Do older women get jealous of younger women?

[Anonymous]

I noticed my mom is like that.

For example, today I was going outside, and as I always do, I put on some make up, brushed my hair and was leaving. I saw her give me the oddest look before I went outside.

I realized she purposely took me to the wrong destination just to waste time. I accused her of being jealous she didn't even deny it.

I think she is starting to realize that I can fight back and know that she's like that

[nonratracereality]

It all boils down reaction and attention with maturity experience and knowledge rolled up into one. You cannot react if if doesn't go your way. In order to not be constantly judging or second guessing yourself by seeing it the general way everybody sees it you will develop a natural sense of how things proceed not by how you feel and what the result looks like. Once you know the end result you apply yourself appropriately and be the wiser and go the way its supposed to whether you agree with it or not. And it the end it straightens out. And by not being vain but true will see that it works for everybody and not just a select few.

[Asker]

Honestly, sometimes I feel as though it's the women who've been treated cruelly who are more likely to feel envious jealousy because they didn't get treated with respect so they get jealous/envious of others.

I think a woman whose had a fulfilled life is less likely to wish bad for others and when she ages, she starts to change the role she plays to people.

For example, if a 50-something year old mother still feels jealous of a teenager, that's pretty fucked up that shows me she hasn't adjusted to the role she's supposed to be playing

[bamesjond0069]

Older women get really jealous of younger women. Be careful you aren't too far from feeling jealous yourself. 28-32 is when the first major jealousy phase often kicks in really hard for women. Its because you will never be more attractive than you are today. Each day from the day you're 18 you become less attractive. For men each day after 18 we become more attractive in general. So it clashes. Because you have basically all men of all ages prefer women around 25 and younger. So after you hit about 30 all the male attention you're used to dries up and it doesn't feel good im sure.

[Asker]

I'm only 25

[bamesjond0069]

So in 3 to 5 years you will start to feel it for sure

[gothgirl997]

That's a huge generalization.
- Beauty has nothing to do with age. So Adriana Lima (36) is less attractive than an ugly 18 y. old? She still is much prettier than even a lot of attractive 18 y. olds. People can be ugly, average and pretty at any age.

-Also people generally look better in their 20s when they have figured their dress style and are past their awkward phase. Yes some people might look better in their teens but that's for both genders not just women. Some guys age terribly and lose their hair from their 20s. I knew a guy that was beautiful when hw was in high school and now he's just meh. Also some people have always been average as kids, teens and remained average as adults but aged better than their pretty counterparts

-Women in their 30s can still be appealing. They just appeal to a different age group

-Lastly not all women get jealous of other women. Not all women care about looks and attracting male attention.

[gothgirl997]

People with lives, hobbies and interests don't care about what other people do. Only losers with no Lives are jealous of other people. Personally I'm not jealous of 18 y. olds for their youth/beauty or attracting more male attention but I'm kinda jealous that they can away with doing stupid things or saying sth stupid. When you're older no one justifies you

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 im not talking about looks. Overall attractiveness. I dont care how physically hot a woman is, id never date someone around my age. Just not something id ever do. And so a really hot 30 year old could hit on me and id be like ehhh no thanks and a just normal cute 20 year old could and id be very interested.

[gothgirl997]

Personally as a 21 y. old I would never date a guy as old as you. And it's creepy to hit on much younger girls. You're just looking for someone that can be easily manipulated... Most quality guys look for women around their age group with a career not vulnerable kids

PS: Also some 28-30 y. olds can still look like 20. How do you know their age?
Retarded logic

[gothgirl997]

And some 18 y. olds look like 30

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 ah the jealousy has already kicked in. No. I like young women because id like to have a larger family and i dont want to rush. I also dont want to marry someone who slept around and while not all older women have loose morals the longer you are on this earth the more sexually precarious positions you are put in. And no career is irrelevant, looking for the best mother for my future kids not a sugar mama. And fyi most girls like older guys, not all, usually immature ones who dont understand why an older man would be interested in a younger woman and think its some pervy kink or something. Nope its all about having the best serious long term relationship possible.

[gothgirl997]

I'm never jealous of other people.. How exactly did you infer that?

Are you sure you're 13 and not 31? You sound really shallow. You only care about a woman's age and looks and not her personality or intelligence

Most of these girls have daddy issues and think it's cool to date someone older but most girls prefer dating guys around their age or 3-5 years older. Not 15 years older. That's a generation apart 😂

[gothgirl997]

So what if a woman is 30 and looks 20? Lol
You know some women lie about their age

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 can she still have 4 kids in 5 years from now? Most likely not. So i wouldn't even give her a chance. Family is very important to me.

