I have been in a ldr with someone for over a year now. She lived in Colombia, but got asylum and is now living with friends in California. I am going to see her in 2 days.
I woke up this morning to being blocked on everything because someone sent her messages that showed my number and picture planning to visit one of her friends in Colombi in December. The only problem with that is that I didn't write those messages, i don't know who did, and I can't explain that to her or defend myself. She just blocked me.
I contacted her best friend in Colombia to explain the situation, that I will be there in 2 days, but she doesn't want anything to do with me over something that I didn't do. Her friend said that she needs to get her phone fixed but will try to help because she believes me.
How do I prove that it wasn't me who wrote those messages when it looks like they came from me? I am obviously blind sided by this and can't explain that I didn't do it. Should I go to California to see her anyway?
Any advice would be helpful
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Sounds like you were scammed? Run your credit and criminal background
Yes I have fraud alerts already for several years. It is a matter of how to convince my girlfriend that I didn't write the messages since she sent screenshots that say it was my number, had my photo and knew a lot about our relationship. Not many people actually know about our relationship, it is just a few of her friends and my friends and our families. All I know is that we were talking about going to Disneyland, she went to work and I went to bed and I woke up to being blocked everywhere with her last messages screenshots of a conversation that i didn't have.
Hopefully, it was not her?
Why you dating someone from ugh. Colombia? Find a woman of YOUR country and marry her, not some spinach.
She is in my country right now living in California.
Ugh. An immigrant then
Disgusting
I assume that you are not 100 percent native American, so that would make you an immigrant too.
I don't even live in America and I'm not American
Everyone should stay in their country
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