Girls, Aunt is not being reasonable?

[Anonymous]

I was over at my aunt's house and she was talking to me about the women's self defense class she is taking. I laughed and thought it was funny. She told me to not laugh because it taught her moves that could kick my butt. That made me laugh even more because she is almost 50 like 5'1'' and i'm 20 and 6'2''.

I told her there's no way any of those moves would work on me, She guaranteed that one move would definitely work. So I challenged her that she couldn't take me down with one of the moves she learned. So she says fine, but i'm gonna warn you against it.

With that we went to the living room and she said, are you ready.. then out of no where she kicks me right in the balls, I went down and she started giggling about how she was right and she only used a light kick.

How unfair is this move for an aunt to pull on her nephew, and can you believe that she was giggling

[19magic]

Well you laughed at her defence class and said that nothing would work almost cockily by the sounds of it so when she challenged you even saying I know something that'll drop you to the ground you still said go on without any rules or limitations aka no head or groin hits. And then when she did the move that's no one to drop a guy your surprise and she's unreasonable.

Maybe she did what she thought it was a light kick but it almost seemed like you were in a way asking for it, I mean she did say one move that'll work. Other than eye gorging, throat punches most things after that are all fair game.

[Asker]

But do you think she was right to aim for the balls? She made it sound like she’s stronger than me because she took me down

[laraWM]

Yes, this is really not reasonable. The purpose of self-defence classes is usually to emphasize on the right usage of the moves.
I'm sorry for what she did, are you ok now?
You should tell your parents because it is not acceptable to me

[Asker]

she then gave me a hard time because she claimed she barely even kicked me and she thought I was tougher

[laraWM]

I'd stop seeing her, she seems pretty insensitive

[Asker]

so women dont think less of a guy for that kind of reaction?

[laraWM]

No, groin attacks are effective on guys that's why they are taught in self defence class

[Asker]

yeah it sucks when we get hit there :( and now she challenged me to come compete with her in her martial arts class

[laraWM]

Yes, maybe you can learn how to defend yourself.
But I'm not sure I'd go to the same class, if they don't emphasize that people should not be hurt

[Asker]

I dont want her thinking of weak down there though

[laraWM]

I can't tell for her, I mean it happened anyway, you can't rewind
But it is obviously a weak spot on guys that's why she targeted it

[Asker]

so you wouldn't be surprised to see a guy go down from a kick? have u seen it happen before?

[laraWM]

No lol I'd think it must hurt a lot.
Once my sister accidentally hit my boyfriend in the groin, he couldn't get up for 10 minutes

[Asker]

lol fail - why did she do that?

[laraWM]

Why? No, it was stupid accident

[Asker]

did u make it feel better for him later? lol

[laraWM]

Yes I guess it was the same as you.
He needed some time to breathe after he got up but he was fine

[Asker]

I think because my aunt is older she may not have understand how fragile my balls are

[laraWM]

You'll never know. She has a husband? or a son?
Maybe they could talk to her

[Asker]

she is divorced with no kids. do you think older women understand? she seemed to think a light kick wouldn't hurt that much

[laraWM]

I don't know we probably can't generalize. But I'd have think the opposite.
Maybe it was simply the first time she saw a guy react to a kick in the groin and she was surprised

[Asker]

I'm pretty tall and muscular, do u think that made her think i could handle it better?

[laraWM]

I don't think so.
You said in the question that you challenged her she couldn't take you down with one of the moves she learned. So she probably knew you'd go to the floor.
Maybe she was surprised to see how long it keeps you on the floor? Cause my boyfriend was kinda paralyzed on the floor for 10 minutes

[Asker]

how did he react from the kick? did that surprise you?

[laraWM]

He doubled over holding his groin, and then he fell to the floor because he couldn't handle it.
I was not surprised at first because you see it in movies but then I was worried and surprised because he was like paralyzed and couldn't talk

[Asker]

do you know if she made contact with his dick or his balls? sounds like she hit him super hard

[laraWM]

Yes, she probably made a quite hard contact, that's why it was so painful. She felt really embarrassed after that

[Asker]

Were u suprised at all that good have that much impact on him? im assuming he's a lot bigger than her

[laraWM]

Yes of course she's a girl so he's bigger but the groin is the well known weak spot of guys. It was obvious it hurt a lot

[Asker]

but i still feel like u had to be a little suprised she him down that easily right? did she understand what happened or is she too young?

[laraWM]

From his reaction it was quite easy to understand, he was holding his groin

[Asker]

I would've tried to pretend like it didn't hurt that much, especially if i was trying to impress u

[laraWM]

I think he tried because he didn't go to the floor first but then he genuinely couldn't handle it.
I'm not sure you could pretend that because you also went to the floor with your aunt, right?

[Asker]

Yeah I dropped to the ground, but she hit both balls with her foot, so she got me square.. if she had just hit the penis i wouldn't have dropped

[laraWM]

So you were unlucky. I have no clue on what you are saying lol

[Asker]

what dont u understand?

[laraWM]

I didn't think into that much details on which parts were kicked but I trust you

[Asker]

oh it hurts the most when the balls are hit, the penis hurts but not nearly as much

[laraWM]

Well that has to hurt a lot anyway

[Asker]

its not really bad our parts just dangle out there!

[laraWM]

Well at least there is no lie about efficiency in using groin attacks against male assaillant

[Asker]

hah no they work too well.. even a light tap can double us over

[laraWM]

Again I'm sorry for what happened to you but I'm sure you'll get over it

[Asker]

i just hate that she thinks she is stronger than me because she took me down

[laraWM]

Of course a kick to the groin won't work well on her but it doesn't mean she is stronger than you. Maybe she was a bit smarter or sneakier on that and you were too confident

[Asker]

what makes u think she was sneakier?

[laraWM]

Because from her behavior you could have been understand that she'd try to kick you in the groin. As you said it is really effective on guys

[Asker]

i feel like its a cheap shot to go for the balls since they are so fragile

[laraWM]

And even sneakier because you can't do the same to her

[Asker]

does it hurt at all for women?

[laraWM]

Yes I said first that she was wrong for doing it. It was really mean. Then I tried to understand her mind lol
Of course it hurts but you can't end a fight like your aunt did with you

[Asker]

Yeah it just sucks because if we get hit in the balls, we really can't do anything but drop to the floor in pain

[Anonymous]

But wtf, she kicked you in the balls in front of your family? I hope you punched her back