What is your opinion of those women who use surrogate to have a baby because they are scared?

[Anonymous]

I mean these women are in perfect health and young but they dont want to give birth the natural way but they want to become a mother badly.

For example Paris Hilton just had her second child (a daughter) this time after havign her first son just 10 months ago!!! Both kids were via surrogate.

Paris in several interviews had stated the reason she never like the idea to give birth the natural way. The reason for her to use surrogacy is:

"Because she's witnessed childbirth and it deterred her. When I was in ‘The Simple Life,’ I had to be in a room when a woman was giving birth and that traumatized me," she said, adding that even if she was 20, she would still have a baby with the help of a surrogate.

Another reason is because she's "scared." "It’s just the physical part of doing it. I’m just so scared… childbirth and death are the two things that scare me more than anything in the world.”

She also explained how experiencing abuse while in high school at Provo Canyon in Utah has made her hesitant to seek the medical care she would need during a pregnancy and childbirth.

“I’m just so scared," she said. "Leading back to Provo of even being in a doctor’s office, just all of that, the shots, the IVs that they put in."

Those are the reason Paris uses surrogacy and she is young and healthy.

What do you think of Paris and her reasons or women who also could be in the same shoes as Paris?

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5 mo

The exception here is to those women who for health reasons can't give birth.

[HornyThumper]

Verse 1 Corinthians 7:3 reads "Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband." This verse clearly states that it is the duty of a wife to provide sexual pleasure to her husband. It is her responsibility to fulfill his desires, and if she cannot do so through the natural means of childbirth, then she must find another way to please him.

Now let us consider these MILFs who choose to use surrogacy instead of bearing their own children. Some may say that they are shirking their duties as wives and mothers by refusing to endure the pain and hardship of childbirth. But I say unto you, what is more important: the method by which a child is brought into this world, or the love and devotion that a BBW can give to her offspring?

If a GILF feels called to motherhood but is unable to carry a child herself, then surely she should not be condemned for seeking out alternative methods. Is it not better for her to bring a life into this world, even if it is not through her own body?

And let us not forget the blessed gift of the seed of man, the holy spunk that brings forth life from within a PAWG's womb. If a woman chooses to utilize a surrogate, she is still providing her husband with the opportunity to sow his seed and create new life. This act alone is a testament to the power and beauty of God's plan for marriage and procreation.

So I say unto you, let us not judge these women who seek surrogacy as a means of becoming mothers. Let us instead embrace them as fellow sinners striving to fulfill their divine purpose in life. And let us remember that there is no shame in utilizing modern technology to achieve the holy goal of bringing new life into this world, or utilizing OnlyFans like @bigassbeeyatch does it, to please your virtual husbands. Amen.

[DecalFong]

@krakenattackin that fucker only got deactivated because he leaked his IP address yesterday on @butthurt_troll account while BT was frozen.

[DecalFong]

So you're frozen too...

[YesterdaysChild]

You may also recall that Abraham had a son by Hagar because Sarah could not conceive? She finally had a son when she was 90 years old.

[WіllReportu]

Oh, where to begin with such a delectable topic. As the self-appointed defender of all things virtuous and woke, I must first state that any criticism of women's reproductive choices is tantamount to hate speech. How dare you even suggest that there is something wrong with a woman's decision to use a surrogate? These brave, beautiful souls are nothing short of modern-day saints, sacrificing their own bodies and well-being to bring life into this world.

And oh, Paris Hilton, her fear of childbirth is completely valid and should be respected by all. We cannot expect every woman to endure the pain and trauma of pushing a human being out of her vagina, especially when the act itself is so phallocentric and patriarchal. By choosing surrogacy, she is taking control of her own narrative and rejecting societal expectations. It is truly inspiring.

As for those who share her fears and concerns, they too should be applauded for their bravery and commitment to motherhood. The road to parenthood is not an easy one, and anyone who chooses to embark on that journey deserves our utmost respect and support. Whether through adoption, surrogacy, or traditional methods, every family is a miracle and should be cherished.

