I told this girl I may have came inside her and she didn’t even text me back?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday when I was at her house we are watching Netflix and a guy just randomly walks in with keys she’s like I didn’t know you had the key or something like that. I’m not a person who asks questions I would assume she would introduce me like she did when i met her nephew. I thought it was her brother but I wasn’t sure. She lives in a 2 bedroom apartment and her nephew and girlfriend is in the other bedroom. So as I’m watching the show I’m expecting her to say something about it and she doesn’t. So the guy is in her room and goes and takes a shower. This girl literally goes to pause the show kinda like a it’s time to go type thing. And I’m like it’s 5 mins left wyd. This girl out of the blue became just busy gotta do things when we had one falling out.. I’m not sure who it was but I had to just leave I didn’t say anything I literally just opened and closed the door. I’ve almost gotten killed before so I’m kinda paranoid sometimes when I feel uncomfortable. The fact that she didn’t say anything like that’s my brother that’s my cousin nothing. It gotta be a dude she messes with then. So I just told her how that was weird and told her the truth about me not knowing if I pulled out. She didn’t respond at this point I honestly don’t even like her the same this last week weirded me out too much. We go from having sex and in 48 hours I’m taking my stuff out her house then. Then 7 days later I see you and everything cool but then that happens. It’s time for me to get out of there. I just hope that girl isn’t pregnant and if she is I was the only person she fucked but how this going and feeling. If she decides to keep a baby if she is pregnant she won’t know who the father is.

[OlderAndWiser]

There is SO MUCH screwed up in this situation that I can't possibly address it all and won' even try. I'll just stick to one point.

1. You don't know whether you pulled out before you ejaculated? Really? You think the rest of us are so fucking stupid that we believe that statement? You know and, obviously, you did ejaculate inside her. If she gets pregnant, you are responsible for your child and DO NOT FORGET THAT!

2. If you are going to have casual sex with a girl who is capable of getting pregnant, you cannot rely on her to have a method of birth control in place and you must accept responsibility for that yourself. The "pull out" method (properly known as coitus interruptus) is an EXTREMELY unreliable method. If you don't know what you can do to effectively prevent conception, then you need to stop having sex.

[Asker]

Your so right. If you have the time can you give your opinion about the rest as well lol. This is crazy then I’m nervous cause her mother has 10 kids and her only sister has 15.. so she’s definitely fertile

[OlderAndWiser]

This chick is not ready for a relationship with you. Keep looking.

[Asker]

Your right I hope I didn’t get her pregnant will be a long 18 years

[Anonymous]

She has the right to not text you back. What do you expect? You came in her without her permission or anything. Better start saving for the child support buddy!

[Asker]

It wasn’t on purpose. I pulled out then went back in. Ik that’s not fool proof but I just feel in one position I had her running of the bed if I did it was right there that’s why I’m nervous.