It's more about making them recognise their mistakes and make them understand independently why that was wrong so they never do it again. No point in forcing them they have to do it themselves with their own body and mind.
You traumatize them. You buy a rabbit, you let the child build up a connection to this fluffy and cute animal, finally you kill it in front of their eyes and you cook a tasty dinner with its meat.
I still remember cries of rabbits before my mother slaughtered them.
Don't punish kids ever, talk to them and explain why what they have done is wrong, by the way I have been instrumental in bringing up three nieces, they are now a police officer, run their own estate agency, youngest is doing an MPhil in Cosmology, so they turned out fine!,,, Relatives used to say stuff like "you're too soft on them", well one time I slapped my aunt who said that to me, then I was in the wrong lol,,,
Confiscation of valuables, like how my parents disciplined me as a teenager (though in the 90s I was often spanked before it became illegal in my country)
I throw Christmas presents in the fire. I show up to their school in my bleach stained jogging pants stop by each class till I find them. And tell them I love them and make them say it back in front of all they little friends
what I am about to say might be considered child abuse, but it has good intentions, locking them in their room, making them clean, yell (not ideal), take something of theirs away, telling them they can no longer go to an event the wanted to go to.
There is a difference between a spanking and a beating. Usually, that is slapping the hand of a young child or giving a mild spanking. Using a belt would be excessive unless the child is older and lesser punishments have proven to be ineffective.
I wouldnât need to punish them cos I wouldnât allow them to act naughty... what even means acting naughty? Running around in a super market? I will jus straighten him or her out, no need for physical abuse or violence to train them like a dog... I jus wonât allow him or her to do naughty things
Iâm pretty sure verbal or physical abuse in order to punish your child is jus gonna ruin their self esteem and self worth anyway, I would never discipline my kids or harm them physically or verbally... I want my kids to grow up with love and respecting theirself, not the way I grew up with my mom always shouting at me and make me feel like unworthy crap, I have low self esteem cos of her, always will
By the way I hate my mom cos she used to verbally abuse me all the time, probably always will
So if ur gonna be a mom, I donât suggest shouting at them to try and make them be good... theyâll jus end up hating you, Try to use understanding words and rewards to make them behave instead, try to use love as a reward for good behaviour... or jus treats
@007kingifrit yeah I mean I wonât allow them to act bad, I jus wonât use verbal or physical punishment because itâs bad for self esteem, Iâm pretty sure you can make a kid behave good without verbally or physically abusing them
I know because thinking back to when I was kids there was things my parents could have done to make me behave, but shouting at me was not one... thatâs jus made me worse and more rebellious... which leads to more shouting and more self esteem plummeting... jus google âis shouting at your kids badâ Trust me, itâs not good... you gotta use more creative or nice ways to make them behave... teach them respect instead so theyâll wanna behave... thatâs also a good moral to teach them onto their adult life, respect
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First of all beating ain't a punishment it's abuse (child abuse). Look it up on google. There's tons of resources there from actual professionals not dumb far right idiots you find here.
It's not called punishment, it's called discipline. Honestly, if some of these kids had been beaten when they were young they wouldn't be in prison now or shooting up schools.
My mom spanked me lol but I don't know if i would ever spank my kids I don't know if i learned as a kid i think i just wanted to avoid a spanking so maybe my kids will wanna avoid. a hardd lecture lol
They ignore me my parents specially mom she stop talking to me for some times.. Or even grounded me as punishment.. But never have physically beaten me..
You have a lot of help here and I bet you will find happiness with your kid soon. I had a hard time myself with a kid that dont listen but they grow out of it. So hope the best for you.
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Technically, a hot iron isn't considered a beating. But I am 100% against this...
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It's more about making them recognise their mistakes and make them understand independently why that was wrong so they never do it again. No point in forcing them they have to do it themselves with their own body and mind.
I said the same but longer đ
You traumatize them. You buy a rabbit, you let the child build up a connection to this fluffy and cute animal, finally you kill it in front of their eyes and you cook a tasty dinner with its meat.
