It shouldn't be bad at all! You are there for him and he is there for you. I have cried about my personal and even academic stress to my boyfriend more than I'd like to admit honestly and it is super normal because he is your man and he is there to emotionally support you just like you are his support too. There is a big difference between being toxic and being a strict parent, and I'm sorry but your mother sounds toxic. To make such a big deal out of something so small is SO unnecessary. Is she going through anything in her life that she is acting like that towards you? This is not normal for someone to do honestly. Again I'm very sorry 🙏 but calling your boyfriend to complain about something this small was very childish of her.
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Well if he is both your only love and your only friend it's okay. Does having sex with your boyfriend relieve some of the stress from arguing with your mom? your mom knows that you got pills and that you plan to have sex with your boyfriend, but maybe she didn't know that you already lost your virginity to him, even without the pills. I think that you should confess to your mom that you had sex with your boyfriend, maybe then she would stop arguing with you about that issue, though she going to continue arguing with you about other issues.
It depends on how consistant it is...
There is nothing wrong with using your boyfriend as a shoulder to cry on.
But a relationship is give and take. You might need to find a permanent solution for your family matters. Rather than this back and forth.
Overtime it can wear on a person.
You both want to share with each other.
Overall, it's not a bad thing to cry on his shoulder. I'd say to just not aim to have it happen frequently.
Hopefully that makes sense...
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Well, your Mom is a very toxic person and if she really loves you she should be treating you better and I believe you do more then your best to make this work and I don't see your Mom getting any better and she could be jealous cause your dad doesn't show her the attention she's seeking and I hate to say this your Mom could throw you in a heart attack or severe mental illness or try to poison you to get rid of you well my suggestion this sounds so bizarre but when she starts arguments get on the phone call 911 and have them solve the matters and tell them your scared your mother might harm you one time I've heard an argument with you and your Mom speaking in a different language she sounds very angry and toxic horrible person I'm sorry If I'm offending you but you deserve a better life with your boyfriend :) Hugs
I think your mother is being over protective. Even though you are 19.
She's probably afraid that you might get pregnant.
Your father sounds more understanding. Maybe take some time to talk to him alone.As your partner, his job is to be the shoulder you cry on, the one to comfort you when you need it, and the one to put a boot up your ass even it’s needed. That’s his job. If he doesn’t like it, he should be with someone
Once or twice is ok, but cut it out after that. Nobody wants constant drama and problems thrown at them.
you're still a baby and you shouldn't be doing things that could lead to a baby. it's time for you to grow up (meaning get a job, a car and out of her hair)
You would like to have sex with him , right? So, they are being protective. Remember, they have been there , probably did that. You see?
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Get married
Move out on your ownNope that’s called getting emotional support it is generally assumed that is something you can seek from a partner
Who can you talk to if you can't talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend? 😄
I don’t remember one girl in my life don’t talk about her family problems so don’t worry it’s a common thing
I wonder how ugly you look even without makeup because even with it you ain’t all that
If your putting out, he can put up with it.
Not bad at all
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