100% in my family, your family (parents and siblings) will always be your family and no matter how old you get you're always welcome to stay if you need it. I'm 31 and living at home at the moment.
If they are going to school I wouldn't force them out. Once school is done it would be the same as my father told me get a job & pay rent or move out & support your own life style.
It depends on the situation. For example I live in average multi generational house with big garden. If I ever need more space I can just build a house or two in garden.
Yes, well - it's anything but love. I know several men whose parents did this to them, and all of them hate their parent's guts and refuse to see or speak to them. A former friend of mine did this to his son who wound up living in a park for three months until he was murdered for his sleeping bag and clothes. His father told me it was his son's fault because "if he had saved money and worked more before I made him leave, he wouldn't have been murdered". He meant it. People that do things like this are monsters
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There's nothing wrong to live at home when you're an adult.
no matter how old you get?
100% in my family, your family (parents and siblings) will always be your family and no matter how old you get you're always welcome to stay if you need it. I'm 31 and living at home at the moment.
I lived with my mother before I got married so I could save up for a house.
@exitseven how old were you?
I rented a place for a year or so, then when I was 24 I moved back in with my mother to save money.
@exitseven and how long did you stay when you moved back in?
About a year and a half.
I moved out of my parents house the year I finished school & started working. It was my choice.
but if you were a parent would you do this?
If they are going to school I wouldn't force them out. Once school is done it would be the same as my father told me get a job & pay rent or move out & support your own life style.
It's bad if you didn't prepare them during their high school ages.
Honestly i wouldn't but i can understand why some may feel that kicking them out is helping them with there lives in terms of toughness
It depends on the situation. For example I live in average multi generational house with big garden. If I ever need more space I can just build a house or two in garden.
Right that's quite normal in Slavic countries
Yup, I like it that way
Boys should be kicked out at 18.
Girls should be encouraged to stay as long as possible.
Girls should be given special treatment, guys shouldn’t?
Boys who face adversity become men. Men are high value. Women who face adversity get used. Used women are low value.
I don't understand that, I never will, they'll eventually move out and if they don't figure out the issue.
What better way to let your child know you don't love them?
Some parents justify it by calling it “tough love”
Yes, well - it's anything but love. I know several men whose parents did this to them, and all of them hate their parent's guts and refuse to see or speak to them. A former friend of mine did this to his son who wound up living in a park for three months until he was murdered for his sleeping bag and clothes. His father told me it was his son's fault because "if he had saved money and worked more before I made him leave, he wouldn't have been murdered". He meant it. People that do things like this are monsters
Neither. You should encourage your kids to find their own place though at some point as that will help them began to mature in adulthood.
My kids will be allowed to live at home as long as they want.
Depends on how established they are money wise
Depends on what you taught them during those years
What would you teach them?
To last on their own
Which means what? Having a good job?
As someone who's 37 you should already have a good idea on what that would mean
Of course I know personally but others sometimes have different ideas hence the question... yeesh
Nah answer's the same here, it's okay
That’s bad parenting where are they gonna go
That first picture is exactly how it was for me.
I voted B