[gothgirl997]

Lol you're so uneducated and shallow, that it's laughable. Actually with scientific progress and fertility treatment nowadays, women have kids in their 30s and even 40s. According to this chart female infertility only inreases from 3 to 5% from her early to late 20s and to 8% in her early 30s. That means a woman can still have kids in her 30s

[gothgirl997]

And 4 kids? Is this the Middle Ages?
Lol what's with all GaG 30 and 40 y. olds thinking they are George Clooney and Brad Pitt and they deserve the best of the best?

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 Its not nearly as simple as your explaination of the chart. You also aren't looking at the black numbers. Even if 30 somethings were routinely having 4+ kids (which they aren't becuase its not likely most of them can) i know multiple women who had lots of kids in their 20s no problem like 6 kids, then they had one at 35 and it caused massive complications such that they could not have more. A girl i dateds mom had 11 kids and they all just slipped out except the last two had bad complications because she was older.

Secondly even if the kids thing wasn't an issue find me a 30 year old to date who hasn't slept with more than say 5 guys. The pool would be almost nonexistent. At younger ages its difficult enough lots of girls sleep around for some reason. But its not too bad, i can still find younger girls that dont have a ho mentality about them. I dont think I've ever met an older yet still single woman who doesn't though.

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 lots of people have tons of kids. My girlfriend in hs had 9 siblings. A girl i dated not too long ago had 10 other siblings. Its very fulfilling and made for a really good family life.

[gothgirl997]

Only people in countries like India or third world countries have so many kids
Most people have just 1 or 2 kids

[gothgirl997]

Let me guess, you're a Republican? With these views, I'd be surprised if you weren't. You sound like Trump 😂

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 well im not like most people and just because maybe you dont know anyone but lots of people in the usa do too. Kids are the future and your personal legacy. Dont you want to change the world for the better? Having lots of kids ensures the world will be marked because of you for many generations. But we have so many nihilists who just want to disappear and be forgot and be nothing to the world. Crazy if you ask me.

[bamesjond0069]

@gothgirl997 of course i am. Do i seem like some cuck who would marry some single mom who is 3 years older than me and i walk around wearing skinny jeans and talking effeminate and shave my legs and chest? Gross if you ask me. Nah im a gun shooting, business owning, responsible for myself masculine man. And ill be back on later to reply. Getting ready for church. 😊

[gothgirl997]

You can still be influential to the world even if you don't have kids (if you get a Nobel prize or find the cute for an illness or make a scientific discovery). No one cares if Newton, Socrates, Marie Curie, Stephen Hawkins, Galileo or Alexander Graham Bell had kids or not

[gothgirl997]

Ewww...
Please don't bother answer back I'm already grossed out and tired of these notifications.

[Prismonic]

I think you're a man. Thinking that older women are jealous of younger women is a guy thing 100%. Women all understand women and have no reason to be jealous of each other. And I know from life experience that attractive women stay attractive and ugly women stay ugly. So it doesn't even make sense. You can't possibly believe that men become more attractive as they age. You're kidding, right?

[Prismonic]

Menstruation lasts +/-30 years, averages ages 15 to 45. So now you know. I'm glad I could teach you something today.

[Yourlegaladdiction]

Some are jealous, some can be at times.
But what you’re stating right here could be just her worrying for you. And don’t forget that you’re parents will forever see you as the baby they raised so it’s hard for them to see their children grow up and get detached.

[Asker]

Nah she's just a bitter bitch trust me.

I even yelled at her today it's not my fault that her life was pathetic.

She got quiet at that when before seh was yelling and bringing the house down

[Yourlegaladdiction]

Sorry for the use of « you’re » instead of « your » it’s a pet peeve of mine.
Well you know her better than I do but keep in mind she’s your mom and no one will love you more.

[Asker]

No I believe in fact I know that her envy is much greater than her love

[Asker]

I really am starting to hate her

[Киттйлинк]

Sure, it can happen... but jealous of your own Daughter? What the heck? That’s just odd... maybe you’re being paranoid and judgmental? Or maybe your mom is Crazy? Or maybe you’re both crazy? That’s just oddddd!

[Asker]

Nah, she's pretty crazy.

More examples: she tries to spread lies about me at home and cause fights between my siblings and I.

I can literally see the jealousy in her face when I tell her of opportunities I receive.

She tries to downplay my achievements etc.

[Киттйлинк]

I do not understand how someone can be jealous of their own kids... that’s just weird and awful..

[Asker]

I think she didn't want me in fact I'm sure.

So she blame sme for her life going astray when really I have nothing to do with ehr life

[Hidden_P]

Yes. They do.

