For exampleI have amarried sister who lives with her husband. I, my brother never butt in in her life when it comes to her house decisions on things but she believes as she is the older sibling has the right to tell us what to do when we have to decide how we take care of mom I mean me and my brother are the ones living with our elderly mom we are her kids too. I know my sister also worries about mom things as since she does not live with us she believes she can't have the control of knowing everything about mom and we as her other kids we dont do the things the way She wants not the way my brother and I feel it is the best way or the proper way. I mean oif course we always tell ouru sister what we do, but sometimes my sister believes we do not do enough or it is not the best way to proceed. Liek I said she does not live in the house we are with mom 24 hrs so we know how things work at home. When it comes to my sister house I never got involve in things related to HER house and neither my brother. My sister is very intense and nagging. She is one of those ladies that gets upset if we dont text her right away when she text us first, even if she text us and she expects a response almost immediately not the next day not like 8 hrs later.
She then comes to our house to complain why the house is inot in good maintenance but then agan she does not do anything like to collaborate ($$) to help anything in our house, she lieks to nag and quetion and complain in things around the house but she financially does not give enough money. Yes our house is old and need many different repairs, but we can't afford to have many repairs at the same time, only one by one and it can take a lot of time to get one thing repaired if we think we have the money to do it. Instead in her house if something needs to be fixed it is immediately fixed and she is married to a family judge who earns well.
