I'm going to try to keep this short. I moved to a new state with my blended family last year.
Over the last year, I made friends who we're or who already graduated high school. They have lived in this state for all their lives. And we are all college aged.
Three of them are in their second year while I took a gap year and I'm just getting into my first year this fall. The other two are in university a few hours away and the other is transferring next spring.
There's only one friend who isn't going to college. That's understandable because it's not for everyone. But this is my problem.
One of them who is in college is my new girlfriend of 4 months now. And it already feels like potentially I might lose all these friends I made in the last year due to potentially them leaving.
It's just really hard to make friends and this group felt so special. I moved away from a state to start a new life and now it feels like the people in this new life are leaving.
They haven't left yet but i can almost feel it happening. I'm not selfish enough to say this shouldn't be happening, it's just the natural order of our society.
But is it weird that I feel like this is all happening too fast? I didn't even go to high school with these people yet we've got closer this year.
Over the last year, I made friends who we're or who already graduated high school. They have lived in this state for all their lives. And we are all college aged.
Three of them are in their second year while I took a gap year and I'm just getting into my first year this fall. The other two are in university a few hours away and the other is transferring next spring.
There's only one friend who isn't going to college. That's understandable because it's not for everyone. But this is my problem.
One of them who is in college is my new girlfriend of 4 months now. And it already feels like potentially I might lose all these friends I made in the last year due to potentially them leaving.
It's just really hard to make friends and this group felt so special. I moved away from a state to start a new life and now it feels like the people in this new life are leaving.
They haven't left yet but i can almost feel it happening. I'm not selfish enough to say this shouldn't be happening, it's just the natural order of our society.
But is it weird that I feel like this is all happening too fast? I didn't even go to high school with these people yet we've got closer this year.
