He should join judo or self defense class, he is sad because he knows he can't defend himself not because these words actually hurting him
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This is not the best but still good advice from me that i used to apply when i was bullied back in HS: I bully them back to the point they get tired of it cuz it makes them feel like a fool. Also u gotta pretend to be brave to stand your ground until u finally forget that you're just pretending as you're stomping on their egos
Kids are not like adolescents. They really expect some kind of appreciation. And they really take insults or something of similar nature seriously. They, hence, need to be handled really carefully.
You have the explosive way and the systematic way. Explosive would be to confront the bullies directly, systematic being talking to the management at the school. Try systematic first and then if it doesn't work then explosive.
Build him up tell him the truth tell him that this happens to everybody they’re just haters when they get older they will mature and they will change right now ignore them
Get a couple of friends and stick up for him. There's one of him and 2 or more bullies or however many. If you show up in numbers it ends real quick with no altercation.
Ur 14 you would get away with slapping some 7 year Olds around real talk, tell them next time they mention his face you gonna make their face turn black and blue
Visit his school, talk to the teachers and principal. If any teacher is hitting him or molesting him, call the cops. If his class mates are bullying him, talk to their parents.
Hey listen? You tell your parents and teacher's? This could damage his mind for the rest of his life and make him suicidal? Make sure you do this Sis? And your a little hero?
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You can’t. He has to stand up for himself. Last thing he need is sister kicking ass of people he can’t handle. They will crucify him
No i don't want to fight them I want to help him belive he is worthy, loved, and handsome
No one can do that for another. He can’t find that through you or any other human. God alone…
He should join judo or self defense class, he is sad because he knows he can't defend himself not because these words actually hurting him
This is not the best but still good advice from me that i used to apply when i was bullied back in HS: I bully them back to the point they get tired of it cuz it makes them feel like a fool.
Also u gotta pretend to be brave to stand your ground until u finally forget that you're just pretending as you're stomping on their egos
Ask him who's saying the stuff and talk to the school. Kids need to be punished for hoe they are treating their peer.
Go to his school and have a talk to the teachers or principal. That would be the best approach to go for...
still figuring this out for myself. I would say "tell him to ignore them", but that's hard for kids
Kids are not like adolescents. They really expect some kind of appreciation. And they really take insults or something of similar nature seriously. They, hence, need to be handled really carefully.
You have the explosive way and the systematic way.
Explosive would be to confront the bullies directly, systematic being talking to the management at the school.
Try systematic first and then if it doesn't work then explosive.
Build him up tell him the truth tell him that this happens to everybody they’re just haters when they get older they will mature and they will change right now ignore them
Get a couple of friends and stick up for him. There's one of him and 2 or more bullies or however many. If you show up in numbers it ends real quick with no altercation.
Yet again horrible advice
@Calenderagressive You're a sibling stick up for your family.
Ur 14 you would get away with slapping some 7 year Olds around real talk, tell them next time they mention his face you gonna make their face turn black and blue
Amen 🙏
Teach him how to knock their teeth out. He might get suspended for a few days but few people will mess with the kid who throws a good punch.
Visit his school, talk to the teachers and principal. If any teacher is hitting him or molesting him, call the cops. If his class mates are bullying him, talk to their parents.
Hey listen? You tell your parents and teacher's? This could damage his mind for the rest of his life and make him suicidal? Make sure you do this Sis? And your a little hero?
Take him to a good dojo for a few years and that will solve the problem.
be there for when he comes out of school let him walk by you the folow behind and see it's what I done it helps as surport with get involved
Get him into doing physical exercise to improve his physique and muscle mass. Have his dad teach him how to throw a punch.
Martial arts or just find something sporty to get him started building confidence.
At 7, I think you can start learning martial arts, I heavily recommend it because it builds confidence and his body!
Talk to your parents about enrolling him in a self defense class. And ask them to complain to the school.
get him into a martial arts school to start training