Your Best friend gets Drunk and talks some Shit about you TO you and No one else. Would you Forgive the Friend or Part ways?

[pervertedjester]

Long story short I said some things when I was drunk I shouldn't have had to my Best friend. (I can't remember what I said at all.) He claims it was "very disrespectful" but won't tell me what I said, so I can't apologize properly. (Even though I've tried 3 times already.) He has gone so far as to tell me to "Loose my number." Even after I pointed out to him my mental state as of late, he refuses to make exception for it. This is the first time we've been at odds in the five years we've known each other. According to other friends he is being overly butthurt about it and should try to understand my side. Still I can only speculate the issue, as he refuses to talk to me. What's your takeaway? How would you handle it?

[NewgodOmega]

Depends on how far he goes, I dont take things after a certain limit. I don't care who it is what state that person is or what that person does after I cut them do
I walk out once and that's permanent not even god himself can change that. I have a shop in my neighbourhood I was a regular customer since 2015 in 2020 we had a argument and he said something bad that crossed my line its been 4 years I didn't buy a single thing from his shop I never went inside that shop and I never will, since we both live in the same neighbourhood he did tell me that he didn't mean it but I told him the same thing, not even god can change that now

[BoopBoopBeep]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/q5NzBze3bLo

If you were so blackout drunk you can't remember how you were talking shite about me, you're gone for two reasons, one, what you said, which you can't even make amends for since you were so sloppy, and two because I don't hang out with people who can't handle themselves any better than that. You're 44 not 21. Sorry man.

[Imsmurter1]

I get drunk and say stuff I regret a lot so I understand your situation. I think if I were on the other side it'd depend on what they said. If they said something that really got under my skin and into me I don't think I'd want to to be their friend anymore. Even if I forgive them for being drunk I just want to protect myself and not get hurt again. But I wouldn't blame them just for being drunk it's just for my protection.

[handsomelad70]

Depends on the ish. If it were drunk boy banter, I could forgive, but if it were malicious gossip, I'd tell him to, as they sang in "The Wiz," ease on down the road.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I forgave for 24 years, cut the dude out of my life almost immediately a few months ago. Talk all the shit you want, but don't ever pull your dick out!

[OtterMan68]

I'm a Christian. I must forgive. Doesn't mean forget, but I have to forgive.

[NathanDavis]

they do it sober too... no biggie