Is it true that sometimes you have to cut everybody off to focus on yourself or is it just something with me?

[Anonymous]

I feel like sometimes it’s not possible to focus on yourself unless you really don’t have anyone any friends around you. because for me I feel like my friends were distracting and to really better myself. and realize what I needed to focus on in my life and it hurts that I had to cut mostly all off. and I feel stupid at the same time that that’s what it takes for me to actually focus on myself. I just feel depressed like I wish I could done everything differently and some I did see later on that they never cared. about me really and some did and this really hurts I can’t even tell the ones that did matter because I was just like every time someone. would ask if I was ok or except me as a person or friend I just brushed it off trying to pretend it didn’t matter it was hard to believe. now it’s just a bunch of people who hate me now It hurts. but at the same time I felt relieved like I didn’t have to worry about impressing anyone or will this and that person like me. and I also I took a break from social media and all I could think about. even wen I wasn’t logged in what if this or that person message me today I hope nobody forgets I exist so would you agree sometimes it’s best to cut people off.

[Samtos]

We’re on this together, reason why I’m back on this site with random people, sometimes you just gotta close eyes like you were dead to really know those who care. It’s nothing, take your time and put it to good use before you go back on social media. When you’re back get even closer with those that cared and really missed you. In a nutshell, you’re a CLASSIC INTROVERT. You’re basically renewing your energy.

[kmike2020]

im going through that niw , for the padt year i have seen the bare minimum of people that i needed to, i got to a point to where i was more than lost i was vertigo losti made a decision about 2 things that i needed to do , cut everybody off and focused , its tough , it sucks , but in the end everything should fall right where it needs to be ,,

[btbc92]

Yes, you can and it is true. Though I wouldn't suggest cutting everyone off. But do take a break for yourself. If you know you're dealing with toxic people and they don't want to really respect you, just selfish, and they don't love you, then you should not even have to contemplate if you should cut someone out. It should be an automatic.

[DellBell]

Yes! I do that finally someone I can relate too! 🤣

I rather be by myself... clearing my mind and focusing on myself and that.. in this society most seem to be extroverts unfortunately extroverts don't understand why introverts want to be alone most of the time.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I put them on the back burner, but don't completely cut them off. Luckily, my friend circle is all like this and is pretty understanding of it.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Whatever works for you buddy. Nothing wrong with cutting people off for your own good. This is your time. Use it.

[Secret6620]

Absolutely!!! I do best alone... I can only speak from my experience though...

[Arjunaguy]

Yes there are times when I feel that to. Sometimes it's not possible to focus unless you cut people off completely for a while.

[Liam_Hayden]

Most people have a hard time saying, "No." especially to friends. You need to learn to take time for yourself and tell them, "No." unless t is an actual emergency.

[_no_one_]

Well i need a me-time too for self-introspection. I prefer solace with music acc. to my mood to get better outcomes tho.

[Fuentes]

I do it all the time i need positive energy when im dealing with ish so i cut everyone off to grow

[bente2]

You’ve gotta be a scorpio, capricorn or virgo

[Sweetener_]

It's true. I'm a loner anyway

[Iron_Man]

No sir that’s a bad move

[TMcCaa]

Yes. Sometimes you just gotta do you.

[sdtabot]

You're not alone.

[darknova7]

not just u

[Hotboy_booblover]

Yes..