I’m not going into our history just the relevant bit. My mother liked to prove she was so skinny she could fit into child’s clothing so would prance around with her cheeks tipping out. She was super proud cause she had a boyfriend (while married) before me.
She was less chuffed when I started my periods aged 12 and she entered menopause the same time/was confirmed with stds (although in her head it was all a lie. She’s super fertile). She started buying more children’s clothes and taking pregnancy tests like they were going out of fashion. She now plasters make up on to look 117 instead of a 62 year old pretending to be 73.

[ROCKS128]

Yes they definitely get jealous!😂😂😂
I go to parks for morning walks, there these old (30/40+) women see young women jogging and walking in perfect shape and all, they make such faces and look at them from top to bottom!😂😂😂
Scenes are soo funny to watch.
I have seen that in restaurants, airports, stations, like every here and there...😝😝

[gothgirl997]

A 30 y. old is an old woman? Then what is a 60 y. old?

[ROCKS128]

A 30 year old is old enough for teens (who are physically good looking).

[Prismonic]

Hahaha. You're so full of it.

[Anonymous]

I doubt your mom is jealous of her own daughter
Maybe she was having a rough day or maybe it was just your imagination
Have you talked about it with her? Or there must be something wrong with her. My mom always compliment me and is proud of me like most moms, she's not jealous of me
That's the reason you have kids, right? Because you want them to be a better version than you

[Asker]

I don't think she wanted me.

And trust me she's a jealous bitch

[Opinion Owner]

Was she always like this? Even when you were little? All moms love their kids, unless they're psychos

[Asker]

Yes she was

[Anonymous]

For sure. It makes them remember what it was like to have males show interest in them simply for their looks. A time when men would trip over themselves to do things for her attention. A time when she didn’t have to try to get anything.

Women don’t realize how easy they have it until they are past 30 and can’t simply get by on their sexuality.

[Asker]

see here's the thing.

I am beautiful in real life, but i care little about 'male attention.'

In fact, I would argue, that after a point in time upon realizing respect was not associated with male attention anyways, I stopped giving a shit.

I am hardworking. I know my looks are going to fade like every other woman and want nothing but to enjoy the time when I am young and carefree by just being happy.

My mother though, she is a vicious hag. She actually really does expecct to do nothing in life and get by

[gothgirl997]

That's plain bullcrap. Ugly, below average, unattractive and average women get attention from guys? No so they have nothing to lose because they never got any attention to start with

[Asker]

I don't get your argument

[gothgirl997]

OP are you talking about my argument?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Prismonic]

One's sexuality is never the only part. Women don't think of themselves being simply sexual. Simple men are the only people who think a woman is only sexual. And in case it's not obvious, men are so desperate for sex that most of them, especially in their 20s, will sleep with ANYTHING.

[thottttiana]

So you came to the conclusion she was jealous because she gave you a look? How do you know she PURPOSELY went to the wrong destination?

[ericblack]

Every peoples are have a different idea about everythings, but I think mostly no jealous , but of course they want come back at young age

[OnlyYouKnowThat]

You only have one mother. Try to get along with her.

[Asker]

But she's crazy
Seriously

[comekitty]

Everyone is different but , as for me, I do not get jealous of younger females.

[Poormanscomedian]

Like you are old

[Asker]

You're not old.

[comekitty]

Well thank you, I wasn't thinking I was old either.

[comekitty]

I was just answering in general - as in regardless of your age, there's always going to be someone younger than you.

[iskg679]

I am sorry that your mother did that to you. Your mother should be supportive of you.

[Asker]

She's a bitch.

[iskg679]

@Asker Wow, I'm very sorry. I would think that you would want your mother to be loving and kind. I hope you don't end up becoming like your mother.

[Asker]

Why would I?

My mother is the worst type of bitch who would take out her jealousy on an innocent childr ather than admitting she is jealous

[sugarchateau]

That’s unfortunate for everyone involved. Insecurity is arguably the worlds #1 killer lmao

[wittymilf]

I never have, I like to empower the younger generation

[DavidBowiesBabygirl]

Poor your mum... I really don't think she was "jealous" of you...

[emmily2396]

I don't think so, it depends on the person. Some do, some don't.

[danielmeegan]

Maybe she made mistakes and is having inner conflicts within herself and doesn't want you doing what she did

[Poormanscomedian]

I think older women do get jealous of younger attractive women

[Asker]

No offence but some older women are such hags.

[Athena374]

If your own mom is jealous of you that’s a big issue.

[Anonymous]

Well, yeah. They can't go out there a fuck a bunch of random guys like they use to. They're not being picked anymore. The young girls still have those privileges.

[Asker]

No I am not one of those girls who and i quote 'fuck a bunch of random guys like they use to.'

