Girls, how comfortable are you with your guy best friend?

[MaybeImSexy]

My friends say im too close with my guy best friend because i can wash, dress and do anything in front of him, am I too comfortable with him?

[VaIiant]

I'd say washing and dressing is a bit too far- no matter how he views you, a pair of breasts are still a pair of breasts, and showering in front of him is definitely crossing a line. With my best friend, and him being a guy has nothing to do with it, its more like I can tell and do anything in front of him since we've known each other since we were 8, but it's less "oh I can show you my bra" and more of a "I can pass gas in front of you and not feel weird and embarrassed". As long as its not awkward, I'd say you're ok, but don't be surprised if he starts feeling a little less then platonic. Hope this helped!

[MarbleLines]

I feel the same way about my best guy friend, I don't think that I'm "too comfortable" around him though, it's just that I mean he knows me better than anyone so yeah I don't think much of it to like change clothes with him around, I mean he's seen me naked so it doesn't really matter, lol and he doesn't seem to mind either so I think it's fine

[existing_not_living]

Pretty comfy. I mean, I have no problem doing most of those things except for washing. - However that's just an insecurity thing on my part so I don't do that kind of thing with anyone. I mean, it's up to you to decide how comfy you are. Now, if you get a boyfriend, you will have to stop doing some of those things in front of/with your best guy friend, but for the moment you're fine.

[snowangle]

I'm pretty comfortable with him - enough that we talk in-depth about our sex lives. If he wasn't married, I probably would feel comfortable enough to get dressed in front of him and such. Come to think of it, I have taken my shirt off in front of him (with bra still on, and with permission/encouragement from his wife) just because I was so hot and they didn't have air conditioning lol.

Anyway, do whatever works for you two!

[Anonymous]

Everybody has a different relationship with their BFF. I have not changed in front of my guy best friend, but I wouldn't mind. We have talked about making out, and we do peck kisses every now and then. So, it's really up to you how close you want to be with him. Don't let anybody tell you different!

[fauchelevent]

I wouldn't wash, dress or do anything too personal in front of my closest male friend but meh, everyone's relationships are different, it's not necessarily bad that you do those things.

[CheerGirl38139]

that's pretty unusual. Although I'm sure some people here will say something different. I always wanted a gay guy for a BFF tho. :)

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

I'll be your gay friend

[CheerGirl38139]

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[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

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[DevikaButts95]

I'm sitting on his face right now. Lmao.
And others I've gotten plenty comfortable with in such ways too.

[Judith_Lopez]

Well... I don't have a guy best friend but I don't know... i'd say you're too comfortable. Unless you're dating

[lovelyhoneybones]

Pretty comfortable. I tell him everything. Though I would never get dressed or wash in front of him. There's a boundary that you don't cross.

[Máiiréad]

I don't have a guy best friend. I just have girl best friends and the rest are just friends.

[Analinda1999]

are they saying its normal to do that in front of them but not him? or just no one?