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Because they don't see women as equals, they see them as objects to be used. Why would you befriends with an object you can't use?
Grown men act in their own individual way for self protection guarding their hearts in what ever way they deem necessary for mental survival. in my opinion
Because, on some level, we are always thinking about fucking her.
If the girl is ugly then yes we can be friends with them. Otherwise no.
I don't know I always thought it was fine and liked being friends with someone of the opposite sex. I guess you're not supposed to for some reason
You can, if you don't find her attractive. If you do you might catch feelings, or at least want to sleep with her
Exactly!
Like for me i would not date straight away i would wait
Yes but are you friends to women with ulterior motives. Because I hear many women express how they have male friends who they just want to be friends with but the male friends just want to sleep with. This also happens to me so I’m wondering why older men are doing this?
Can you guys have normal loving relationships with a woman without the possibility of romance or no because these videos make it seem like straight men can’t but I have lots of lesbian friends that aren’t like this so I don’t understand how it’s about the attraction part?
I only want to be there friends if the girl wants to take it further then she can tell me but i have no altetero motive
I have hooked up with every platonic female friend I’ve ever had so it is definitely possible to just be friends. I just haven’t found the right platonic friend yet.
Same reason why so many straight women think they can’t be platonic friends with men.
Why do you have such anger towards men? Every post of yours is like this. You are way too young to be this jaded.
No idea. I have girl friends. And yes I do find them attentive.
I have lots of friends that are women. and ex lovers that are still friends.
I have so many friends who are women 😂 it is possible to be friends with them.
1. Every girl knows the guy wants to or would fuck them
2. Female friends serve no purpose
I don't know about them but I can't, I eventually catch feeling 😬
You know better that good and dont belive Bj is not sex it is
Men are whores who just wanna fuck anything
I understand why you think that way because society puts high a emphasis on sex. For women some women they don't feel comfortable with their sexuality because a lot of people will make them feel ashamed just having sex or make her feel like she doesn't deserves man because she her chest is flat or her butts not big enough. Silly stuff like that makes a lot of people feel insecure & think develop negative ways of thinking that are detrimental to themselves. For men they make a lot of guys feel like everyone is having sex or has a girlfriend & if you're not somethings wrong with you. And also the high-emphasis individualism, they make you feel like if something went wrong in your life it's all your fault & the system we live in is prefect & if you feel like shit, that's because of you as a man or woman. I'm not trying make you feel bad about thinking like that because we already have enough of that kind of negativity floating around everywhere. I just feel really sad that you feel that way about all men. Same way I feel bad when a guy says all girls only like bad boys which just like all men only want sex just isn't true. A woman will want to stay with a man if he's honest nice, disarming & genuine. Sure some women pick bad boys, but bad boys have nearness to them that is charming & charming is disarming. Men think they need to be the bad boy or a sleep around to feel accept by others. If the guy is pretending to be nice to get sex then she not going to want him. You just need to be honest & a good person. The bad boy is just honest that he's an asshole & he's not pretending. If you're being fake to make a sale, to scam peoples money, to get sex or anything from them people will know & not want anything to do with you.
A lot of people allow their thinking to become corrupted & just fall into negative behaviors that causes them get hurt even more in life. We're all born in this world depended on someone else for us to survive & if the person who is in charge of you doesn't take care of you then that's not your fault. Same thing if you never understood how to do math in school because the teacher never simplified it for you, again it's not your fault. And if society brain washes you into believing awful things about men or women again, it's not your fault. It's nothing wrong with it's a lot of people have corrupted thinking that is causing them to have self destructive behaviors. How far has the gender gotten us so far? How many people have took their lives or gotten stupid surgeries that celebrities' brained washed them into getting because they feel they're not beautiful & are only good for sex reproduction. The gender war is a waste of time. Shaming each other does nothing, but cause each other more pain. You're not wrong for feeling the way you do. It's not your fault you feel the way you do.
Everyone makes mistakes, it's nothing to feel ashamed of.
@Joeshamo I was just joking, but uh, I see. 😶
@melonsoda I figured you were. I wasn't trying to shit on you or you feel bad. It's I had to grow up dealing with shitty adults that were in charge of everything & now that I'm in the position to be more understanding & not shit on younger people & make they them feel bad. I didn't realize that a lot of younger people are confused & feel lost in the world. A lot of them think like because I grew up before the age of the smart phone I have better understanding & wisdom that a lot of young they never got that growing up. Before I thought younger people have easier than me. But then when I was 25 notice a lot of them were looking to me for answers & they felt lost in the world. I just feel like it's my job to be the difference that I want to see from other older adults. To let younger know it's not your fault, there's nothing wrong with you as a person, & everything is going to be okay. I figured you probably were just joking it's just a lot of young people think like that, so I'm never sure.
The same reason many gay men don't?
They think like that because they're too insecure.
Or maybe we just don’t like being taken advantage of.
@globetrotter22 If there's no attraction between a man and a woman they can be just friends. Sure there will be bad people who cheat and there are people who use others but not everyone is like that.
I agree. I have been long time friends with one woman because neither of us having any interest in more. I have been over her place while another guy was banging her in the room next to me. I didn’t feel even an ounce of jealousy.
But those scenarios are rare. More often than not the guy is interested but isn’t direct about it. She knows but conveniently plays dumb and conveniently friendzones him for her own selfish benefit.
Now I haven’t had let a girl get away with that bullshit in many years. I developed radar for that crap. But I can honestly tell you that I have NO good memories of any girl who friéndzoned me in HS and college. Absolutely none. I have just a feeling of hatred towards them and to myself for going along with it. I look back on all those incidents as hard lessons.
But I still encounter grown ass women in their 30s who think it’s okay to pull friéndzone bs. It’s like a man in his mid 30s who lies to pump and dump women like he’s a 22 year old player. He might be able to get away with it. But he’s a selfish piece of sh*t who should know better.
Then there have been a handful of women who tactfully rejected me (early). Although I was disappointed at the time I actually look back on them with gratitude. They had the respect to show me where I stood. They were considerate of my position. I hold no ill will to those women and I hope things worked out for the best for them.
I can. As long as I'm not interested in her.