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The biggest thing that I’ve realized you never really ready for a child but you don’t want to just have a child out of nowhere. Children are a blessing and never a mistake but they do feel whatever you feel towards the situation that puts them there in the first place.
You want to be somewhat prepared. That means prepare to give your life to them, and actually be able to focus on.
I'm not offended if you don't have kids. But I disagree with those who say earlier generations were fed propaganda as if it was a bad things for hetero families to exist and produce lots of kids. It was one of the foundations of civilization. Everything the "I'm non-binary" and "I know what's best for the world because my feelings tell me stuff" crowd do wouldn't even be possible without the many hetero families that were our ancestors. And it turns out that if you want long term stability as a society you need that too. 85% of the people in prison come from single mom homes. This is fact. Not feelings. It's not good to undo every ancient tradition just to make ourselves feel good.
People get offended by you making life choices that are the complete opposite of their own sometimes because it casts doubt on their own choices. Especially if the reason they didn't make the choice you did works out for you and not do good for them.
Because some people think that everyone should have babies. But truth is, not everyone can or wants to have & raise them. It's really like anything else society has for us. Don't date when you're younger? Some people will think you're sad and wasting your life by not doing so, even if you're happy. But the best thing to remember is that there's a lot to do in life, so nothing is wasted. Even simple things can make people happy daily.
Because society loves to push people to do things fast according to their standards but that’s not how things work.. my cousin didn’t have a baby till she was like 29 or 30 and that’s also because she was still getting financially stable, had other priorities then she met her now husband when she was 26.
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Because some people, especially older generations who were fed propaganda about nuclear families, etc. can't or won't understand the complexities that exist with becoming pregnant, giving birth, raising kids, and maintaining a livable existence in this world, at this point in time.
The younger generations are stressed, tired - beyond that - we're freaking exhausted and we're struggling just to exist. Many of us are drowning in debt, have numerous fears and medical / mental health concerns due to any number of items (gun control, systemic racism, school shootings, Black woman mortality rates, student loan debt, anti-abortion legislation, Republicans, etc.) This is a quick version of why we're hesitant on having kids. And for the most part, these are items of concern that some groups of people refuse to see as concerns.
People feel entitled to women's bodies and autonomy to the point that exercising our right to live our lives the way we want is considered pathological.
Also the fact that many parents project their own misery from having children. Almost like trying to convince themselves that they wouldn't have it any other way although they know damn well that they absolutely would if they could.
I say screw em! Some people have children in their 20's and 30's and shouldn't be parents.
I say, it happens when it happens and being a little older when you have children, is not a bad thing, as you tend to make better more mature decisions.
Yes to the first and only kind of to the second.
But the real point that needs to be emphasized is this and I am going to put it in all caps: DO YOU WANT CHILDREN? YES OR NO?
Children are a Yes or No question, there is NO MAYBE - especially if your answer is Yes. Couples that settle for ambiguity cause great destruction to themselves and the children they have.
Literally no reason. My husband got shit for having a kid "too young," my dad's girlfriend gets shit for having one "too old," my sister gets shit for wanting "too many," my other sister gets shit for wanting none! There is no making those type of people happy. They just want u to do whatever u don't do. They find wrong with everything. And I'm glad I don't talk to them much anymore.
There's an agenda going on by the right wing of pressuring white women to have more babies. its due to the 'great replacement' conspiracy which is just a load of nonsense perpetuated by white nationalist types aka nazi's.
so ignore those assholes. probably should block them too
Im always told me im selfish for not wanting kids. It’s wack honestly. Do they want me to birth an unwanted child that I won’t have any interest in?… like I don’t get it😂 not everyone has a motherly instinct. I feel it more with animals..
I don’t get offended if women don’t want children I’m a guy and hell I don’t want them either.
Everyone has a preference in life and just because you don’t want kids doesn’t make you a bad person. You do what makes you happy and f**k what others think.
People can't separate the fact they need to worry about themselves and their families and mind their own business when coming to others.
Because society expects us and conditions us to want marriage and children. So when one of us pushes back and goes for what we actually want, we get bullied and now, have our rights to prevent it torpedoed.
Because people are sheep. If you aren't a sheep like them, they get quickly offended. And it's usually the religious types that say you must have kids! You don't, you have a choice. Plus we have enough humans on earth.
Because they don't realize that many people have the right for those freedoms.
They do? I am in my late 40’s and no one gives me grief. They do however say it was smart of me not to have had children or have ever married.
because lack of children is probably the single most detrimental thing to western society right now.
Because it’s outside the norm. And for a lot of people anything outside the norm makes them question your other life choices. But most importantly it makes them question their own choices.
At least not having a child is better than being a single mother, right? You are not raising potential criminals at the very least.
Because you’re putting your uterus and period pain to waste.
you’re not worth your periods.
if anyone's offended i just kindly remind them that this is me we're talking about and they'll get it. Not exactly father material.
Jealous that they made a mistake having kids early with the wrong person and you didn't
Because they don't believe the truth about overpopulation
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