I sometimes feel as though she cannot accept something about me not sure what.

For example, just now when I was in teh washroom she randomly came up and said 'it's stinking.'

The door was closed. I know she does these things to try to humiliate me and take out all her jealousy.

In anger I said it's not my fault your life is as pathetic as it is.

She went queit.

I realized she blames me for her life going wrong because I am more successful than her but then again who wouldn't be, she's a mess

[Opinion Owner]

What she can't except about you is what I just said. Be real. Be real for once. Not just angry. Be real not only with yourself but with us as well. Take out all of the anger from being confronted. Take away all the fear of being judged and be real. You a hoe. It's your right. Don't take offense. Be real with the guys. No one really knows who you are on this site. There's no real reason to take offense. Just be open with us.

[Athena374]

Girls of any ages can do that I don't know what you on.

[Opinion Owner]

@Athena374 Not the majority of old bitches. Plus you still haven't answered this yet - "The concept of easy sex within society is a problem all by itself. Girls are now whores for the highest bidder, whoever has the most followers on Instagram, or nicest toys (car, vacation home, etc.), and last but not least - groupies for the famous (movie stars, artists, and professional athletes). Guys are now simply tricks and whoremongers. Thanks to sexual liberation society is now completely fucked".

[Athena374]

Yea the majority of old women can.

[Opinion Owner]

@Athena374 Lmao.. That's all I can say..

[Athena374]

Yea if you said more you would be denying the truth/reality.

[Opinion Owner]

@Athena374 Who'$ fir$t in line for old, wrinkled up, out of $hape bitche$. I'd really like to know this answer. But since I know it's a joke whatever answer you give I won't take seriously.

[Asker]

I don't know who you are and I quite frankly don't care but what I know for a fact is that jealous people get jealous because there is a void in their life of some sort.

I am beautiful in real life. I will continue to be beautiful even in my later years, but obviously not young looking.

However I would want a guy who saw the PERSON I am, because looks fade anyways.

[Opinion Owner]

In the age superficial feminism? Good luck. Your competition awaits. Expect to experience that same jealousy. For she is on her way. And in due season she will arrive..

[Asker]

I see lots of girls, attractive in a sleazy kind of way, not beautiful.

And I feel nothing towards them. They are bimbos.

The people I respect are the well-educated ones

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck out there 😉

[Asker]

I think you need it more than i do.

You sound uneducated and kind of like a loser no offence

[Didi1337]

You are both right and wrong, depending on each individual. On average opinion owner has more right, at least in rich countries where fashion is more important then clean water. But there's allways a few of the many that doesn't follow that path, I've been with a couple of them, and honestly their the best girls in my opinion. So i know for a fact that not everyone is like you explain dude, some are like Athena374.

[Didi1337]

Oh and by the way, i know females up in their 40s/50s still dating to this day, still getting laid more then i do, and still get more attention from guys then a lot of girls around my age. Experience is also sexy, while some may get wrinkles at age of 25, some never get it, or at least not until they are around 60 ish.

[Opinion Owner]

Now academics are being brought into the picture. Hilarious. Well fine. Have some bad luck instead lol.

[Didi1337]

Im not an academic, i just try to open peoples minds and eyes, a lot of people are (no offense, myself included) so narrow sighted, short minded and ignorant. But i try to gain facts instead of just saying what im used to around me. Tho real experiences is facts as well, just not written

[Opinion Owner]

@Didi1337 lol. Lmao. I wasn't talking to you at all.

[Didi1337]

Lols my bad dude :P

[Athena374]

@Asker exactly he really does lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Athena374 "The concept of easy sex within society is a problem all by itself. Girls are now whores for the highest bidder, whoever has the most followers on Instagram, or nicest toys (car, vacation home, etc.), and last but not least - groupies for the famous (movie stars, artists, and professional athletes). Guys are now simply tricks and whoremongers. Thanks to sexual liberation society is now completely fucked".

[Didi1337]

Ladies, be nice, he's just explaining the "average". Statistics and most fact books are all based on "average". That doesn't mean everyones like that for sure, but he's not entirely wrong either.

[Didi1337]

I can say for sure that what he just said explains a lot of teens/young adults in norway and our closest countries at least, other then that i dont have experience or facts, but i do hope its better in most other countries

[Anonymous]

Wow that’s actually pathetic. She seems abusive i think it’s not healthy to continue living In that environment

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LMBO... your mom prime is far gone and yours is beginning.

[gothgirl997]

Your prime is gone too gramps. In 3 years you'll be middle aged

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@gothgirl997: It's life

[Prismonic]

She probably was worried about you looking kind of like a hooker and getting hurt somehow.