My family called her cold hearted and selfish woman that didn’t give a rats ass about me for a decade. She abandoned be when I was 7 in a half and left my dad to raise me alone. My late dad even called my mom a bitch right in front of me and didn’t care. He said I’m old enough and he can say those words around me since I’m an adult. I had just turned 18 at the time. My best friends called my mother a selfish, cold blooded bitch for abandoning my dad and why am I grieving over a woman that didn’t want me. She didn’t deserve empathy.
I screamed at them but they told me it was the truth and I refused to accept it. My mom didn’t just leave. She wrote us letters and sent us post cards. She responded to me once in a while and never thanked me for the Mother’s Day of birthday gifts I sent her and people told me to stop sending them and she doesn’t deserve them. My dad told me to stop calling my mother a good mom and faking having a loving relationship when she is garbage. No offense but it’s the truth.
My late dad had no filter and he was BLUNT.
Did I have the right to be upset at my family that insulted my late mother?
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she sounded like a terrible mother and people can have their own opinion of her just like you can have your own opinion of her, people grieve in different ways
True but they didn’t have to insult my mother and say all those brutal comments about her.
yeah i know i think since it upsets you they shouldn't say stuff like that to your face but you also need to accept that your mum was far from perfect
Yeah, that shows a big lack of respect.
Right? Thank you! Someone understands! My family insulted and lacks sympathy for her. I know she was a lousy mother but she was my mother and nobody has the right to disrespect her in front of my face and my dad was wrong to call her a bitch and a cunt in front of me. That’s so rude. My family is kind but they can be so rude sometimes.
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