Can a girl hang out with a guy alone as friends?

[Anonymous]

Or is it always seen as more

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+1 y

So here's where I'm at with this girl

1. Confessed to liking her in the past
2. She flirts with me a lot
3. Coworker asked me if I wanted to fuck her and I responded yes which I told her when she asked

[Dezzie]

I have a boyfriend, but I hang out with guy friends all the time, just the two of us. Sometimes we go to a movie, sometimes we watch Netflix and drink, and recently I was invited to dinner with the parents of one of my guys friends. We do all of this as purely friends. There's no intentions of anything romantic or sexual.
So the answer to your question is yes.

[Asker]

Ok but what if there's obvious chemistry

[Dezzie]

Then I ignore it because I'm in a relationship. Like, whether or not there's chemisty has nothing to do with your general question.
I'm guessing you're in a situation where you're hanging out with a girl and you think there's chemistry between you two, and you want it to be something more? If that's the case just be honest with her.

[Asker]

It's there even coworkers see it

[Dezzie]

Alright then. Ask her out. If she says anything but yes, leave her alone and get over it.

[Asker]

She has a boyfriend

[Dezzie]

Then leave her alone, don't be that guy that tries to interfere with another person's relationship. There are single girls out there that will have chemistry with you too

[Asker]

She's the only one who has shown interest

[Dezzie]

Well sorry? That doesn't mean you get to barge into her romantic life.

[Eternal_Flame]

I have male friends , but I'd never hang out with them one out of respect for my boyfriend

In most cases it's looked on as more , even if it's only a platonic relationship

[deraz24]

it could happen so long as no one makes it seem like anything more

[Asker]

What if I told you she talks really dirty around me

[deraz24]

Depends on what she says it could mean something but then again she could just feel comfortable enough around you to say those things and you not take it out of context

[Asker]

Ok so we had a conversation one night and I told her I wanted to throatfuck a girl and she goes she's good at it and has no gag reflex

[deraz24]

Yea I don't know ab that one lol she might be just telling you but j wouldn't tell a friend personally unless I was tryin to impress him on a way

[Asker]

Yeah I instantly got hard and thought about her

[deraz24]

She could be fucking with you lol to see your reaction, it's not right but it happens

[Asker]

Well just a couple days ago when had a conversation where she goes i really like my boobs and my pussy and once again I got rock hard

[deraz24]

It's sounds like she's teasing you lol don't fall into it, in sure there's a better way to show she's interested in you tan by making lude comments but then again who knows

[Asker]

What I said she made comments like this to me and she has a boyfriend

[deraz24]

Hmm yea I wouldn't read into it keep being friends the next thing you know you're confessing feelings for her then y'all aren't even friends anymore lol so yea

[Asker]

lol already did that and she goes I really still wanna be friends she actually begged me

[deraz24]

Yep I would rate it a slightly advanced friend to friend talk

[Asker]

Like she seemed attached

[deraz24]

no like she doesn't have to filter things when she talks to you lol

[Asker]

She goes I really awesome to be around, she's close up on my personal space occasionally she'll brush up against me

[deraz24]

Why don't you ask her it's either she knows what she's doing or she thinks its harmless, either way only she knows for sure

[Asker]

Cause I don't think she will admit it

[deraz24]

you're better off asking her than me lol

[Discovery98]

Depends on the guy. I'll reference one of my favorite movie quotes. "You can't interact with a woman without sex screwing it up, but I can because I'm an adult."

[ColinHarvey]

If she takes her bur-qua off and sucks some dick she can.

[DizzyDesii]

there's only one guy friend who i can hang out with without him trying to make a serious move lol. I mean he tries, but he knows i won't take him seriously, but yea just him. The rest can be quite convincing haha

[Asker]

I'm kinda scared we might fuck

[DizzyDesii]

Yea my guy friend also liked me and admitted it, and we once had a sexual discussion. But he knows where he stands in my book. So for you, if the girl is just joking around, then she'll stop you before itgoes too far

[Anonymous]

I do have many guy friends that i just think off as friends and i am sire they think of me as a friend only too so it is possible i can hang out with one of them and we'll just be friends even though people won't be convinced but we really would be just friends..

[EvilAngel114]

As hard as people find it to believe... yes a guy and girl can hang out alone and nothing more come of it.

[Asker]

What it there's sexual tension

[EvilAngel114]

No there wasn't.

[Asker]

I'm saying if there was

[EvilAngel114]

It would depend on who it was but I have lots of self control when I need to.

[tianaazza_]

Yes, of course they can hang out together with being nothing more than friends. I have this one friend who I spend a lot of time together in intimate places and I I'm safe with friends

[Southern-Shorty]

It's not an impossibility. Usually though, it typically follows with one or the other wanting more and the other person getting hurt.

[Asker]

What if I told you she talks really dirty around me

[Southern-Shorty]

Have you ever talked dirty to a girl before without intentions to go further? She could be ultra flirty.

[Asker]

Ok so we had a conversation one night and I told her I wanted to throatfuck a girl and she goes she's good at it and has no gag reflex

[Anonymous]

Yeah she can.

I am close friends with an Ex even and we have hung out plenty by ourselves.

[Asker]

I'm kinda scared that we might fuck

[Opinion Owner]

if you don't trust yourself then you probably shouldn't then.

[Anonymous]

Well people feel different about the situation. Some people will make fun saying its something more just because even though they know your not more than just friends. Others will just say you guys are really good friends.

[justAGuy278]

you can in my opinion

[Asker]

What if there's obvious chemistry between the two and also she always talks dirty around me

[justAGuy278]

still can. I talk dirty to some of my chick friends. Doesn't mean there's anything there

[Asker]

But she kinda knows I wanna fuck her

[justAGuy278]

well there you go. this questions pointless if you don't wanna be friends

[Asker]

I wanna be friends actually here's how it went one day I confessed my feelings to her that I really like her and how i always thought about her afterwards I said I can understand if you no longer wanna be friends she goes no i still wanna be friends and practically begged me

[justAGuy278]

so what do u wat? friends or friends with benefits. seems like u can have either

[justAGuy278]

want

[Asker]

How does it seem like I can have friends with benefits

[justAGuy278]

ur fucking your friend. therefore it's friends with benefits

[justAGuy278]

or not I don't know. seems like u can have it any way. up to u

[Asker]

Ok but she has a boyfriend

[justAGuy278]

then don't fuck her

[Asker]

But she's sexually attracted to me

[justAGuy278]

she has a boyfriend. don't be an asshole.

[Asker]

I'm not she's the one saying sexual things to me

[justAGuy278]

it doesn't matter who initiates it man. bottom line is you know she has a boyfriend and if you fuck her your an asshole. plenty of other chicks, that one's taken

[Asker]

She's the only one who has shown interest in me

[justAGuy278]

it doesn't matter. unless she breaks up with him

[Asker]

Well she's never been with a mixed guy before and she seems intrigued

[Yanoa_Yanza]

Yeah I do it all the time

[Appl3]

possible if friend zoned

[shadowlegend]

Yeah of course.