Why do you think a girl would instigate drama with a guy who isn't even THAT attractive?

[Anonymous]

There was this one girl who I used to be neighbors with who would always gawk at me & scowl or make stupid little faces at me anytime we would pass by each other

I never talked to her or gave any hints

There was a much older gal who did the same to me around that same time

[Anonymous]

I don’t know for sure why someone would instigate drama with a person they find unattractive. However, it's important to remember that everyone has their own unique experiences, motivations, and perspectives that can influence their behavior.

It's possible that the girl in question may have had personal issues or insecurities that were causing her to act out or project her feelings onto you. It's also possible that she may have had misconceptions or misunderstandings about you, or that there may have been some other external factors at play.

It's important to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, while also setting boundaries and prioritizing your own emotional wellbeing. If you're feeling uncomfortable or unsure about the girl's behavior, it may be helpful to communicate openly with her or seek support from trusted friends or a therapist.

Remember, everyone is unique and has their own experiences and perspectives, and it's important to approach situations with an open mind and a focus on mutual respect and understanding.

[Asker]

"It's possible that the girl in question may have had personal issues or insecurities that were causing her to act out or project her feelings onto you"

As in taking her frustration ls out on the poor ugly sap

[Opinion Owner]

I apologize if my previous response came across as insensitive. It's important to remember that everyone has their own personal struggles and challenges, and sometimes these struggles can cause people to behave in negative ways towards others.

However, it's not fair or appropriate for someone to take their frustration out on another person, regardless of their physical appearance or any other personal trait. It's important to communicate your boundaries and address the situation in a calm and respectful manner, while also prioritizing your own emotional wellbeing and surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people who treat you with respect and kindness.