Should I talk to my friend about her becoming distant since we went out?

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I've been friends with her for about a year but we've never been that close, but we went out the day she broke up with her ex, she invited me. We had a great time, it became a bit flirty, she was a bit touchy with me, and we ended up at her apartment, though nothing happened. Throughout the night she called me her new best friend and we made a lot of plans over the next month

Since then, she's barely answered my texts and answers very dry, though sometimes has started texting good morning and thank you message texts. Bit hot and cold in text but also in person, sometimes when I see her she barely even looks up, other times she smiles widely at me and talks to me for a while, but then cancels plans we made together- Most of which were her idea

She may be going through shit and that's fine, but becoming distant really hurts, no matter if she thinks we're just friends, I'm down for anything with her, but being distant like this just sucks. Should I just bring up how I'm feeling? We're both in our early 30's by the way

Should I talk to my friend about her becoming distant since we went out?
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