I don’t enjoy spending time with my family and they don’t give me the right energy for me to achieve my goals. How do I tell them I don’t want to?

I live in a city nearby. And with how much I have to come back for all these events (holidays, birthdays, mothers/Fathers day) they comment about how I should come move back there. I am not happy here and want to start my life over in the city (lived in thr city for 4 years), fall in love, and grow my career. I want to keep them at an arms length. However they’ll ask me what I could possibly have going on that I can’t make it back there…🤦‍♀️

I don’t enjoy spending time with my family and they don’t give me the right energy for me to achieve my goals. How do I tell them I don’t want to?
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