Thoughts on outsourcing raising your kids?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There is so much…. Going on in this post that it hurts my heart and quakes my soul.

Like if a paycheck prevents your child from ending up on the street due to a loss in the family causing her to Widow or being hard on finances due to abandonment from the deadbeat father or inflation in rent also groceries has gotten a ‘grab by the balls’ on you then “chasing a paycheck” is more than falling on hard times some more.

Now imagine a single parent , does the father get this “he is chasing a paycheck that a**hole”? Of course not because he is providing for his family as it would be for a woman regardless of martial status. More money on the table is a good thing especially on hard times.

You are allowed if not obligated to put that stress behind knowing that you will be able to make childhood sweeter and near n dear childhood memories once you set aside time from the work. Though need to know to get that business done so, you don’t end up on the streets which is easier to dig yourself into debt than it is to dig yourself out.

This isn’t an attack on religion or atheists or anyway you people will try to spin it, it is about being a loving nurturing and provider for your kids. Being a woman shouldn’t be a ball in chain more than it already is in a lot of cultures, this is toxic AF.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Making the decision to have kids also includes what's best for the kids. My then-wife, mother of my kids, stayed at home and raised our 3 kids, while I worked as the breadwinner. It wasn't always easy but we did it, because it's best for the kids to have a stable home life with their parents.

I feel sorry for many parents today (actually, their kids) who think it's best to have 2 careers and farm their kids out to daycare and after-school care, so that they can afford expensive things for themselves and their kids.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

You must know that it wasn't ALWAYS like this. I don't believe that when a cave woman had her children that she outsourced them.

MemeSupreme · Accepted Answer

its okay to have others watch your kid and stuff but you should still BE INVOLVED in their life

Sal_Monella · Answer

My step daughter is permanently "outsourced". She is the daughter of a Streetwalker in SE Asia. The mother handed the baby off to her very old mother who could not take care of it. So she handed off the baby to a younger personal friend. My wife, and I raised her. She's 30 now.
No shit!

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

You mean daycare / nannies? Carers? I'm confused 😕🤔

DJB72 · Answer

In the process of moving my son out of government education and buying a homestead.

I can already teach him a lot of what he'll need in life - reading, writing and maths - and we can study the rest together as his reading improves.

Plus, he's excited to learn about farming and the process of raising pigs for bacon - and yes, he's ok with the idea that meat comes from animals and there's a difference between a pet and a meat animal.

exitseven · Answer

We made the decision that my wife would stay home and take care of our kids. She was home for 11 years. It was hard living on one income but it was better than having our kidsraised by strangers.

Wiredone · Answer

We sacrificed a lot so my wife can stay home and raise our kids. I did everything I can to cover the lost income. Thats what parenting is all about.

jazzy34 · Answer

Don't want to raise your children? Don't have any to begin with.

Staximus · Answer

People who don't have the time or don't want to put forth the effort to be good parents have no business being parents.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

like you push one out and immediately send it off until it's returned at 18 so you can kick it out again? i'm not sure i'm getting your full idea here?

douride2 · Answer

in my opinion if you can't look after your own children you shouldn't really be having any.

Anonymous · Answer

I was raised by a nanny and I turned out fine

Anonymous · Answer

given the nightmare stories in regards to sending their own children to school and childcare, home-schooling would have to be the best option by far

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I think someone would have to be kind of insane to voluntarily outsource raising their kids.

Anonymous · Answer

only problem is... without that paycheck, you cannot raise your kid... what a dim witted question

Anonymous · Answer

I would rather homeschool my kinds, if I had any.

WonderingManII · Answer

Parents should raise their own kids.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I don’t think about it because I wouldn’t do it.

shortster · Answer

I want to homeschool my kids

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