Is it normal to feel like your mom doesn’t love you?

annabananna
I don’t think she hates me or anything is just think that she doesn’t care much about me. I feel like I’m the only one that makes any effort and if I stopped she will be fine not even talking to me. When I was younger she never spent time with me and I was always kinda just alone. I feel like she has more of a nonchalant care about me in the same way you would an aquaintance.
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9 mo
I usually keep my mouth shut but she is always talking bad about my dad who has passed and telling me things that even if are true I don’t need to know. I told her all she is doing is hurting people by talking bad about him and some of the stuff she told me when I was a kid about him was pretty damaging to me. I told her she needs to think before she thinks when she is talking about people. She told me she just won’t speak to me then.
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9 mo
I rarely say anything but when I express my feelings she will just not speak to me for a long time. I feel like she doesn’t even care that she hurts me when she talks about my dad.
Is it normal to feel like your mom doesn’t love you?
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