were gone all the time. He just used people left and right, and didn't care. Another guy was actually close to his dad but not his mom. So I think some do have a decent one, others don't.

[Asker]

I just think they treat others on how their parents treated them..

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, in some cases that is true and really evident. But there are some that come from a good family environment, but are just narcissistic and like to use people, too.

[likelyOK]

You still have to be careful I talked to a fuck boy who was very close with his mother and still treated women like shit.

[madhatters4]

as with most generalizations this one isn't true.

i have a close friend who was for all intents and purposes a big slut. he has a great relationship wtih his parents.

don't overlook the fact that a lot of people (men and women) simply like sex and want to get as much as they can... it's not always some indication of mental health, or relationship issues in the past

[Asker]

Its not always about the sex. Fuck boys are disrespectful and they play mind games as well.

[madhatters4]

ok perhaps. but you suggested that "fuckboys" have bad relationships with their parents. i'm asserting that i know "fuckboys" who have great relationships with their parents

[Asker]

Well most Fuck boys; )

[likelyOK]

Asker- that totally true I would say a fuck boy goes further than having many partners disrespectful and deceptive

[astrOnaut01]

There was a similar question asked quite recently and the asker cited some studies showing the correlation between partners who treat their parents of the opposite sex badly and partners who treat their partners of the opposite sex badly. I've also noticed this with my friends of both genders.

So, yeah, your dad is kind of right.

[skeptic007]

okay understand this hun most women don't know how to raise men in general
there WOMAN what do women know about being a MAN

NOTHING

so they raise there kids to be bitches or he's aggressive
cause there's no one strong enough to beat him in the house,

im in my 20s if I fight with my mom you think she is gonna win
NO she's a women

which is why there needs to be a man in the house too put him in his place as he gets older, cause young boys do stupid shit and if there is no one strong enough too take him society is gonna deal with him, and society isn't nice

[Mbien]

It might be true that fuckboys don't get along with their parents of mother.. But it is not true that when a boy doesn't has a good relation with his parents or mother, that he is a fuckboy... Plzz don't make that mistake!

I don't have a good relation.. But I am not a fuckboy..

[abundantlyrich]

They are effectively damaged goods and they will continue to misuse and abuse others unless they are eradicated.

[Asker]

Oh goodness. I can't baby sit these little minded boys!!! They are so immature. Lol but this is a good way of putting it. That goes for some girls as well

[abundantlyrich]

i thought they are fuckboys cos their father cheated on their mothers... i mean look at tiger woods...

[Asker]

Hahah exactly

[PantsDance420]

Actually I've experienced the opposite. I notice that fuckboys are usually very close with their mothers. In that case I think it's because their mother is the one woman who should hold them accountable for the wrongful ways they treat women but instead they cheer them on almost. I've heard moms joke with fuckboys about how many hearts they've broken. The moms raise them to believe that no woman will ever be good enough. These boys are usually also very spoiled. They can call mommy for anything. This isn't always the case of course. But it is in my personal experience in 34 years of life

[BarbaraP]

I don't really know about your question, but I'm pretty sure your father is right. There was a study about this too.

[BertMacklinFBI]

so does that mean that people who aren't fuck boys have the best relationship with their parents? they're not all one and the same.

[Asker]

No. I just notice the ones who do don't have the best relationships with their parents. But I see what you did there.

[Anonymous]

No that's not true. That would assume all parents are good parents which is not even close to be true.

Why is it so wrong to call a girl a slut but to call a guy the same sort of thing is ok?

[Asker]

It is wrong that girls are called a slut but PEOPLE STILL DO. And proudly. I never said what was okay or not. All I said was the guys who can't seem to respect women or play mind games are the ones with a terrible relationship with either their mother or father or both.. lol

[Opinion Owner]

As it is wrong to call a girl a slut it is wrong to call guys the same thing. You know the negative effects of calling somebody a derogatory term, and should not call other people a derogatory term.

Guys who don't respect women may often not have good relationships with their parents but that's not to say that because one has a bad relationship with their parents that their automatically going to be a bad person. Many people with bad parents turn out to be very good people. So it's not really a sign as to what a person is actually going to be like. In fact many people with that parents often treat their partner extremely well because they understand the pitfalls of bad relationships.

[Asker]

True but you and the other guy are missing my point. I never said he's a bad guy if he doesn't get along with his parents.. I noticed that most guys who are disrespectful towards women don't have the best relationships with their mothers. Or don't ever see their fathers was all I was trying to come across lol

[Opinion Owner]

"My dad told me last night to speak to guys who have a good relationship with their mother as they will show more respect for their girlfriends more. And I will listen to that. He says to ask a guy how is his relationships with his parents are. I no longer can be interested in a guy who doesn't speak to at least one of his parents on the regular."

"I no longercan be interested in a guy who doesn't speak to at least one of his parents on the regular"
This is what I am speaking about. If you exclude people who have a bad relationship with their parents you will exclude many good people.
Many 'fuckboys' are good looking too. Will you avoid good looking guys too?
Many 'fuckboys' dress well. Will you avoid guys who dress well?
Obvouslly many people have bad relationships with parents- that does not indicate anything about them. Also many people who had good parents turn out to be jerks. Your parents often reveal little about you.

[Asker]

I said. Guys who treat girls disrespectful don't have a good relationship with their parents.. but I understand where Ur coming from... but most guys I've ran into don't have a good relationship with their parents and treat me like shit.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably an indication of who you allow yourself to be attracted to. Not necessarily the result of a bad relationship with their parents.

[Asker]

I've let my attraction explore out to hot average and below average. Below average are too insecure because I'm a hot girl. And average people always go for something better and I can't stand above average men "hot" guys they have too much ego issues. But overall I don't know what to do. Maybe go gay. Lol

[likelyOK]

I think it's okay to call either a slut if they really have that current behavior

[puertoriguesa]

my ex love is a fuck boy and he has a strong bond with his mother and family

[puertoriguesa]

he still uses women for sex even though he's close to his mother but then again he was raised in the streets, they don't have much principles regarding sexual morality

[puertoriguesa]

his sister had 3 bds

[puertoriguesa]

has** and her friends too, and just his whole family and my side of the family that are close to them all struggle with sexual immorality... they like to F a lot

[puertoriguesa]

and share bds, bms, bfs and gfs, too much infidelity

[Polocrew]

Lmao someone mad because she didn't got text back

[Asker]

Not at all... I just can't deal with his behavior