Is it weird/abnormal for a friend to go through your belongings in your room?

[Anonymous]

My friend/housemate went into my room while I was out and snooped through my belongings, and apparently has "sussed out" some private things about me based on what she found while going through them. How weird/abnormal is this or has anyone else's friends done this to them? Should I be concerned?

[Fanfare690]

Lol why would they even do that?
Why call them your friend? Obviously this is revenge right?

[Asker]

I have no idea. She said she only went through my things because she is "concerned about me" and because she considers me her best friend. Weird af

[Fanfare690]

Concerned about you? Did she offer any help?

[Fanfare690]

Sounds very suspicious

[Fanfare690]

I would never trust her again after that shit

[Asker]

Yeah I agree I'm finding it hard to trust her now.

[Fanfare690]

What a fucking creep loser
They have no right to go through your shit.
Who are they a parent or legal guardian of yours?
I've had this happen to me and they are all assholes

[OlderAndWiser]

That is extremely rude and grounds to immediately terminate the friendship.

[Asker]

I completely agree. I think it's strange also.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Chazmatazz269]

I don’t think it is. I’m a snooper. I know a lot of other snoopers.

[Asker]

So.. you go through people's personal things behind their backs? Good to know

[Chazmatazz269]

Not really “behind their backs”. They may or may not be watching me go through their stuff, but they all know that i’m a snooper. And i know who they are too. Who gives a shit? I’ve got nothing to hide and if they do they probably won’t invite me over.