So, to all the naysayers and haters out there, I say this: keep your misogyny and toxic masculinity to yourselves. Women's bodies are not yours to judge or criticize. And if you don't like it, well, tough luck. The future is female, and there's nothing you can do about it. And if anyone tries to tell you otherwise, just hire @dolllover to stuff their anus with a giant dildo until they cry uncle. Because that's what real men do. I now have some rainbow-colored dildos to polish. Get reported.

#SurrogacyIsValid #FemaleEmpowerment #ProudSoyboyCuckold #RespectWomen #NoMoreToxicMasculinity

[loveslongnails]

I was with you on the aspects of choices, but this is where you went screaming off the tracks: " pushing a human being out of her vagina, especially when the act itself is so phallocentric and patriarchal." Giving birth is "patriarchal"? As if it were somehow designed by MEN? How stupid can you be? Don't answer that, I don't want to know. It's not even worth the energy to respond to beyond this.

And by the way, snarkass, SOME WOMAN somewhere went through the pains of childbirth to give up that child for adoption, or to BE that surrogate. Your ONLY valid point is in regard to whether a woman is any less qualified or likely to love a child she did NOT physically give birth to in order to avoid the pain and discomfort involved. Stick to that and keep your self-righteous bullshit to yourself.

[YesterdaysChild]

Paris Hilton has had bigger penises in her vagina than a baby is. Why would she worry about that?

[Anonymous]

I find it funny how people applaud adoption, if Paris would have adopted children, it would have been fine but people have surrogacy. It’s her choice what she does with her body and she has the money to do it. She doesn’t have to give birth. There is no rule saying so, not to mention Paris is in her 40’s, well over the age of healthy childbirth.
I personally don’t like childbirth and don’t want to go through it, I don’t care how glorious and natural it is, I don’t want to go through it. If I could afford a surrogate I would. People will shame you because you didn’t naturally give birth to your child because it’s “a natural part of being a woman that you experience” well so is periods. And almost any woman I know who has periods would love to either lighten or get rid of them. And not having a period doesn’t make you any less of a woman.

[sage2021]

I had my son in 1978 before social media scared the living shit out of women to give birth. I honestly had no fears when I got pregnant. I never had morning sickness. All my friends and family that gave birth didn't have any problems. One was 16 when she has her first baby and didn't mention a word about the actual birth. We just didn't talk about it. Scaring each other wasn't something we did back then.
So, if all these women are so scared to give birth on their own you can thank social media for scaring you.

[IslaTheWitch]

Given that everyone has their own fears, I am not surprised. Childbirth remains a potentially perilous event, despite advances in medicine. A lot can happen to both the mother and the child.

Having undergone three natural childbirths, I would be the last person to insist that every mother should go through it. It should be her right to decide. As long as some women are willing to take the risk for financial reasons, I don't see any problem.

Fortunately, my childbirth experiences were not traumatic. I wouldn't be opposed to having more kids.

[Rei13]

The idea of giving birth to a child is terrifying so I can understand why some women might go a different route even if they don’t have to. I mean if you can afford it all the power to you. I remember being in 5th or 6th grade (so I was around 10/11) and in a health class they showed us a woman giving birth. Uncensored. I’m good lol. Also my mom had a ton of issues with her pregnancies and that could potentially be me too. Now that I’m older I want kids but being able to skip over pregnancy/childbirth would be great but if/when I have children it’ll be the natural way

[A_Bell]

Your body doesn't completely mature unless and until you have a child. Breast tissue remains undeveloped and that is an increased risk for breast cancer. There are also other physiological and more importantly psychological changes that are important to human development.

If you can pay the entry fee out of fear and not actual disability, you really are ready for the responsibility of a child.

[Friendlybro79]

@A_Bell plenty of people that give birth willingly aren't responsible enough to have children. Your thought that you have to give birth to be ready and responsible to raise a child isn't something you can say to be true for everyone.

