Part 1 of the dream— Was I in the wrong for leaving behind my friend?

[DizzyDesii]

So, I was back in high school unfortunately. I went onto the wrong floor of the school so I tried to find the nearest elevator. The button of all places was located on the ceiling and the only person nearby, an extremely tall janitor, refused to reach it for me. So I headed down this weird lookin stairwell where some steps go down but at a certain point, they go back up, like the shape of the letter V or W.

A girl coming through told me, the other side was blocked so I turned around but my foot slipped while trying to get back onto the original floor with the janitor. My body was leaning backwards over the stairwell with my heavy backpack pulling me further down. Bt i couldnt remove it because my hands were slipping off the top of the stairwell/floor. I called the janitor for help but he kept ignoring me and i couldnt pull myself up fully. Others had the same issue but he immediately ran to their help.

Just when i was about to let go and fall, a classmate (nyesha) ran over to help me. I decided to go around a different way to find a familiar classroom but noticed a bunch of water leaking through the cracks of the door and in another area I see a tub with no faucet steady filling with water and overflowing. Then around another hall, I see a high amount of water waves rushing against a glads door, trying to break through. So, I go a different way but notice a waterfall of water has began flooding in.

My old friend (lizzie) gets in a car thats somehow inside the building, but it looks like she's tryna trap herself inside to off herself rather than just shelter from the water. I scream for her to come on but then try to save myself so i leave. I hear the sound of water rushing down a dark stairwell. I run to classrooms checking for students but realize theyre all abandoned and I hear them screaming in panic, flowing down the dark stairwell. Water begins rushing through all the doors so I take my chances and join the others.

#FeelFreeToList #DreamALittleDream

[Lliam]

You weren't wrong. In the dream, you were sort of powerless from start to finish. Everything you tried to do was thwarted. That's what the dream was about.

So there was nothing you could do for your friend.

One of my most common types of dreams is similar. I'll go someplace where I have to be on time. Right when I get there, I remember that I forgot something that I need. So I try to rush back home to get it, but I don't know the way and wind up running around in strange streets and places like empty, confusing shopping malls and stairs that get steeper and steeper once I am on them. The landscapes are very vivid.
All the while I am thinking that I have to hurry to get back to the place I needed to be.

They're those kinds of busy dreams. Like my mind won't rest.

So anyway, your friend was just another prop in your frantic dream. No worries. It was just a dream. Dreams are weird.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea the thought of not being in control in moments where i need to be sucks. And wow i’ve had similar dreams to yours!! Imm scared of what you’ll say about part 2 though…

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, Des. :-)

[RavVid]

Well if you didn't save yourself you couldn't go get help to save you friend. So you did the right thing. Your dream brings back to mind the engineering school I went to.

Back in the day when real engineering students were real engineering students they did some epic practical jokes if the stories were true. Like taking a small car up to the deans office, removing steps from stairs, that sort of thing etc.

By my time it had got very tame. I can't remember us doing a single practical joke. Except that one time we got the Science Faculty banned for drunken disorderly behavior.

[DizzyDesii]

So they did like on full house when they parked the principals car on the roof of the building lol

[RavVid]

Yes. It was a good joke. I don't how they managed to do it but it was a very small car so probably six guys could pick it up.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think the dream means that when you withhold private details from your life for your self protection, don’t do it in a way where creating false information is needed to maintain your privacy. Jordan Peterson said you have to learn to hide information without lying, if you want to do the right thing, without offending others or sabotaging yourself.

[DizzyDesii]

I hardly keep anything private lmao

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

You can't be in the wrong, because it was a dream. Normal rules and expectations go out the window. lol.

[DizzyDesii]

But if it were real, was i in the wrong

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Nah, you weren't. She didn't listen, so her fate was on her.

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks

[iron_ninjs]

That's some weird ass dream you had.
I often have dreams where I'm back in highschool, but they're not usually that weird.

[DizzyDesii]

Was i in the wrong

[iron_ninjs]

If there was no way of saving your friend, without you being caught up by the water, you weren't wrong for leaving.

[DizzyDesii]

Okay good

[Christoff92]

No. Got to look at those with great impersonations and catch on.

[DizzyDesii]

I was traumatized from nearly drowning but i’d definitely feel awful if this happened forreal because me picking him up in the first place made him my responsibility

[DreamLife7]

I would go to dreammoods. com lol it breaks down your dream meaning

[DizzyDesii]

Ooo thank you

[Jerre]

Heck of a dream. About the only dreams I can remember in detail are sex dreams.

[DizzyDesii]

Was i in the wrong for leaving behind the girl

[Jerre]

No, you were not wrong.

[electromagnetic]

Wasn’t wrong at all.

[DizzyDesii]

Like girl you better come on here 🤣

[exitseven]

wow that is really disrturbing.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea it was

[legalboxers]

you did what you thought was right

[DizzyDesii]

Not even sure if i was thinking tbh

[SunnyRS]

Was there a way for you to reach her in the dream?

[DizzyDesii]

I could get in the car with her but she wasn't getting out and water was rushing in

[SunnyRS]

I see, then it's not about right or wrong, it's about survival, you chose your survival more important than hers

[DizzyDesii]

Ahh yea this does sound better

[SunnyRS]

Exactly, no need to feel bad about it

[Sparkie460]

How rude. 🤔