Is a narcissist a demanding my way or the highway kind of person?

[red324]

Occassionally I meet these people who think I'm just going to drop everything at a moment's notice and run over and cater to their needs. I'm like who do these people think they are? Nevermind my plans for the day all the while they have their whole day planned to a t.

[btbc92]

NO. A narcissist is somebody who:

1. Only thinks of themselves and that they are the only ones that matter.
2. Don't have many friends unless their friends are all just like him/her with similar behaviors.
3. Everywhere they go their toxic. Nobody who is healthy likes them because of how much harm they do to others.
4. You have two varying degrees based on social status and income. A poor-middle class narcissist thinks they have it all and actually don't. They literally get nowhere without fighting dirty. An upper-middle to the rich class narcissist, don't have to think they have it all. They DO. But they brag it to the whole world hoping to troll, get a rise out of people, and make others look bad. They only give when it benefits them. Not give because they truly want to and then benefit from being subservient and humble. But this applies to all.
5. They tend to be the most popular of people and live in their own little world without respecting the worlds of other people.
6. Have a grandiose sense of self. Vanity.
7. They are unloyal. Don't keep their promises, and can have other mental health issues if not be abusive people. They are most likely to do abusive things and get away with them.
8. Refuse to acknowledge right from wrong. And don't care to change.
9. May engage in criminal behavior.
10. Twice as likely to get into unhealthy addictions.

There is more to the list, but these are the quickest way to know the difference. What DOESN'T make you a narcissist:

1. Setting boundaries, door slamming, and cutting the WRONG PEOPLE off!
2. Asserting yourself as a person when bullied, rejected, or disrespected.
3. Always available to help without being a people-pleaser.
4. Taking time off for yourself as part of self-care.
5. You Respect other's boundaries, beliefs, etc.
6. Always thinking of the welfare of others.
7. Know the difference between right and wrong.
8. Won't impose on others.
9. Accept that while they are special, everybody is special too. But is not better than other people even if they are or can be.
10. Is willing to change, seek help when needed, and be honest.

[Anonymous]

I have a personality disorder and sometimes exhibit's narcissistic behaviors and yes sometimes I think I'm better than others I hate it

[slatyb]

Labels aren't important, they just ease communication with other people. Meanwhile maintain your boundaries and don't give in to unreasonable requests. It's ok to say "no". If they get ugly then end the conversation.

[BestUserName100]

What if they are the same way? And it's their way or the highway? It's there rules and who gives a fuck.. About yours..

[BestUserName100]

They don't take orders from a you they don't like you you don't control them they don't need or owe you a god damn thing!!!

[BestUserName100]

Seriously.. Fuckk!! People like that!!

[BestUserName100]

Just tell them that you are only really out to help yourself and you don't really care about them.. And you are behind pulling all the strings helping getting them murdered while you act like you care..

[BestUserName100]

Which you don't and that is a lie..

[BestUserName100]

Isn't that right? Be honest... You don't give a fuck about them and you only do the bare minimum and keep them locked up in chains and use them and help get them murdered don't you? ...

[BestUserName100]

Bunch of sick twisted homicidal pieces of god damn shit if you ask me..

[BestUserName100]

Lying sacks of shit...

[BestUserName100]

You ain't never tried to help anybody except yourself and murder them for it and act like you are helping your have to be a god damn retard to trust a black guy in the first place...

[BestUserName100]

Whatever helps you homicidal pos sleep at night anyways right...

[BestUserName100]

Cause that's true isn't it? You are with all of them from Chicago? Who are going around trying to kill them and you are secretly helping them and doing absolutely nothing to help. Anybody except your god damn self. That's all and all it ever was. You selfishly only ever helping your god damn self. And help pull all the strings to get them murdered and act like you are helping. Fucking sick twisted god damn pos people you are aren't you...