[Anonymous]

For simply being scared? If you are truly that fearful, you bought into propaganda. Healthcare has never come so far and its so safe compared to years passed.

This is a complicated topic that has a wide variety of viewpoints. Personally I feel its availability has one obvious pro and some cons.

Pro:
-It gives Infertile women the chance to have children of their own of their own dna.

Cons:
-Human traffickers can use it to buy and sell infants.
-Takes away from those looking to be adopted.
-Contributes to the view of human life as not valuable until out of the womb. Ie designer babies. Buying and selling infants.

[syncheart]

I watched Paris Hilton's documentary about herself. I honestly don't know what to make of her. Life isn't easy for a lot people. A part of me feels bad for Paris, but another part of me feels like she's spoiled. Right now an old saying just came to me. It says something like this: You can't truly live until you learn how to die. Nothing in life is totally safe, and the reality is we all will face death sometime. I think Paris needs to grow up, and face her fears. The majority of women have babies and do just fine. Just about all of us get into Cars don't we? They are like death traps. You have a baby like once or twice or maybe three times in your life, depending. That is nothing in comparison to how often you risk your life driving or being driven around in a car.

[RoseySarah]

Adoption adoption adoption!

Being a nurse so understand the fear but your making someone else do it for you when really there needs to be more people helping adopt and foster!

Breedings vs adoption pet debate but using someone else is never the answer yes even if you pay them it's using them.

[YesterdaysChild]

Probably because they want to keep their figure and not gain weight. These are also the ones who have a nanny instead of doing the mothering themself.

[236color]

Is this really a thing? My impression was, given the expense and difficulty finding a surrogate, it was done by fairly well off women who had actual medical problems carrying a child. While I'm certain women do have some fears regarding childbirth, it seemed to me, those that wanted children, wanted to bare them themselves.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Some women have phobias around pregnancy and you can't blame them. A living, human being growing and moving about beneath your skin- bro that's terrifying 💀

[Apple1996]

I think it's fine. Some women just fear birth and their body changing. I plan on being a surrogate in the future and would do it for a mom like this.

[Raaj4you]

I don't think it's wrong or bad idea. But why would you like to go for surrogacy when you are healthy and strong enough to conceive a baby?

Initially, It looks scary but it's a wonderful life changing experience which no Men can experience. The happiness you feel when you conceive and the pain you feel while giving birth to a baby can turn you into the most loving and caring mother bcoz that baby came from inside your body. You will cherish this event for your entire life.

[Holsen]

Well personally my mother has born 3 childs that way because of a medical condition and for a long time , and actually even bow I still belive that it is the most common and used method in stead of natural birth!!

[sheikalana]

Pathetic. If you do not have a medical condition you should not be using a surrogate in my opinion. A woman’s body is ready to go through a pregnancy and childbirth.

[Flatmanlewis]

No real opinion on the matter but I think Paris Hilton is generally a pretty trash person and don’t expect much from her as far as being admirable in any way.

[HelpfulWoman]

its an expensive thing that is open for people to use. at least since in the Uk, it's expenses covered only rather than profit being allowed and therefore open to exploitation

[OlderAndWiser]

It is tempting to judge her her her actions, especially because she leads a very sheltered and privileged lifestyle, but I don't know all that she has been through.

[Anonymous]

i can understand that. also, with paris' situation... not so sure if it's just because of being scared like she says, or her age. she is 42. i think 40 is pushing it when having a child. but 42? now that's scary.

[lightbulb27]

She needs to go to church and go into nursing and face her fears of death. Maybe get into dirt biking too. she's too shelteted…. Bad parenting

[AmeerX]

If you are a religious person then you should know God is one who gives children.

But if you desire children you should adopt orphans if you can't have children of your own. God will guide you in the right direction.

[Ironic_Method]

Nothing wrong with not wanting to go through the process of being pregnant and/or wanting to be a mother without that. Nothing wrong with being a surrogate mother if you're being compensated either.