Lately my conscience has been bothering me. So there was this friend that kept on saying that we’ll hang out and then canceling so I finally told her how I felt and that I just wanted a real friend that ended up back firing and she got super pissed and ended our friendship. After I apologized a lot she said it’s okay then we didn’t speak for a day. Then the next day she texted me saying “ oh so you’re not going to talk to me you’re just going to be salty” and she also posted a post about me saying” I guess now I know who my “real friends” are 🥴” I screenshotted to ask about it and she asked me why I screenshotted and I told her thisAnd she responded back with this:I never responded back I just blocked her off of everywhere including phone number. I know that I didn’t deserve to get cursed out like that but a part of me just wants to forgive her and unblock her. I also know that I deserved a better friend but for some reason leaving her blocked is bothering me. Some guy texted me saying that she forgot my number and I haven’t answered that guy but I’m thinking about sending it and unblocking her
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So her friend just texted me saying “ Hey, this (her name) friend she wanted me to text you and tell you can text her so y'all can talk about it” what should I do?
Listen, this is just my opinion but... she's a jerk. And you're so ready to forgive and give her another opportunity to hurt you. You work hard, you contribute to your family, you study, you're dedicated to your boyfriend. Your mom treats you like crap and you're used to it so by tolerating selfish and mean behavior it's just something you're used to. You've been conditioned to tolerate behavior that others just wouldn't deal with for a second. During my therapy for sex addiction a lot of the horrible shit that others did to me, by people who were supposed to love and protect me, I was so used to so if at least they weren't being physically hurtful I figured it wasn't so bad and I'd just accept it.
I'm not a psychologist. I'm just a victim of years of abuse and I actually got help. I don't think you've been through what I was but some of your behavior seems similar.
You're a gem! You're a wonderful considerate and thoughtful young woman who just wants to do the right thing and be loved by the people that you allow into your life.
That girl you're thinking is your friend is a toxic fucking bitch and if my daughter was thinking about letting that evil jerk back into her life we'd have a sit down.
Girl, she is so broken... you don't need her. She needs help herself, most probably a spanking.
She's not good for you or anyone.
Again, just my opinion but... wow. She's bad news. You can do so much better.
She's toxic. What has she done to change? Nothing. No apology. Let her wait, you have better things to do with your time than serve her drama. Just sayin...🙄
I didn't read any of it coz I just can't stand big blocks of words People block people when they can't handle them and I dont think I can't handle anyone on this planet so I won't block anyone
I think both of you could have handled this better. In the first place I wouldn't unblock right now her because her attitude is just ddisrespectful and immature (if sharing a post about you.. by name?). She needs to cool of for sure... I don't know if the future is an option to not necessarily reconcile but maybe just to say a few peaceful words or regrets...
I do think you made a mistake in terms of you could have showed more understanding (if I read correctly that she was caring for sick grandparents or something?) When she was busy. Or ask yourself, has it always been this way? Or only since she had her troubles.
Maybe you could have even offered to help out so you could have spent time with her. But it is always better to give without expecting return because then you won't be hurt.
She has always canceled even when he wasn’t and she ahd told me that he was okay I apologized a bunch of times before this but then she made a post about me
Hmm, up to you to trust her as to whether you give her back the number she deleted... you can always unblock her but I dont recommend interacting with her. Would she have any necessary reason ti contact you? Mutual interests? Job? You can decide
Maybe to apologize or maybe to harass me I’m not sure. She tried to follow me with her other account that I forgot to block I don’t know why maybe she was trying to apologize? She didn’t message me anything though
I’d let her go. That whole response she gave was unnecessary and completely victimizing herself. She was the one wrong here because she has no respect for your time. I understand she has things going on, but to repeatedly blow you off is just rude. It is not hard for her to say “can I let you know when’s a good time to hang out? I have a lot going on and just want to deal with that”, or something of that nature. Instead she’s in her fight or flight mode, and cussing you out that way should be the nail in the coffin.
