Why is my mother so EVIL…?

[Anonymous]

I’m the middle child out of 4, as well as the only girl. My mother is pure poison, she puts me down, tells lie after lie. Treats me like dirt but not her precious boys oh no, my brothers cannot do no wrong in her eyes. This woman makes me mentally ill & the fact that I absolutely hate her with a passion. I’m the way I am today because of her neglect towards me as a kid. I have been diagnosed with childhood trauma psychosis. This woman had a choice, either give up her job & take care of me or I’d be taken into the care of the local authorities. She chose her job, I was taken away from my family due to her neglect. I was & still am treated like sh! t by her. What I’m asking is… is it normal to feel so much hatred towards this woman the woman that has destroyed my life?

[Mynameisbobby]

Definitely normal to hate her. I went through the same thing with my mother, she hated me because I was born a boy and let my older sister beat me everyday. My sister would accuse me of stealing things from her room which I never did as I was too scared to go in her room. It was just an excuse for her to beat me. They both treated me like a dog literally. I ran away from home at 13 and moved in with my uncle who adopted me. I've been in therapy since and I still have nightmares about the abuse. My sister was treated like a queen she would get new clothes my clothes came from goodwill which most were too small for me. My sister would pull me by my shirt collar like I was a dog if I didn't go with her when she grabbed my shirt she would just pull until she ripped it off me. She slapped my face and when I would tell my mother all she would say is I must have done something to deserve it. My sister ended up in prison and the day she was sentenced she looked at me and said she will kill me when she got out. She was released this past April and I don't know if she is still coming after me or not. I don't care where my mother is. I hate both of them. I know how you feel.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe she's related to my ex-sisters and ex-cousins!

[Anonymous]

No pretty normal to hate her!

So went through something similar very common in Chinese families where us girls are hated while boys are loved to carry on the name but are useless!

Married kids and still they have never seen my kids I treat them right and don't verbally abuse them... Maybe a spanky for running into the street but after I explain why I did it.

Don't just scream at them for being dumb stupid and little shits...

[AngryCarl2]

Either she's a psychopath or she's suffering from her own unresolved childhood trauma.