Why won't my boyfriend mention me?

[Anonymous]

Okay so on his facebook, where you can say what you're doing or thinking and everyone can see, he has mentioned me on that.

But on his status update on MySpace he still has not mentioned me once on there and he won't get on his computer for 2 minutes to just put me on his top friends. It kinda feels like he doesn't want someone to know on MySpace that he is dating me..

But that can't be it because he changed his relationship status to in a relationship and I comment him and he comments me & his comments aren't private so what's up? why won't he mention me on MySpace but he will on facebook oh and he's only mentioned me once on facebook and won't mention me again since he did that once.

[tallnhungjoe]

Could be that his guy friends are one Myspace, and guys don't want to make the women in their life too important for fear of alienating their Guy friends.

If you are mentioned on Face book, then he must really like you...

I have a really revolutionary idea here... WHY DONT YOU ASK HIM?

COMMUNICATIONS IS THE KEY TO RELATIONSHIPS!

Good Luck,

Joe

[Cmcwill06]

Hey, I need you to listen.

This is the definition of needy. I can understand the sentiment, but you don't need to fret over this.

I really feel like you're just looking for affirmation that he's not cheating or that he loves/likes you. Don't do that.

[Anonymous]

first off, how long have you been together? And don't even worry about it. it's not a big deal. he doesn't have to mention you every chance he gets.

[Asker]

Not to long we've known each and talked a lot for several months before we started dating though, and I don't want him to mention me every chance he gets. Its just I get a feeling something is up because there's this girl that likes him a lot and she has him added on MySpace but not facebook and they talk a lot. He mentions me on facebook but not MySpace and won't even put me on his top. So it just worries me that he doesn't want her or someone else on MySpace knowing he's dating me.

[archn]

You are psycho... stop acting like a looney