Would you find it annoying if your friend constantly asked for you food?

[Pink2000]

Every time I cook something and post it or we go out to eat she will always ask for some. When we go out to eat and I get an appetizer for myself , she will just grab some and not even ask or when I cook something and post it , she’ll want me to bring her some and it’s honestly really annoying. I’ve never met anyone like that before and I’ve known her for a while. She considers me her Bestfriend so I don't know if I’m tripping or not. It’s the same friend that wanted to go out to eat and when it was time to order she said she didn’t have any money and I had to pay for her.

[imjustadude]

This is leftover behavior from child hood. It is especially annoying if they are on the don't eat anything diet (not sustainable) and then eat your food and food binge later. Red flags everywhere. Be assertive and tell her no. It's fun to share food in a sanitary way if you are trying out a new restaurant and it is convenient to, but as an everyday occurrence it is annoying af.

[Pink2000]

Literally an everyday occurrence

[msc545]

VERY annoying. Talk to her and get her to stop!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes i hate if anyone friend/stranger/family/boyfriend asks for or touches anything on my plate. This is often once they received their own meal of something different but they find our meal more appealing. I just dont like sharing food unless its like nachos or french fries

[Pink2000]

I hate sharing food. If you wanted some you shoulda bought some.

[DizzyDesii]

Exactly. I usually tell em “just order this next time”. I always show people online pics of what im ordering before i even order it. They were like nahh i’ll pass. But when it comes out, they regret not ordering the same. My cousins and i went to eat at tis new restaurant in town. I ordered a glazed pork chop and mashed potatoes. They ordered fish and fries. And it looked dry af. They all started beggin to taste my porkchop. Like boy bye 😂

[Dinklex3]

I always cook for my friends and we always share food. I think it's one of our ways of expressing love, lol.
The last part about wanting to go out, then not having money is shady af though.

[NathanDavis]

nope... and I do have two friends that are just like that, and I'm used to it...

one of them, she usually grabs a bite only... the other, she sometimes likes to share my food, lmao...

however, they have NEVER asked me to actually go to their place and get them some of my food, that is just strange to me... lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I don't want to be wrong but she's taking advantage of your kindness I wonder if she has a boyfriend or husband would she do the same with them, really hard to say I could never afford this type of friendship

[Pink2000]

That’s it too she has never had a boyfriend and I see why

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Pink2000 Yeah, she's piece of cake for sure

[Uptowngirl88]

I'm fucking screaming 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. She would get on my last damn nerves. Like sis , if you like it so much go order it yourself.

[Pink2000]

She be pissing me off.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's annoying as fuck especially if you put your hand in my plate and take food I'd freak out I really don't like that

[Pink2000]

Pisses me off. I take my food so seriously.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Me too

[WowwGirl]

Unless she was homeless and starving I think your friend has issues

[robertdurst231]

Issues? Sounds like a lack of discipline if you ask me. Quick fix: Don't invite the person out anywhere anymore. Best not to enable bad behaviour. Diagnosing psychological issues for something like that would be a difficult sell.

[jimmy2]

it does not sound that you think she is a best friend or it would not be hurting you like this.

[Gwenhwyfar]

She sounds really annoying

[Anonymous]

watermelon, collard greens , and Pigs feet?

[Pink2000]

I’m a vegetarian and two you sound ignorant af which I guess is why you’re anonymous cause you’re too pussy to say that shit

[princeofromance]

Yes!

[TrillXHippy]

Absolutely I would