Is it okay for my boyfriend to play wingman?

[Anonymous]

All of his friends are single (and sort of shy?) so he will go up to girls at bars and start talking to them/break the ice supposedly for his friends. It sort of bothers me that he's out meeting girls at bars.

Guys: should I be worried/do I have anything to even worry about or is this normal?

Girls: how would you feel if your guy did this?

[SophieaWoods11]

if my guy did that I would be pissed. that's so wrong for your boyfriend to do that. I don't get mad if my guy looks at p*rn and stuff and I'm really easy going but it's not right for him to play wingman with his friends when he has u. I would talk to him about how I felt and tell him y I felt the way I did, insted of just telling him to stop doing that. It's wrong to me if my gu did that cause it's so easy for him to get a little drunk and go home with whoever he was talking up. you should talk to your man about this, it doesn't sound too good.

[insecuregf100000]

I have this issue... at first it did make me feel really insecure because I always thought what if the girl doesn't want his friend and wants him instead? I found the best thing was to talk to him about it, let him know how I felt.

[Thedesendent]

As long as he isn't doing anything like flirting and what not then there's no harm in it. But I'll be skeptical the whole time lol.

[NicholasHalden]

Yes it is completely normal. I believe you shouldn't worry that much because it seems to me like he wants his friends to get girlfriends so they won't feel left out when they see you and him together. Just tell him if you can come along next time and to persuade and lightly push those girls to talk to his single friends. Girls are better at convincing other girls to go for something than the charm of a guy alone - we're good but girls are more considerate than us in conversations. Good luck.

[Asker]

thanks for your answer! makes me feel better, and that's a good idea :) I also wouldn't mind if his friends got girlfriends lol

[NicholasHalden]

No thanks needed ;). Girlsaskguys is all about helping one another out. Have fun at the bar and you'll find the girls for his friends. Anytime you need advice, I'm just a comment away.

[sixstring]

Sophiea, what the hell are you talking about?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. He's trying to help is friends out to find a girl. He's not trying to find a girl to flirt with himself.

It's like a guy getting mad at his girlfriend for going out shopping with her friends.

[Asker]

haha not the same (unless shopping meant going out and flirting with other guys)...but good try :)

[sixstring]

I meant that it's the same thing, as in it's just someting natural for a guy to do, and it's completely harmless, so you shouldn't get upset over it.