Do you have or ever had to deal with a toxic family member?

[Anonymous]

Sadly I do, it’s my dad. He treats me the worst way possible sometimes and lacks compassion and empathy for me and treats me like I’m still a child even though I’m 25 years old. I’ve never felt like I could talk to him about a thing because he either yells at me or judges me for it and it hurts my feelings so bad… unfortunately I have to deal with him till my fiance and I can afford a place. I felt like my childhood was also robbed for how my father held me back from doing a lot as a teenager and controlled me. I do finally feel like I’m living again with my fiance and I’m so grateful but regardless it affects me.

[ohsheeT]

So do you know who you are and what you're all about do you like yourself are you confident are you happy are you smart can you smile if so then you are your own person

I'm not going to say what your dad has done is right or wrong. Just because they're the adult doesn't mean they know what the fuck they're doing so they win it and they try their best some are a little bit more pushy than others some are a little bit angrier in their life than others but did he try to give you the best that he could give you just because he doesn't know that he's wrong it's just because nobody has taught him the right way so you as an adult can say hey Dad remember when this happened and tell him how you feel it's not a big deal anymore it's over with it's done forget about that life and move forward if you hang on to all that garbage it's going to hold you back forever.

Just because he's your father doesn't mean you can fire back at him and tell him how you feel you would probably respect that then you just whining and taking his crap.

I don't mean to sound like a dick but there comes a time and a place where you have to stand up for yourself and it sounds like your time is now you don't have to disrespect him just say whatever you have to say the way that you would want it said to you

[Jmmmfi4]

YES... I DEALT WITH MUCH THE SAME THING WITH MY COCK SUCKING FATHER. THANKFULLY HE DIED.

[Asker]

Wow my heart goes out to you.

[Luméa]

I'm sorry you're experiencing this🥺💗💗

If this is still affecting you, I suggest you go to therapy. And I suggest you set and maintain boundaries with your father.

[Asker]

Thank youuu. Much well appreciated. Happy holidays to you also❤️I do plan to get therapy soon once I get my work schedule sorted out. Right now it’s kind of messy and I need the money but I know mental health matters.

[Luméa]

How to set boundaries with parents at any age-terri Cole
You can watch this

You are welcome

Happy holidays to u dear

Best wishes, hope u will be fine ♥️

[Anonymous]

everything that you said, except change dad to mom

[Anonymous]

Yeah, until I turned 18 and said fuck them.

[RedInnocent68]

Unfortunately, many.