For one your mother is in need of some serious serious medical psychological intervention sorry have to break it to you because I don't like talking that way about guys mom and two there's nothing wrong with cuddling with your sister and if your mom made some kind of assumption it was the wrong assumption to make and their different kinds of intimacy between people and sibling intimacy is not wrong or inappropriate and there's nothing lude or harmful about being close to your sister in a familia kind of way. Social convention wise, though you might want to save kisses for external contact because exchanging of tongue and other things you'd be doing with the girlfriend is perhaps crossing into a context of relationship dynamic that you don't want to get into with your sister but kissing on the mouth in a sweet good night kind of way is fine just don't ram your tongues into each other's mouth cuz that's what you do with your girlfriend not your sister no one's making any assumptions I'm sure you didn't do that but just kind of giving you some boundaries there which are far more realistic than your mom's boundaries you which are probably to have you in different countries if she had her way but brother and sister can be extremely intimate in a family kind of way without crossing the line into any kind of romance or I'm worried kind of way which is what people who start families do. You and your sister should be there for the birth of each other's kids as long as you did not make those kids together which doesn't sound like is the case with you guys it's not like you're making out or anything were you? I used to cuddle with my female cousins but it was a family kind of cuddling not a making out heavy petting kind of cuddling.
Your mom needs help that's just as plain as day, and if she's hurting your sister physically, she really needs help and I just highly recommend you pursue that avenue of immediate intervention on your sisters behalf and yours.
Okay, let me see if I get you correctly.
You are 32 and your sister must be +/ 2 to 3 years in range maximum. That means she is between 29 and 35, right?
Now, you are cuddling in front of your mother. I suppose that both of you live at home and that your mother is telling you, both adults, that she will report you to her husband.
What kind of family is that?
You should never let your family interfere with you since both you and your sister are adults.
Aside from that, it is wrong to cuddle with your sister because mainly guys have a hard time controlling themselves.
Children cuddling is fine, because they're kids, but adults who are siblings cuddling is just plain weird, man
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