I still remember cries of rabbits before my mother slaughtered them.
Don't punish kids ever, talk to them and explain why what they have done is wrong, by the way I have been instrumental in bringing up three nieces, they are now a police officer, run their own estate agency, youngest is doing an MPhil in Cosmology, so they turned out fine!,,,
Relatives used to say stuff like "you're too soft on them", well one time I slapped my aunt who said that to me, then I was in the wrong lol,,,
Confiscation of valuables, like how my parents disciplined me as a teenager (though in the 90s I was often spanked before it became illegal in my country)
if i misbehaved my grandpa used to make me hold a bible up in each hand while standing still until i couldn't lift my arms anymore
I throw Christmas presents in the fire.
I show up to their school in my bleach stained jogging pants stop by each class till I find them. And tell them I love them and make them say it back in front of all they little friends
Try talking to your kids. Usually what they do wrong has real world consequences. Explain why what they're doing is wrong and who it hurts.
what I am about to say might be considered child abuse, but it has good intentions, locking them in their room, making them clean, yell (not ideal), take something of theirs away, telling them they can no longer go to an event the wanted to go to.
There is a difference between a spanking and a beating. Usually, that is slapping the hand of a young child or giving a mild spanking. Using a belt would be excessive unless the child is older and lesser punishments have proven to be ineffective.
Why are you explaining the difference to me dude lol
I wouldnât need to punish them cos I wouldnât allow them to act naughty... what even means acting naughty?
Running around in a super market?
I will jus straighten him or her out, no need for physical abuse or violence to train them like a dog... I jus wonât allow him or her to do naughty things
Iâm pretty sure verbal or physical abuse in order to punish your child is jus gonna ruin their self esteem and self worth anyway, I would never discipline my kids or harm them physically or verbally... I want my kids to grow up with love and respecting theirself, not the way I grew up with my mom always shouting at me and make me feel like unworthy crap, I have low self esteem cos of her, always will
By the way I hate my mom cos she used to verbally abuse me all the time, probably always will
So if ur gonna be a mom, I donât suggest shouting at them to try and make them be good... theyâll jus end up hating you,
Try to use understanding words and rewards to make them behave instead, try to use love as a reward for good behaviour... or jus treats
And no kid is gonna behave for someone they hate, shouting won't work for you... jus will repeat a cycle of negativity
I think my mum shouting at me actually made me behave worse... itâs definitely not an intelligent form of punishment
all kids act bad, you have to punish them at some point or they'll grow up to be awful people
@007kingifrit yeah I mean I wonât allow them to act bad, I jus wonât use verbal or physical punishment because itâs bad for self esteem, Iâm pretty sure you can make a kid behave good without verbally or physically abusing them
I know because thinking back to when I was kids there was things my parents could have done to make me behave, but shouting at me was not one... thatâs jus made me worse and more rebellious... which leads to more shouting and more self esteem plummeting... jus google âis shouting at your kids badâ
Trust me, itâs not good... you gotta use more creative or nice ways to make them behave... teach them respect instead so theyâll wanna behave... thatâs also a good moral to teach them onto their adult life, respect
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First of all beating ain't a punishment it's abuse (child abuse).
Look it up on google. There's tons of resources there from actual professionals not dumb far right idiots you find here.
Thank you
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It's not called punishment, it's called discipline. Honestly, if some of these kids had been beaten when they were young they wouldn't be in prison now or shooting up schools.
My mom spanked me lol but I don't know if i would ever spank my kids I don't know if i learned as a kid i think i just wanted to avoid a spanking so maybe my kids will wanna avoid. a hardd lecture lol
By requesting them to fix whatever consequences their acts had.
I like u, ur a good person
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Time outs. Revoking their privileges for a period of time.
They ignore me my parents specially mom she stop talking to me for some times..
Or even grounded me as punishment..
But never have physically beaten me..
You have a lot of help here and I bet you will find happiness with your kid soon. I had a hard time myself with a kid that dont listen but they grow out of it. So hope the best for you.
I hate children... why not have some corporal punishment?
Yikes