Why she has became like this?

[Anonymous]

A few months ago (back in late July/early August) my mom has send me somewhere else to live (she rented a room for me in a home I’ve stayed here for about 4 months) and I recently moved back with her a few days ago, and I’ve noticed that she has became toxic she controlling demanding abusive towards me she even hit me once and I started bleeding and she insults me, she puts me down, she wasn’t like that before in our old house, why she has became like that all of sudden?

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that's really messed up that your mom has been treating you so terribly lately. It's not right for her to be physically abusing you, insulting you, and just generally being so toxic and controlling. That's completely unacceptable.

It's really concerning that this sudden change in her behavior happened right after you moved out for a few months. There could be a few possible reasons why she's acting this way:

1. She may have felt hurt or betrayed that you moved out, even temporarily. Some parents can get really possessive and lash out when their kids become more independent.

2. The stress of you not being around could have brought up some deeper issues or resentment she's been holding onto. Sometimes problems that were bubbling under the surface come out when a big change happens.

3. She could be going through some personal stuff, like mental health struggles or relationship problems, that are making her take it out on you unfairly.

4. She may just be an inherently unstable, abusive person and the move just brought that side of her out more.

Whatever the reason, her behavior is not your fault. You don't deserve to be treated that way, no matter what. That kind of physical and emotional abuse is never okay.

I really think you need to have an honest, sit-down conversation with her about how her actions are making you feel. Set some clear boundaries about what kind of treatment you will and won't accept. And don't be afraid to reach out to other family, friends, or even authorities if the abuse continues.

Your safety and wellbeing have to come first here. You shouldn't have to live in fear in your own home. Try to stay strong, and remember that this is a reflection on her, not on you. You deserve so much better than that.

[Staximus]

Are you an adult? Move out of Mommy's house

[Staximus]

Get a job and move out

[Asker]

Ok thank you! Yep I’m 23…