Boyfriend calls me weak? And he doesn't like it?

[Beck93]

So before I met him I was the toughest girl around I never let anything put me down or anyone harm me or any of my friends.. But when I met him I think my heart like become so soft and I became so sensitive I can't hurt a fly now even if it hurt me first.. And guess what he doesn't like that.. Honestly I don't either Because lately people have been hurting me a lot and I don't have the will to stand up for my self instead I think to my self " I don't need any extra headache I'll let them have the pleasure of feeling so strong and whatever I'll suck it up I always do that"

But maybe all this happened because of sucking up everything that hurt me I dunno

Help me :(

[Anonymous]

I'm going through this exact same situation and it's exhausting. I feel really embarrassed and defenseless whenever him and I argue. I have little to NO real friends. The part that sucks the MOST is that there truly is no option for leaving because we have a child together.

Now a lot of people will say, "being a single mom is a real thing" or, "you don't Ahave to stay with him". I HAVE to. I love him till the death of me and I would never separate my home. My daughter needs her father just as much as she needs me. He constantly makes me feel like it's me, but one day he'll see it's him. No matter what the outcome, I'm fighting for this relationship to last and if it doesn't...

[dvd89]

You can change your body but you can not change your personality...you two do not mesh together obviously...otherwise you would not have changed your personality..

Solution: Get strong again...or find a new guy!

[Beck93]

New guy is not an option .. I love him too much

But the q is how do I get strong again.. I've been thro hell, I've lost all my friends, in lost mum trust, we keep fighing (me and him ) all the time which is the main reason why I am not able to tough up again.. I guess

[dvd89]

Get new friends/Try to make amends with the old...Try to gain your moms trust back by c ontinuing to be honest with not only her but others as well (show her by bringing her to a bunch of people you have lied to and tell them the truth)...

Pick your battles...if you are fighting because he ate the last piece of cake...you need to break up!

[dvd89]

continuing*

[Beck93]

Yeahh well I hope things were easier

Well thanks for the help :)

[dvd89]

You had to hear the truth..I do not lie or tell you what you "want to hear"..I really think you two are not meant for each other but..to each their own I suppose..