How should I deal with this so our friendship doesn't end?

[Anonymous]

My Best friend of 14 years starts dating this guy it's been almost a year... During the relationship her boyfriend has blocked her dozens of times when he gets mad at her. Broken up with her. Kicked her out of their apartment multiple times in the middle of the night. Suspiciously tried to get her friends number to Prank call her after he accused that friend of trying to sleep with him. Calls her names and accuses her of cheating. He also makes me feel uncomfortable by talking about my sex life and asking my best friend if my boobs are bigger have we seen each other naked etc. I would like to stay out of their relationship but she calls me and texts me all the time on how her boyfriend treats her and I've even had to help her move back to her parents but she keeps going back to him. I've told her and I've set up boundaries but it's like she gets mad at me and makes excuses for her boyfriend? How should I deal with this situation so our friendship doesn't end up as a loss?

[kyleelyn199723]

Tell her enough with consulting you about the relationship. It’s not your job to fix things between her and him. If she can’t get a clue on how this relationship isn’t a normal/ good relationship , that is on her. She needs to knock it off. You are not her free therapist

[Coolj]

I'd tell her how he makes you uncomfortable, ask her if she's happy? And that no matter what she decides is going to happen with your friend ship and their relationship that you'll try and support her decision. Let her know that you're there for her and that you're concerned with how things are going.

[Danny_dan92]

Next time she vents to you, give her the cold hard truth. Be honest with her. She clearly has his dick as a blindfold and you need to rip that shit off her face

[noohair]

This is my opinion, tell her that when this guy abuses her it hurts you and that the pain is too much. You don't want to be exposed to the chaos. It is ruining your life too. Boundaries need to be set.