Do you like having guest at your place?

[Uptowngirl88]

My family wants FLY OUT to visit omfg that means I gotta entertain their asses and once they fly out here who knows when tf they're going home. It's one thing if they lived in the same city they drive over, visit then go home. But noooo they wanna fly

No because they don't know when tf to go home and I have to entertain them

Yes I love it

Depends, explain below

Updates

1 y

So basically they are trying to make a vacation of their visit to me. That's my issue with this. If it were just a visit it's one thing but a fucking vacation! He'll naw

[SaartjieJane]

I haven’t seen my mom in three years and her side of the family for 6 years. I would LOVE having them over… he’ll I wish my mom and stepdad came to live with me and always have them around.
It’s nice having friends over but with most of them, I have it two hours and I want them gone. Other friends I love having over and don’t want them to go.
So honestly it depends on who is coming over

[Aerissa_Jade]

I don't mind my parents, but not everyone... I also don't mind a get together in the backyard for a BBQ or something but if they are going to be staying for a week or more, they need to get a room somewhere.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I always welcome company & if they call me & want to stop over no problem however if they want to make a vacation of it I end up with a headache.
I always say first you are a guest & then you are a pest.

[Uptowngirl88]

Thank you, I had to include this in my update. I feel they're well I know they're making a vacation of my visit is the issue. If it were just a visit like swinging by for a couple hours okay but they're flying here that's a damn vacation at my place

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I live by the beach & when I had an apartment I didn’t have a problem however once I bought a house the phones started ringing.

[slatyb]

You are an adult. You don't have to agree. Just tell them it's not a good time.

[Blackcosmo]

Uh no. It's always people I don't know and there are always so many dishes it's overwhelming! Also I get really anxious around new people but my parents keep pressuring me which absolutely sucks.

[zagor]

You sound like my mother - why do you feel obligated to "entertain" them? Let them rent a car and go where they please. And show them where your kitchen is and let them worry about meals.

[Pink2000]

No. I don’t. I’ve only ever had friends over but after a few hours I’m ready for them to go.

[Uptowngirl88]

🤣🤣🤣 cold hard facts

[Uptowngirl88]

I'm trying to figure out how I can get them not to visit. She was like "girl why can't I hear from you?" Extroverts get on my nerves. They take shit personal. I really don't like being on the phone unless it's a social app or someone wants to meet up to do something. Then she's like imma have to make a visit to your state. Like why tf would she do some dumb shit like that? She thinks I don't answer the phone now I really ain't answering the phone.

[Pink2000]

Lmaooo 😭 how long are they trying to stay?

[Uptowngirl88]

💀💀💀bruh, that's the thing she didn't even say. And you know when someone doesn't say how long they gone stay they plan to wear out they welcome and eat you outta house and home

[exitseven]

it depends on who the guest is. I like it when one of my friends comes over.

[TacosRAwesome]

I wouldn't mind having guests for a few days but longer than that gets exhausting.

[nisnaia]

Some days it's cool to have visitors if they can respect your house rules.

[Bklynbadboy12]

No but family yes im really close to my family so it never seems like work

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Depends, explain below

[Uptowngirl88]

Are u gonna explain?🤣

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Uptowngirl88 It would drive me to the end having relatives staying with me

[bootieclapper9000]

nah leave me the heck alone lol

[Uptowngirl88]

And i thought i was bad @Pink2000 🤣

[Xtendable]

I like to choose who I want over for a vacation

[Mia-Wallace]

Yeah, I love it.

[eagle1951]

no !!